ok this is a long post,
i have a so called friend that is so unreliable will only do things if they benefit her for example if she arranges a night out she will go but if anyone else arranges the night she will say she cant go then go out the night before.
we all try to arrange girls nights for birthdays with a meal at the chinese and she will (if were lucky) come out to the pub after accept drinks from us but never buy one in return.
another major thing she did is when one of our friends moved back in october last year she said she would buy her fridge freezer, she never gave her a penny always told friend she was skint then would proceed to buy herself new shoes or dvd's we only managed to get her to pay the money was to tell her that myself and my partner had brought the debt from our friend (so that she could buy the kids essentials).
said friend then paid us back within 1 week whilst she had been fobbing of our other friend for over 6 months.
she also told us that she couldnt afford to come on my hen do then booked a holiday to medira for the weekend before my hen do.
today was my childs birthday party so i paid for all children and brought party bags and she didnt turn up.
so ive just sent her a message saying that it would of been nice to know she wasnt coming then i could of saved myself some money. i also said as i cannot affor to lose £80 if she doesnt turn up to the wedding perhaps it would be better if her and her partner just came to the evening.
to which she has just replied that i should understand that she is a single mother, and that they wont come to the wedding at all and to use the money ill save to buy ourselves a drink...
i replied saying that i understand that she has money troubles but that she is not the only one
she has replied saying my arrogance is amazing and that they are not coming to my wedding and i can take that as a definate...
so AIBU?
sorry that is so long