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Tio be un-F***ing-believably put out with the thieving sh*tes at work.

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NigellaTheOriginal · 21/07/2008 19:07

I have a diet coke habit. I limit myself to one can a day when I work and usually keep a can for emergencies in the communal fridge.
yesterday evening while at work was one of those evenings so went to get out emergency can.
NO CAN!
Some thieving shithead has stolen it.
My coke. From the fridge.
It was even labelled.
I mean honestly who helps themselves to someone elses can of diet coke? would you do it? just take it? with no note or explaination?
And i then had to endure a further 5 hours of hellish work cokeless.

am v v v cross and have left a sign on the fridge door requesting politely it is returned.

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Anglepoise · 21/07/2008 20:57

Ooh, I've just remembered ... A few years ago, a group of us went out for a friend's birthday. She loves chocolate cake, so my present was a cardboard box of nice patisserie cakes. We had some dinner then went to a club and she left the cakes in the cloakroom along with the rest of our stuff. The cloakroom staff ate them! She didn't tell me for months afterwards or I would have gone down and ripped them to shreds!

madamez · 21/07/2008 21:01

I remember having to put signs on the walls in the textline offices to the effect that yes, tea and coffee and milk and sugar were all communal but other stuff was not and STOP THIEVING EACH OTHER'S FOOD! That and having to put signs up to remind some staff to flush the farking toilet after use... I am so glad I don't work in offices any more.

tiredemma · 21/07/2008 21:06

some peasant had a bite out of my sandwich once at work (my old work), and had the bloody cheek to wrap it all back up and put it back in the fridge. I was livid

bergentulip · 21/07/2008 21:12

I hasten to add, I do not personally go around munching everyone else's packed lunches, or cakes, or cans of coke, but I just understand how an open packet of biscuits can disappear slowly, or the milk etc.... it's never just one person.

How weird to eat someone else's sandwich!!! I would expect that to remain intact.
Some people are very, very odd.

JammyQueenOfTheSewers · 21/07/2008 21:17

I must be very very odd then.

But I agree to put it back partly eaten is rather ew! I had the grace to only put back the untouched part along with my deepest apologies.

expatinscotland · 21/07/2008 21:18

that's gross, tired!

i hope you left a note to the thief.

eeeewwww.

bergentulip · 22/07/2008 10:22

jammy, did not mean to suggest it was weird of you to start eating the sandwich accidentally. It happens. But I think if it had been my sandwich, I would have preferred not to have been left the (even untouched) remnants.
But with a lovely note, no way I'd be pissed off about it!!

kslatts · 22/07/2008 10:31

YANBU - I've had things go missing from the fridge at work.

FluffyMummy123 · 22/07/2008 10:32

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smurfgirl · 22/07/2008 10:36

Its so annoying isn't it and rude, someone nicked my melon the other day and told me it was because they thought it had been there since the day before and it looked nice. FFS!

Bergentulip- not everyone has a desk, in a hospital there is one communal fridge in a staff room.

Oblomov · 22/07/2008 10:39

I have had things taken from the work fridge. Our tuck box was £6 down.
Someone stole accounts chocolate biscuits.
Worse people leave stuff in the fridge and it stinks. It seems it is only me that clears it out. The auditors were stunk out. I cleared the fridge but the smell was still there. Then I noticed something else the next day, it was the culprit.
But I suppose there is some justice. They were auditors.

TheMagnificent7 · 22/07/2008 10:55

YANBU.

I worked in an office where it was all girls. Two of them had a proper fight over tea bags once. This stuff matters!

If you have a coke habit, then it can be difficult to give up. Perhaps you could try weaning yourself off of it with something like Diet Cake Caffeine Free. These placebos can often help the addict move away from the ever decreasing 'tasty beverage' cycle. Next thing you know, it's the airline sized cans in the handbag, buying 6 packs to see you through the day, the walking out of pubs serving Pepsi ("Is that OK?") only. You'll even drink it warm next...

ShowOfHands · 22/07/2008 12:09

When I was an undergraduate, many, many moons ago I lived in shared halls with 11 other naive and struggling teens. It quickly became clear that food would disappear. At first infuriating, it eventually became apparent that to save your sanity you just had to accept it, perhaps even borrow a dash of milk from the fridge to even out the score. One young student- who for the purposes of this story I shall call Bridget- was unable to reconcile herself to this concept. Her upset became obsession.

Every day Bridget would measure her cheese. She would pointedly mark a fill line on her milk carton with a purple felt tip pen. She adopted an intricate labelling system, colour coding fridge, freezer and cupboard items. She started a list of what had gone missing, on what date and in what quantity.

I remember one fateful day some months into the shared housing experience when the riddle of the missing food reached its dramatic conclusion. Bridget made the mistake of buying something nice. The unwritten rule of student houses is that people will borrow the odd slice of cheap white plastic bread, a glug of questionable milk, a hunk of supermarket's own, extra mild and tasteless cheddar and this is acceptable behaviour. You may help yourself in turn. It is dangerous to buy anything branded, made of chocolate or alcohol or reeking of indulgence. You can stash these items in your room and eat them in secret but leave them in the fetid, festering communal kitchen and true thievery will occur.

I can't remember the exact date but it was winter. I know this because the long, dark nights and arctic-like conditions in the kitchen added to the claustrophobia we would all feel when Bridget's final mistake was unveiled. I'd seen her earlier that day on her way back from the 24 hour, ridiculously-priced Spar. In her plastic bag I saw the outline of a box of four choc ices. I knew then what was going to happen. I should have warned her. Later that night we were all gathered in the kitchen warming a pot noodle each cooking our respective dinners when Bridget entered the kitchen. She walked straight to the freezer to retrieve her box of four choc ices, appropriately labelled according to the elaborate system and sporting a circled 'B' in purple felt tip. She pulled out the box and shook it. We all froze. There was no sound, no reassuring thud of four choc ices. We all watched as Bridget realised what had happened. I don't know how long we stood there watching the multitude of emotions pass Bridget's face- loss, confusion, anger. Tom's pot noodle sat curdling on the side, he'd missed the window for the second mixing and failed to add the sachet of bbq sauce in the required moment. Dinner was ruined. Then it happened.

Bridget held the empty box aloft and whispered 'four choc ices'. We stared, she started to tremble and repeated it slightly louder. 'Four choc ices'. She carried on her mantra, each time a little louder than the last. You could hear the hysteria in her voice. She started to jab her finger into the stylised number four on the box. 'FOUR CHOC ICES'. We all stared. Her eyes had glazed over and she was completely white apart from two bright red spots high on her cheekbones. Still nobody moved. Bridget marched over to the bin and started to empty rubbish onto the floor, frantically searching.

'Erm Bridget?' somebody ventured. She wheeled round and spat venomously 'was it you?' We couldn't tell who she was looking at, she didn't seem to be able to see us. She started to unfasten the bagged up rubbish in the corner, spreading that on top of the stinking litter already strewn across the kitchen. She was on her hands and knees, sifting through it, breathing raggedly, mumbling incoherently. An age later, she stood up, smoothed down her skirt and left the kitchen. We saw her minutes later going through the wheely bins outside the kitchen window. It was dark, she couldn't even see what she was fingering. You could just make out potato peelings in her hair. I went outside to try and help her. She couldn't or wouldn't hear me. It was freezing. I can remember the stench. When she'd retreated to her room we cleared up the mess in perfect silence. It didn't need saying. Nobody touched her food again. We didn't mention that night to her or anyone.

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PheasantPlucker · 22/07/2008 12:17
Grin
TheMagnificent7 · 22/07/2008 12:27

That's got episode of 'Prime Suspect' written all over it. Fantastic!

TheMagnificent7 · 22/07/2008 12:30

One by one you''' all be ticked off her list..."Zoom in the eye", "Funnyface wedged in the throat", "FAB specially sharpened through the heart", "beaten to a pulp with Popeyes", and the horrendous "being Cornetto'd".

Oblomov · 22/07/2008 12:34

Show Of Hands. FAB. Are you a writer ?Totally fab. Better than any tv I have seen this year.

ShowOfHands · 22/07/2008 12:42

Oh how I wish I was a writer Oblomov.

Mag7, you've, er, put a lot of thought into your frenzied icecream slaying.

TheMagnificent7 · 22/07/2008 12:47

XfM has an ice cream of the week slot, and FABs have been on my mind...

nervousal · 22/07/2008 12:50

round of applause!!

The joys of living with students - reminds me of the time I'd just moved in with a new flat mate and we agreed to just "go halves" on the shopping - I realised that I'd made a terrible mistake and we just weren't suited when she arrived back from Tescos with a litre and a half of Ribena. She might just have well bought champagne.

We bought our own food after that - but used to nick her ribena, being careful to only ever have it in a mug and not a glass so she couldn't see that it was Ribena and not tap water/ cheapo orange juice.

Sim43 · 22/07/2008 13:02

Well if you are not a writer showofhands, then you darn well should be! Excellent.

Anglepoise · 22/07/2008 13:27

Love it

I used to live in what was effectively a student house, with a teeny tiny fridge for four of us, and the other people in the house used to refrigerate everything, including things in tins etc - infuriating! And they used to steal my tuna when they ran out of cat food and replace it with sub-standard tuna

Backgammon · 22/07/2008 13:31

I accidentally took home someone's dinner once

There was an Asda over the road and both of us had been over there and bought our tea. I didn't realise there was someone else's shopping in there too, and at the end of the day I just grabbed the bag and took it home with me.

I took her beef joint and left her with some microwave mashed potatos and green beans.