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To be annoyed about someone else having a photo of her and my dp as a profile picture??

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Aimsmum · 31/08/2008 20:29

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NutterlyUts · 31/08/2008 20:57

I would say to change your pic to a pic of you and DP She'll be able to see it and not do anything

ScottishMummy · 31/08/2008 20:59

be glossy,glam,serene about it But come bitch to all of us.wee love a blether about a bampot

TheNaughtiestGirlIsaMonitor · 31/08/2008 21:00

Does your boyfriend's profile say that he is with you?

Get him to change that. It will crop up on her mini feed "Mr Aimsmum is in a relationship with Aimsmum". All her mutual friends will see that. So she won't be able to perpetuate her lovely fantasy that he's her boyfriend.

Your boyfriend should agree to that in the circumstances. Tell him you wouldn't have dreamed of asking if it weren't for the fact that she's being a bit stalky. Tell him it's for his own sake.

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Aimsmum · 31/08/2008 21:05

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TheNaughtiestGirlIsaMonitor · 31/08/2008 21:09

Corr! I refer to my very first comment in that case. She is a sad case and no mistake.

VeronicaMars · 31/08/2008 21:14

Your dp should change his profile pic to a really nice pic of you and him!

I would be fuming about this as well and don't forget that men never see the problem with this physco behaviour but women do!

Not that I would feel insecure about it but I would be thinking 'who the f**k does she think she is?' Strange girl no wonder she is single.

I also have a lot of hatred for her on that act alone.

bonnibaby · 31/08/2008 21:16

YANBU.
How old is she ?
She sounds very young or a bit sad and desperate,
She would probably love the fact that she is winding you up so whatever you do dont let her know .

CrushWithEyeliner · 31/08/2008 21:20

another reason to DESPISE Facebook

purpleduck · 31/08/2008 21:44

OK, Childish revenge #1 - on your profile page you can put "Aimsmum is...wondering why people put profile pics of themself with other people's boyfrinds..."

Childish Revenge #2 - put loads of BAD pics of her on your page with the tag "just a lovely pic of friends on a night out"

What I would Do: Put a pic of you and dp, with him looking adoringly at you - make sure he uses the same pic as his profile pic..the fact that you have the same one will be so cutesy...make sure you both change the picture alot so she will be bombarded with one picture after another of you and dp looking nauseatingly happy together...

The High Road: Ignore ignore ignore. You have him, he loves you...she will probably move on if there is no drama attached to it all.

Good Luck!!

StayFrosty · 31/08/2008 21:46

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ScottishMummy · 31/08/2008 21:47

No! respond you look like possessive scary eyed nae smoke without fire, summit to be scared off bint.

ranting · 31/08/2008 21:51

Completely odd of her, don't think you're being odd at all.

Lock up your bunny at night, just in case though.

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Aimsmum · 31/08/2008 21:54

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solidgoldbrass · 31/08/2008 22:00

She is a deranged buckethead, ignore her. Your poor DP, as well: it's actually not much fun having someone repeatedly pester you like this - if all the genders were the other way round (ie you were a bloke posting about another bloke having photos of your girlfriend on Facebook) there would be suggestions of calling the police/restraining orders. Try not to take it out on DP, it really sounds like there is nothing he can do about it and he probably feels embarrassed and cross and doesn't want your feelings to be hurt but doesn't want to be brutal to the woman either.

colacubes · 31/08/2008 22:08

Oh shes a sad little thing, let her have her little pic, shes showing herself to be a nutbar, sad very very sad.

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Aimsmum · 01/09/2008 09:59

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Fimbo · 01/09/2008 10:06

I was in a long term relationship pre dh, my bf then had a girl who was besotted by him. She backed off once we got a place of our own together, but when we split up she made a beeline for him. (his mum told me). I don't think he took her up on it though.

My sympathies Aimsmum it is horrible.

Fimbo · 01/09/2008 10:07

YANBU (sorry forgot to add that)

stretchmarkqueen · 01/09/2008 10:19

Oooooh! She sounds quite mad!! Your dp sounds nice though, you're lucky he understands!

teenymummy · 01/09/2008 10:28

There was a girl who did exactly the same thing to my ex whilst I was with him. He had made friends with her whilst I was away at Uni and when I came back she would drape herself all over him, always sit next to him on a two seater sofa etc She actually kissed him while I was in the room once!!! I felt like dragging her outta the room by her hair and screaming at her! Even now after me and my then DP split it still gets to me! You do sound like you've got a good boyfriend though who respects how you feel even if he doesnt understand. Hang on to him and forget about the bitch!!

VictorianSqualor · 01/09/2008 10:35

FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAK

yanbu

zippitippitoes · 01/09/2008 10:41

yanbu

but she is trying to wind you up why who knows but i would just ignore her

and i would be there next time she is around in this group

Oblomov · 01/09/2008 10:44

The girl is clearly besottted. And she is doing a goood job of getting to you. If she saw this thread, she would think that things were going quite nicely - at upsetting you , if nothing esle.
Poor you.
You must talk to your dh. Ask him to be firmer with her. Tell her this has to stop or else he ...... won't even aknowledge her in future.
It has to come from him to be effective.

NotDoingTheHousework · 01/09/2008 10:46

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Oblomov · 01/09/2008 10:47

sorry dp, not dh. Not that this makes any real difference.

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