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Theresawaytobehonestandkind · 23/10/2026 03:05

I’ve only ever gained weight until recently really trying to get into shifting it. I cannot figure out if I eat 1000 calories a day what amount of weight will I lose?? Everywhere says maybe 2lbs. “Maybe” two!! Surely more? I really want to lose 3lbs a week so I can go into next year feeling a little better. 37. 5’4 and 13 and a half stone

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SexyFrenchDepression · 23/10/2026 18:19

SexyFrenchDepression · 23/10/2026 14:04

https://tdeecalculator.net/

I am 5ft 4 and 46 and I started losing weight at just over 12 stone, maintenance calories 1675, so to lose 2lb a week my calories needed to be 1575, I was closer to 1000-1100 a day and lost more than 2lb to start with, obv more you lose the lower the calories need to be.

With your stats your maintenance calories if sedentary (i would ignore exercise unless you do extreme amounts) would be 1833. So 1700 would be fine to start with to lose weight (2lb a week) but you could go lower. You need to check it regularly and if counting calories you need to count/check everything!

@Theresawaytobehonestandkind Sorry, no idea why I typed the numbers I did, multi tasking😂 that should have said 575, and I had 1000-1100 and list over 2lb a week.

Yours would be 833, but 1300 should be fine which is around 500 under.

I literally lived calorie counting when I was losing weight and constantly checked my TDEE regularly so god knows why my brain typed ths numbers it did, i got it right then as didnt have a week where i didnt lose pretty much 2lb 😂😂

It is hard when you're short like us as there isnt a great deal of scope but you will lose weight without dropping so many calories, try and up your steps and exercise to help, but exercise really wont make a massive difference , unless you are do8ng mega intense stuff you'll never burn enough.

Notellinganyone · 23/10/2026 18:36

I’m 5 ft 2 and have lost 2 stone 8 since mid- February. I was 12 stone 5 and now 9 10. I’d go slow and steady. I was on 1200 calories per day and lost roughly 1 lb per week. If you go in too hard you’ll run out of steam and it’s not healthy either.

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