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AIBU To not follow through with a complaint because I felt I overreacted a tad in the first place

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shinyshoes · 15/08/2008 11:26

My DS1 and his cousin went swimming yesturday, they had them 'swim for free' Kellogs swim vouchers but when they went to the counter they were told to write their names and addresses on the back. His cousin asked 'why' and was told by the receptionist 'you don't need to know that'

I was absolutely gobsmacked when he came back and told me. 2 bugbears of mine, arrogance and rudeness. I can't abide either and I get so cross. I found her to have been very rude and straight away It got my back up.

Me going for the jugular like I do, phoned my cousin and asked her about the confidentiality and data protection act, what was going to happen to this information, who will have access to it, was it to be stored correctly. (We both work in schools and know that childrens information need to be stored correctly with restricted access to only the right people.)

She was livid, rung the pool demanding to know exactly what i had said, 'why the info was neeeded' etc, and would the receptionist have said what she said to an adult had they asked the same question. i doubt it.

The duty manager is going to give her a call today.

Apparently they want the information to to send information out about splash courses and fun swims and things, which is fair enough I suppose.

But she's absolutely adament I should compain too, that they shouldnt have asked unaccompanied children their private information, but to be honest I only flipped because of the rudenss shown to them.

Shall i follow through with the complaint. She can be quite persuasive and pushy when she wants to be my cousin.

OP posts:
HereComeTheGirls · 15/08/2008 12:14

no, its fine, I am as I was just typing nonsense (although trying to help), I blame my DD who kept me awake coughing all night

more · 15/08/2008 12:23

I can't believe that you did not just deal with the whole thing then and there instead of involving your cousin.

Why could you not just go back over there, verify that she had indeed said what she said and told her off and asked her not to speak to people like that again?

plantsitter · 15/08/2008 12:31

You don't have to complain about the woman though, do you? You can just complain about the pool's policy of asking children for their details. They shouldn't do it, and children should be taught to be a bit cautious about it, so well done your nephew. I doubt the receptionist will get into deep trouble for being a bit snippy to a kid in the middle of the summer hols. It's probably worth going ahead with the compaint if it makes them change their policy.

helskins · 08/12/2008 12:29

Hi im new to this i was just wondering if any one has any spare vouchers for swimmingi would be really grateful! Thanks. by the way i have no idea what CAT is!

overweightnoverdrawn · 09/12/2008 10:50

its usually small and furry and makes a mieow sound when you stroke it LOL

helskins · 09/12/2008 14:18

lol i have two of them at home thanks! but does anyone have any of the vouchers?!

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