To want MNers to be able to ask for opinions / advice

[MilkMonitor]

and still be able to rationally query the opinions / advice if they think that they are not useful, helpful, misguided.

And that they can't do that without trotting out the snippy old, "Well, if you don't want advice love, then don't ask for our opinion,"

It's such BS.

I agree MilkMonitor, especially about some posts which are so pc and non judgmental and laid back that I can't help think that it's just to able to say, look how non judgmental I am!
Yes of course other people are entitled to their own opinion and the opinions will differ hugely from mine.
But on some subjects, I'm just