is it rude to completely ignore guest in your house?

[nannyL]

is it rude to completely blank and not even acknowledge a guest in your house?

Opinions ASAP please.... been at my mums / step dads 2.5 hours and he hasnt even said hi.

also not even asked how i was since i nearly died in car crash 10 weeks ago

votes please as to if he is rude!

yes... pre-strangling incident was posting from my mums house...

was pi$$ed off he hadnt even acknowleged me in 2.5 hours....

soon after i posted it he came in and had a huge go at me.... (we have 12 years of 'history' beginning when I was a child and he wouldnt let my mum see me, banned me from his (old) house, when i got runover and nearly died it took my mum and him a WEEK to visit me in hospital , he told me if i was his daughter he would give me a good beating (because they left me outside in their garden all alone in the rain and dark night with a broken leg and broken shoulder and wouldnt come and get me so i screamed at the top of my voice) so i dont like him very much... he has continued to stalk me, and be rude and for the past 9 months has blanked me, as its my mums 50th birthday next weekend had gone round to 'sort it out', but he didnt acknowledge my presence for 2.5hours which annoyed me most as i had gone to^ have a civilised disussion...

BUT he turned into an animal, told my mum he would leave her and told her to F off, so I told him good go F someone else mother so he attacked me and strangled me, until my mum came in and pulled him off

(And no, there is NO WAY i personally would remain married to a peson i had witness strangle my daughter, but then i wouldnt let some random man ban me from seeing my children either (would have told him where to go years ago))

but yourm other left you outside with a broken leg etc as a child - so why would you think she would support you now?

sounds like the script for a cheapo tv miniseries......

NannieL, in the remote possibility that this is genuine, just stay away from them. it's a toxic relationship. Maybe your mother is beyond your reach.

OK - Stay away from your mums. If she needs help organising her party tell her to come to yours. If it were me though I would be very upset at my mum for continuing to stay with this man.

She obviously has issues and I think you should stop letting her issues become your issues. There is no need for you to see this man.

What did the police say when you reported this attack?
Have they interviewed or arrested your SF?

not good in any way for you to be around your mum while she's in this relationship.