to be sick of people asking me if i am slimming down for the wedding

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If one more person asks me I will smack them. I fucking well am not, i am fat, and i will fat when i get married.

I have quite enough to worry about at the moment, my life falling apart at the seams etc.

Its just so rude! argh.

Well said Cali. I married a month ago and i did not bother to loose weight. I am not a size 8 person and I was entering my marriage in a healthy mental state. If I had dieted I don't think I would have been half as happy as I was and still am.