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Neighbour blocking driveway

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TamTims · 07/11/2026 13:29

I have some new neighbours who are moving into the house in stages. Where i live parking is limited - each house has space for 1 or 2 cars on the drive but that's it really - there's limited space on the road itself without blocking in other cars.

Twice now the new neighbours have parked their car or van that fully blocks my drive so I can't get my car out.

I've asked politely not to block my drive but each time they have responded angrily saying they have to park there for convenience. I explained they could have asked me first to park there out of courtesy, and I would have agreed, but just blocking my drive without asking was unacceptable. Even after me asking them the first time not to block my drive without asking, they did it again later. On both occasions when I spoke to them they responded in disprectful and hostile manner. They thought they had the right to block my drive since they were moving in..

I'd never dream of blocking anyone's driveway and just don't understand the mentality of these people.

A previous neighbour regularly had visitors who'd block my driveway and I had to go round and ask them to move their car which was usually met with annoyance.

AIBU to expect people not to block my driveway under any circumstance? Why do people think its ok to block someone's drive?

This has really upset me, I live alone with my young daughter and don't want to be having issues with the neighbours.

Thank you..

OP posts:
Clearinguptheclutter · Today 10:20

And yes to sending a burly male friend round to politely but firmly ask them to move it next time if necessary. In my experience some Eastern Europeans are not as respectful to women as their British cousins

Lydia8026 · Today 11:38

Call the police every single time they block you in. They will come out if you’re blocked in but not if you’re blocked out

TamTims · Today 12:35

LondonLass2026 · 07/11/2026 14:57

I can't believe some of these replies.

Here's what I would have done. If I were moving in as a newbie, I would take round a bottle of prosecco, knock round and introduce myself to the neighbour AND ONLY THEN ask if they didn't mind if I popped my van there for a couple of HOURS as I'm moving in, but to please knock if they needed to go out. AND EVEN THEN I'd be very reluctant to ask anyone to give up their ability to leave their own driveway!

Was it absolutely unavoidable they blocked you in? Even then, they should have ASKED.

I have every sympathy. When we moved into our new build, we have a shared courtyard (I know, puke, it's horrible) where we have two spaces each (over 3 houses) and our neighbours on the left had arrived a few hours before us. They have two cars. When we arrived, they'd kept both their spaces free, and taken both of ours! No reason, they'd already fully moved in so it wasn't for any accessibility reason. My partner had to knock round and it was 11pm by the time we'd arrived. The neighbour's girlfriend still steals our spaces all the time while leaving theirs empty.

You sound lovely and considerate. Why can't I have a neighbour like you!

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rwalker · Today 13:10

Lydia8026 · Today 11:38

Call the police every single time they block you in. They will come out if you’re blocked in but not if you’re blocked out

More than like won’t happen again it was very obvious there moving in and unloading rather than than claiming it as a regular parking spot

you’ve more faith than me if you think the police will turn out for this

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