That sounds great, Millytante.
I remember a big bonfire party at my school, in the grounds, when I was about thirteen.
We had allotments behind our back garden, some of which were not used and for a few years, my cousin's husband used to organise a Guy Fawkes party there with big bonfire and lots of fireworks. It was great.
One year when I was ten, cousin and husband brought their dog and gave me the lead. I loved their dog very much. often played with him and took him for walks. He pulled the lead out of my hand and ran off! Unfortunately he was never seen again despite them searching, making enquiries, etc.
I got the blame for letting him go, it was brought up for years in conversation, especially by my mother. You'd think they'd realise I couldn't hang onto the lead - and who takes a dog to a firework party anyway?
My in-laws had good bonfires.
At my house we had a bonfire and fireworks occasionally when my son was small. His birthday is end of October (he's just had his 47th), usually during half term, and one year we had the party a few days later, combined with apple bobbing, scary mask making and bonfire. I was nervous about the kids and fireworks but my husband said I had nothing to worry about, he'd make sure everything was safe. I can clearly remember him picking up a lit firework off the gras and throwing it, he also put some fuel on the bonfire. Some safety! However it was a good party and nobody got hurt.
I never knew anyone who did 'penny for the Guy', though would see kids occasionally, near shops, with their Guys and collecting tin. Mum looked down on that sort of thing (and many other things).
Burning someone in effigy does not appeal to me but as a child I didn't think of it like that.