hey all, i need your hlp, dp broke his leg 7 weeks ago, since then i have have sorted the kids 24/7, done the shopping every week, sorted the house, organised money, and looked after him whilst he has stayed in bed all day and gone out all night, ( and i mean all night some nights!!!) also we were offered a council house which weve waited 5 years for but is completely minging so ive been decorating that too for the last week,
anyway yesterday he was looking through my phone and found a txt from facebook saying i had a wall post from a mates dp which had the message on there with a "x" on the end and he started to ask lot of q's about this message and who it was from, he started to demand that he was to go through all my facebook stuff, i told him the message was from my mates dp and that i had not sent him any message beforehand, but he still said he wanted to look through my fb, i said no because i think he was overreacting and being unreasonable then he started to slag of my friend and her dp even though he doesnt know them and has made no effort to get to know them ( he hates all my friends!!! but doesnt make any effort to get to know them )
i have always been very open about my fb before and he has looked through it lots of times before ( even though i havent liked it ) but i am starting to get quite defensive about the way he demands to look through it.
i can see where his insecurities come from because 2 years ago i caught him kissing his bestmates wife whilst i was pg with 2nd lo, (i was 8 weeks pg ) and i think he thinks i will do the same to get bk at him, but im not that shallow i will not stoop to his level. but that still doesnt make up the fact that he demands to look through my stuff like that is it?
is he trying to control my life? (has he a right too?) if he is i am trying not to let him but its so hard. i dont know what to do anymore!!!