Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To tell a woman to control her kids?

28 replies

HarryPottersGlasses · 11/09/2008 16:28

We went to the RSPCA shelter this afternoon looking for a kitten. DS wanted to see the dogs so we went into the kennels bit and the dogs were going mental. Then we saw this boy (aged about 7) banging on the metal gates screaming "SHUT UP!! SHUT UP!" and his parents were stood there in stitches laughing at him. The dad then punched one of the kennel doors and stood there saying "COME ON YOU FUCKER! THINK YOU'RE HARD!" to a German Shepherd dog and the kid immediately copied him and kicked another kennel door with a very timid spaniel type dog inside (looking absolutely petrified) and shouted "GET HERE NOW! YOU LITTLE IDIOT!" and his dad burst out laughing and screamed at the german shepherd "SHUT THE FUCK UP YOU FLEA RIDDEN PIECE OF SHIT! I'LL RIP YOUR HEAD OFF YOU COCKY LITTLE BASTARD!"

My DS didn't know what the hell was going on. I went back through to reception to let them know what was going on and they came through and asked them to stop winding the dogs up. I then said to the mother "you should keep your kid under control, I hope they're not letting you adopt one of these animals" and I got a mouthful of abuse for it.

Was I being unreasonable in saying anything at all? should I have kept out of it?

OP posts:
FairLadyRantALot · 12/09/2008 22:42

surely you know it isn't unreasonable...therefore why ask?

LynetteScavo · 12/09/2008 22:47

Er.....

Why on earth would you say "you should keep your kid under control" When the father was behaving like a *&% and the child was obviously copying learned behaviour.

FairLadyRantALot · 12/09/2008 22:50

btw, I meant that op knw she wans't unreasonable, and therefore why ask and post about that in such way

New posts on this thread. Refresh page