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In being furious that my ex let a 19 yr old man play hide n seek with my little girls in a forest?

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2babesmum · 31/08/2008 21:28

The girls (5 and 7) have just got back from a weekend away with their dad and they've told me he went into the forest and one of my ex's friends met the three of them there.

They went off with this friend into the woods to play hide and seek, and their dad came to find them. I've already told my ex that he's not to have anything to do with his friends when he has the children because the majority are ex convict drug addits (no exaduration). Which he agreed to.

Now he says they just 'bumped into' this man (in the middle of a forest!) and the kids were bored so they all played hide and seek.

I've now told him that because I can't be sure that the children are safe when they're with him, he can't see them anymore at weekends which I hated but felt I had to do to protect the children.

Am I being unreasonable? This isn't the first time he's blatantly ignored my wishes. I know I'm not god but surely this can't be right?!

OP posts:
silvercrown · 02/09/2008 15:39

19 year old boys playing hide and seek with little kids?? What's wrong with it?? Nothing BUT doesn't it seema little bit strange?? Most 19 year olds wouldn't want to be seen dead with someone else's kids - they'd be out fixing up tatty old cars, or sleeping after a night out clubbing etc etc.

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