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So, what do YOU consider a luxury in your house.

98 replies

lucyellensmum · 25/07/2008 12:53

I know i know, a thread about a thread, which i think was also about another thread. But i would like to ask the question from a different angle as apposed to one of being poor or hard up.

I don't consider the internet to be a luxury as such. This is because it is has practical use that makes life much easier. I couldnt have done my PhD without internet at home. DD would have been stuck with homework etc, we use it for my DPs business to contact clients etc. Saying that, its not an essential in the same way say, the washing machine - but i remember my mother washing clothes in a twin tub and we were one of the first in our street to get an automatic washing machine. It wasn't THAT long ago (honest). That would have definately been considered a luxury. I certainly wouldnt want to be without an automatic washing machine, i just dont think i would cope. In fact i would battle without my dishwasher - but those maybe still considered luxury goods?

I don't have a tumble dryer, i don't consider that a luxury as to me the definition of luxury is something that we have that is totally for pleasure and is decadent. My tumbe dryer died and i have saved so much money on electric since it went that i will never buy another one.

We haven't been on holiday in four years, but we are going soon - wooohooo, thanks to a wonderful mumsnetter and her sun holiday codes. So holidays were the first thing to go when the going got financially tough. BUT one could argue that from a pyschological viewpoint these are quite an important part of family life. I consider a holiday a luxury, others disagree.

The price of technology is very cheap and all of these things are often available to the least well off. Flat screen telly? To me, a definate luxury, we don't have one, i don't actually want one - we don't have a wall to put it on (too many alcoves ). So wont buy one.

So what do you consider to be a luxury indulgent item in your house, REGARDLESS of your financial status. Thats why i started a separate thread so that side of things could be left to one side.

OP posts:
beanieb · 25/07/2008 12:54

the Lay-Z Spa.

notasheep · 25/07/2008 12:56

Yummy food from Waitrose

RubyRioja · 25/07/2008 12:56

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ViolentFemme · 25/07/2008 12:56

Peace and quiet

VinegarTits · 25/07/2008 12:57

Sky + is my luxury, internet, washing machine, wii/wii fit etc... are all essentail.

Carmenere · 25/07/2008 12:58

Yes takeaways and biscuits and wine.

lucyellensmum · 25/07/2008 12:58

Peace and Quiet? fecking unheard of in my house

OP posts:
zippitippitoes · 25/07/2008 12:58

cake

nice cheese

wine

any kind of holiday

haircut

make up

SlartyBartFast · 25/07/2008 12:59

take aways

HaventSleptForAYear · 25/07/2008 13:00

For me, having a cleaner is a luxury, even though with two full-time WOHP + 2 under-fives, it doesn't sound that way to some people.

I think it would be the 1st thing to go if we were hard-up although she's almost a family friend now and looks after our chickens when we are away so it would be hard to let her go.

Not quite sure from your post if you mean things we DO have that we consider a luxury, or things we DON'T have that we consider luxuries (so don't have iyswim)?

GordonTheGopher · 25/07/2008 13:00

New York Cheesecake.

SlartyBartFast · 25/07/2008 13:00

a lie in, a childfree day

SlartyBartFast · 25/07/2008 13:01

sex

mumblechum · 25/07/2008 13:02

The best bedding money can buy

Really good wine

Crabtree & Evelyn soap

None of which are ridiculously expensive, just seem luxurious to me.

muggglewump · 25/07/2008 13:04

Nothing, honestly. I just can't afford it.
Reading the other thread perhaps the PC could go and I could use the library one for money saving but until it really has to go it won't be. I still want some semblance of a social life even if it is conducted online and on the phone (free calls only).
Saying that I am taking DD to London for her birthday next month but I'd have had to buy presents anyway, the Joseph tickets I have were a gift and I really want to use them.
I'm doing it the cheapest way possible too, Megabus and Easyhotel and everything we do will be free.

I recall a conversation I had on anoher forum once about cheap food. The general consensus was that we should have nothing, and I do mean nothing at all that costs a penny untill we have only the best quality food. It was incredibly depressing and no one could quite get that I want to buy DD the odd masazine or replace her felt tips or pay for her to have her face painted at the school fayre or whatever, not say no to everything for the sake of a fucking organic carrot!

mazzystar · 25/07/2008 13:06

time

zippitippitoes · 25/07/2008 13:07

if a luxury is mesaured by what you would like but dont or cant get then a job

Mercy · 25/07/2008 13:09

The car (which isn't in our house btw)

Take-aways/ready meals

sarah293 · 25/07/2008 13:14

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electricluluarella · 25/07/2008 13:14

fancy cosmetics and bath products

dishwasher

tumble dryer, although i rarely use it anyway

alcohol

sky tv

mamadiva · 25/07/2008 13:15

Take aways
George Foreman
Alcohol
Make Up

TheRedQueen · 25/07/2008 13:18

The house itself (which is ridiculously large for just three people)

Granit-topped kitchen

Small flat-screen TV in the kitchen (so that whoever is cooking can watch TV at the same time)

A number of holiday per year

New books (lots of them - but I consider those essentials!)).

TheRedQueen · 25/07/2008 13:19

Sorry, but by "the house itself" I mean the amount of space it offers.

mamadiva · 25/07/2008 13:23

Are we talking things we have that are luxuries or things we can't have because they are luxuries?

SheikYerbouti · 25/07/2008 13:23

A whole day off work, where I do not have to spend all of my spare time glued to the farking computer

material luxury is probablyt new clothes quite oftewn. I didn;'t buy myself anything new for almost 5 years, as we were poor poor poor. Howvere, now I work all the hours God sends, I probably buy new stuff most weeks for me, the children or DP. It may only be a small thing, but I like it and it makes a farking change not having to wear old tatty shite