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should my son apologise?

29 replies

mou · 28/08/2008 11:37

a child at my DS's school, and from the same village has been verbally bullying my 10 yr DS for about 18 mnths. very sneaky and underhand but nice as pie to adults. DS says he has done it in front of this boys mother and she does nothing. i get on ok with mother, and our daughters are friends as well but she thinks its ok and my DS should just ignore it.

Yesterday my DS lashed out phsically. other child is milking situation and now my DS looks really bad, but he's not a bad kid, never seems to start trouble but gets wound up and then 'overreacts'

the other mother wants my DS to apologise and I in no way condone him
lashing out physically, but in his words
he's ''had enough and he's not putting up with it anymore''.

OP posts:
JT · 28/08/2008 12:50

tell her he'll get an apology when her son apologies for making his life a misery for 18 months

Lazarou · 29/08/2008 12:09

Any developments on the 'incident'?

bubblagirl · 29/08/2008 12:20

i would say get him to apologise and say im sorry i just couldnt handle xx bullying me anymore but i shouldnt have lashed out i should have told somebody how i was feeling i just had enough then it makes the point he was being bullied and just had enouigh but lashing out is wrong

bubblagirl · 29/08/2008 12:21

and he could also add i would like xx to say sorry for bullying me as i wouldnt have acted like this other wise

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