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Hired 10+ cleaners… all have been crap in some way.

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CleanerWoes · 03/11/2026 15:10

I should start by saying I am good client - pay on time, cash, 3 hours every week, very rarely cancel. I don’t have unrealistic expectations of what can be achieved in the time limit, nor am I fussy about the cleaning really - just need it to be clean enough until the next week. I’m not tight with my budget, I have paid up to £30 per hour in the past. I am self-employed myself, so I totally get some of the difficulties with being self-employed, too.

I’ve now hired (and had to get rid of) over 10 cleaners. Some have been horrendously unreliable - cancelling just before they are meant to be here, or not telling me at all, just not turning up. Some have spent ages chatting to me, or any other family member they can, up to 30 minutes chatting not cleaning (I have teenagers who feel too awkward to say anything or to walk away). Cleaners who trauma dump and tell me really intimate and inappropriate details about their private lives. I have had cleaners who were rubbish at cleaning. I’ve had cleaners who tidied but didn’t clean. I had one cleaner who smoked out the window and would do fag farts around the house 🤢

My current cleaner is good at cleaning, however insists they do not tidy. That sounds fine, right? I’m not an untidy person at all, but like most people, there may be a pair of shoes on the floor…they won’t even pick a cushion up off the floor, they will hoover and mop around it! When I messaged to ask why they hadn’t cleaned under the pillow (I did so in a light-hearted, almost joke way), they replied saying they don’t tidy so anything out of place won’t be moved. Similarly, they don’t move anything from surfaces as ‘they might break it’, they don’t move photo frames, lamps, nothing…

How do I find someone decent, any tips? I need a cleaner as DH and I work 12 hour days…

OP posts:
CortieTat · Yesterday 16:52

We are now with the 4th cleaner since 2018, all the previous ones have been great and they dropped us not the other way round - two changed professions, one moved out of the area. I voted YABU because I never expect a cleaner to tidy up - this is mine and my DC’s job to make sure the cleaner’s workplace is ready for her.

Jollyranger10 · Yesterday 18:32

There is an app called next door I got my customers off there.

Pplareasthickasshit · Yesterday 18:36

Jollyranger10 · Yesterday 16:41

I think you can find a good one you just need to look well and might take a couple can't believe how many people have had bad ones reading these stories. The people I clean for I have done for years never had a complaint I've never noticed turned up. But I have heard horror stories of their previous cleaners. I love to clean so it is a great job for me I have a high standard and can do a 5 bedroom house in 2 hours including bathrooms I see it as a really good work out. I'd imagine people who just do it because they need a job aren't that good. It isn't my main job I do it for the extra money and because I enjoy it.

Under no circumstances can you do a 5 bed house in 2 hours. You'll be skimping and that's putting it mildly.

Jollyranger10 · Yesterday 19:14

Pplareasthickasshit · Yesterday 18:36

Under no circumstances can you do a 5 bed house in 2 hours. You'll be skimping and that's putting it mildly.

If you say so

NoHotGirlsInHell · Yesterday 19:22

Pplareasthickasshit · Yesterday 07:05

You earned £10 an hour working in finance?

I’m on £15 an hour yes. Standard rate for qualified finance officers. Cleaners in my area are up to £30 an hour.

Wopple · Yesterday 21:59

Pplareasthickasshit · Yesterday 16:26

I'm well aware of the minimum wage. Cleaners typically charge £20 an hour and the poster said she could earn double as a cleaner than in her finance job, hence why I asked if she earned £10 an hour.

People on here pay their cleaners anything up to £35 an hour from what I’ve seen. £20 definitely isn’t the absolute top by far.

mondaytosunday · Yesterday 22:13

Best cleaner I had trained in a hotel. She was Polish. Did a thorough job and was fast so she got all the rooms done (five bed house) while my subsequent cleaner was good but slow. Sadly her abusive partner made her flea back to her country.

Pplareasthickasshit · Yesterday 22:35

Wopple · Yesterday 21:59

People on here pay their cleaners anything up to £35 an hour from what I’ve seen. £20 definitely isn’t the absolute top by far.

I just took it as an average.

Bimblebombles · Yesterday 23:08

My current one is great - she knows that my life is messy and difficult at the moment and she says “what is the part of your house that is stressing you the most and I’ll sort it out”. Sometimes I tell her “the fridge has rotting food in random bowls and I think a packet of ham is from August please can you deal with it” - and she does with no judgement. She instructs me not to pre tidy (I always do a bit though) and says “even if I can’t get through everything you can trust me that I will leave the house better than I find it” - she’s wonderful. More of like a…home help / support figure in my life at times!

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