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To ask how to make rental flat less likely to sell?

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RainingPasta · 23/10/2026 11:37

My son and his girlfriend have been renting a nice flat for the past couple of years but the LL now wants to sell it. They haven’t officially been given notice yet so it looks like the agent will be conducting viewings while they still live there.

They will still keep it clean and tidy but they are wondering if there is anything else they could do to make it less appealing. I suggested removing all their homely touches like cushions, rugs and pictures so it looks cold and bare but I’m not sure if that is a good idea?

Any suggestions would be appreciated. They want to delay the sale and might even be able to buy it themselves if it goes down enough in price.

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CatesandAle · 23/10/2026 16:59

It’s reasonable to be angry at the overall shitty system we’re in whereby purchasing a house is not affordable for a lot of people, and renters are therefore at the mercy of landlords (although recent reforms have done a lot to empower renters, and I don’t think being a landlord is a walk in the park either). It’s not very reasonable IMO to behave obnoxiously and obstructively to an individual landlord in the way that you’re suggesting, unless he or she has been behaving badly and not fulfilling his or her duties to tenants. You don’t know what this person’s individual situation is and why they might need to sell.

If you know it’s a fat cat landlord with inherited wealth and 5 rental properties none of which he or she actually needs for livable income then fine I guess have at it, but if you don’t know that’s the landlord’s situation then YABU.

cattussuperior · 23/10/2026 16:59

RainingPasta · 23/10/2026 16:27

I’d be concerned if my adult son and his GF found the idea of moving back in with his parents appealing. They are an independent, professional couple.

Who seem unable to grasp the fact that the LL has a right to serve notice and would rather piss about and try to delay the sale rather than look for somewhere else to live. They sound utterly professional and independent 😂

RainingPasta · 23/10/2026 17:00

TulipCat · 23/10/2026 16:58

The best way make a property unappealing is by still living in it. Nobody will care whether they faff about hiding cushions and throws. The only buyers who like tenants still living in a property are other landlords who are looking for reliable sitting tenants.

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Thanks. It isn’t really a viable investment so it’s unlikely to be a LL who buys it.

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thisismeithinkorisit · 23/10/2026 17:01

RainingPasta · 23/10/2026 11:45

Possibly, but it’s not easy to find rentals these days and they could do far worse by stopping paying rent, trashing the property and/or refusing to move out until the LL goes to court for an eviction notice (they wouldn’t do any of those things but plenty do)

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or they could focus their energy on looking for somewhere to live, instead of trying to play games

Ickkkkkk · 23/10/2026 17:01

We had tenants that obviously tried to make a house we were selling less pleasant. They then made us an offer. We refused and sold to someone else. If they would have just spoken to us and said they wanted to make an offer but needed 6 months to get everything in place, we’d have been open to that. Instead they chose to behave like dicks.

Piglet89 · 23/10/2026 17:03

Ickkkkkk · 23/10/2026 17:01

We had tenants that obviously tried to make a house we were selling less pleasant. They then made us an offer. We refused and sold to someone else. If they would have just spoken to us and said they wanted to make an offer but needed 6 months to get everything in place, we’d have been open to that. Instead they chose to behave like dicks.

Which is exactly how I’d have expected it to play out, with behaviour like that.

Minasama · 23/10/2026 17:04

This seems rather unfair and unpleasant. It would be better to devote energy in a positive direction - finding a new flat.

Aiming4Optimistic · 23/10/2026 17:04

I wouldn't allow viewings while still living there - there's no benefit to your son in agreeing to this. Regardless of the contract, your son and gf have the right to refuse. What's the ll going to do? Evict them?

I think theyshould focus on finding a new home asap rather than trying to prevent a sale. Ll has a right to sell.

letmebetheone · 23/10/2026 17:05

You seem to be saying that when they get served notice they intend to stay put as long as possible. That would be madness, they are highly unlikely to be able to find the perfect place and arrange to move within a short period of time.
They need to look and find somewhere asap rather than risking waiting till they are pushed.

Chocolatecupcakes12 · 23/10/2026 17:05

SethAndReubenTooSendGaloshes · 23/10/2026 16:58

That would be illegal

It is not illegal to serve notice to tenants when you are trying to sell a house, the landlord will serve the notice ASAP if the tenants start causing problems

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CatrionaBalfour · 23/10/2026 17:10

Minasama · 23/10/2026 17:04

This seems rather unfair and unpleasant. It would be better to devote energy in a positive direction - finding a new flat.

You'd think! How negative and unpleasant. Imagine having that mindset.

Verv · 23/10/2026 17:10

HugoThatway · 23/10/2026 12:44

@Verv , Its not their home though, it's the Landlords home,
Wrong.

Let’s see who gets the £ when it’s sold.
That’ll probably give a good indication of who owns the home.

RainingPasta · 23/10/2026 17:10

letmebetheone · 23/10/2026 17:05

You seem to be saying that when they get served notice they intend to stay put as long as possible. That would be madness, they are highly unlikely to be able to find the perfect place and arrange to move within a short period of time.
They need to look and find somewhere asap rather than risking waiting till they are pushed.

The notice period is four months.

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cattussuperior · 23/10/2026 17:11

The tenants can call it their home. But it’s the LL’s property

LilyBunch25 · 23/10/2026 17:11

RainingPasta · 23/10/2026 13:14

To be fair, they haven’t even been given notice so there is zero point in looking for somewhere else to live at this stage. 🤷‍♀️

Yes, I mean, why bother 😏

CatrionaBalfour · 23/10/2026 17:12

Ickkkkkk · 23/10/2026 17:01

We had tenants that obviously tried to make a house we were selling less pleasant. They then made us an offer. We refused and sold to someone else. If they would have just spoken to us and said they wanted to make an offer but needed 6 months to get everything in place, we’d have been open to that. Instead they chose to behave like dicks.

Don't blame you. I've no idea why some people just want to make things difficult and unpleasant for other people. I'm sure most of us have lived in rented accommodation and not lowered ourselves.

RainingPasta · 23/10/2026 17:13

LilyBunch25 · 23/10/2026 17:11

Yes, I mean, why bother 😏

Exactly, four months will be plenty of time to sort out alternative accommodation if and when the notice is served.

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LilyBunch25 · 23/10/2026 17:15

Charlenedickens · 23/10/2026 16:02

Good way to get them served notice immediately, the agent feeding back they are not heating it, it’s dirty and smells. There isn’t a landlord in existence who won’t immediately serve,

Which when I mentioned upthread about not doing the cigarette and pet food thing was also the point I was trying to make but another poster told me they would just be 'props' Having rented myself i disagree- viewings and inspections accompanied by the agent or landlord would mean things were noticed and then, how will the tenant explain their ' prop placing' when they're challenged about pets or smoking in the property...? Oh, yes, we just put them there to put your prospective buyers off. 🙈

RainingPasta · 23/10/2026 17:16

CatrionaBalfour · 23/10/2026 17:12

Don't blame you. I've no idea why some people just want to make things difficult and unpleasant for other people. I'm sure most of us have lived in rented accommodation and not lowered ourselves.

Me neither. We would never “just want to make things difficult and unpleasant for other people” but how far do you take that? Should they move out immediately so the LL can market the vacant property straight away. That would make it less “difficult and unpleasant” for the LL but they wouldn’t have anywhere to live.

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HugoThatway · 23/10/2026 17:17

They were left behind by a friend and the cat food was for the food bank. @LilyBunch25 .

Charlenedickens · 23/10/2026 17:20

RainingPasta · 23/10/2026 17:16

Me neither. We would never “just want to make things difficult and unpleasant for other people” but how far do you take that? Should they move out immediately so the LL can market the vacant property straight away. That would make it less “difficult and unpleasant” for the LL but they wouldn’t have anywhere to live.

Don’t be silly, have you never rented and don’t know how it works. They wait till they are served notice but as they’ve been given a heads up, so know it’s coming, they should start looking to see what’s out there,

LilyBunch25 · 23/10/2026 17:21

RainingPasta · 23/10/2026 17:13

Exactly, four months will be plenty of time to sort out alternative accommodation if and when the notice is served.

Potentially it won't, hence my sarcastic comment.

RainingPasta · 23/10/2026 17:21

LilyBunch25 · 23/10/2026 17:15

Which when I mentioned upthread about not doing the cigarette and pet food thing was also the point I was trying to make but another poster told me they would just be 'props' Having rented myself i disagree- viewings and inspections accompanied by the agent or landlord would mean things were noticed and then, how will the tenant explain their ' prop placing' when they're challenged about pets or smoking in the property...? Oh, yes, we just put them there to put your prospective buyers off. 🙈

OK, many thanks for pointing that out, as I would have otherwise thought it was a good idea to leave used cigarette butts and cat food lying about as props. Good grief.

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Charlenedickens · 23/10/2026 17:21

RainingPasta · 23/10/2026 17:13

Exactly, four months will be plenty of time to sort out alternative accommodation if and when the notice is served.

Ok if they are in an area where rentals are in easy supply that’s different in many areas now people apply and there are hundreds of applicants and often gone in the first day