i don't think i am. she has been his friend for nearly as long as i have known him and he has supported her through a lot of things, with my blessing. we even asked her to be DDs godmother. she has now started an argument with me accusing me of interfering with her friendship with DH.
i phoned her this afternoon with an innocuous question about a textbook that i had been told was needed for the course i'm starting. she's on the same course but a year ahead iyswim so i thought she would know if it was worth buying. DH and her had argued nearly a month ago and hadn't spoken since but i had told him i would be keeping out of it. so the conversation with her this afternoon was ok, got the info i needed. she then asks after DH so i tell her he was trying to txt her to tell her his phone was on the blink. apparently this constitutes my interference.
she has now phoned me ranting about how DH hadn't the balls to talk to her etc and i basically told her to stick it. i was and never have been that interested in her relationship/friendship with him, she's never been nor ever will be a threat to me and yet she's accusing me of being insecure{hmm} wtf she's not that important to me DH is pissed off that she's started on me tbh i think it was the drink talking. oh well, i suppose i'll never see the £50 he lent her months ago then
oh and DH has never been supportive not even the times she was having trouble with her ex and he sat in his car outside her house all night keeping an eye out, or the times he sat with her when the urge to self-harm was strong, or the times he ran her to a&e cos she had harmed herself, or the times i helped her with her coursework cos i had already done a similar course.......