To ask for some advice about something (also posted on chat)

[tellmedad]

Well ok where do I start....I'm in my thirties DW is in her forties and my best mate is in his twenties.

He fancies DW and is always making sexual remarks about her quite openly to me and her. although we have a laugh and joke about it I know that if given the chance he would iykwim!!

Now he does has a larger then average, manhood to say the least (mens showers and all that, before anyone asks!!) and have told DW this which she does like but only in jest...I think

Has anyone had the same thing and what do you think about it all?

tellme dad sucks his thumb and goes back to work

u'd be better off swinging if that's your cup of tea, imagine afterwards, what if they decide to carry on without you.

I'm going back to the yorkshire pudding thread

I don't know about the swinging my uncle and my ex-aunt were swingers in the early '80s. The all go pregnant around the same time, and let's just say that to this day the parents don't really know who the fathers of their babies are.

My friend does swing which is why he likes older women.

what do you think about that...tbh I'm totally confused

what do I think about swing? don't you think you should ask your wife this question..

Personally I think it's sleezy but I wouldn't judge anyone else.