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To ask for your not overly touristy London recommendations?

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Emily3325 · 21/10/2026 13:43

I've managed to snag Bayeux Tapestry tickets for myself and my husband for February. We only visit London maybe once a year and have done most of the tourist hotspots (London Eye, the Tower, etc.). We aren't big drinkers and love history. I'm looking online, and all I'm seeing are escape rooms and similar things. What are some underrated bits to get up to? We're in London for 3 days and will be going to watch a show on the West End on one of the evenings

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DorsetKnobBiscuit · 22/10/2026 10:50

MoscowRules · 22/10/2026 07:44

The Tate have an exhibition of the 90’s running until mid Feb so that might be an option depending when your Bayeux tickets are for.

I was so looking forward to the 90s exhibition but the reviews of it are terrible. Haven't been so would welcome any information from people who have.

The Barbican is worth a visit. It's like another world.

MoscowRules · 22/10/2026 11:37

DorsetKnobBiscuit · 22/10/2026 10:50

I was so looking forward to the 90s exhibition but the reviews of it are terrible. Haven't been so would welcome any information from people who have.

The Barbican is worth a visit. It's like another world.

Don’t tell me that, I have tickets booked for my birthday. My friend has been actually, he enjoyed it as a nostalgia trip but wished it had 90s music playing so I’m making a playlist.

EscCtrl · 22/10/2026 11:49

blanketyblankz · 21/10/2026 16:18

^^ This poster just recommended all the best places. Listen to them.

As an alternate, my favorite for 'real London' is Tayyabs in Whitechapel. A London institution, best curry in town. Yes the service is pretty unfriendly. Yes the tables are formica / wipe clean. But the food is so delicious it will make your heart sing, you will be off the beaten track surrounded by actual Londoners and it's cheap as chips. I tend to sweeten the experience by bringing some super-nice wine along as it's BYO.

I know others have dismissed the Natural History Museum as filled with tourists (it is) but it's also one of London's most beautiful buildings and their Darwin tour is really wonderful. If you've never been I'd go once in a lifetime. Just don't eat lunch either inside or in any of the places immediately nearby. All overpriced chains where you'll have a rubbish meal.

Tayyabs or Needo

DeftGoldHedgehog · 22/10/2026 11:56

Transport Museum Hidden London Tours are excellent.

https://www.ltmuseum.co.uk/hidden-london

DeftGoldHedgehog · 22/10/2026 12:00

Dayclubbing

https://londonist.com/london/things-to-do/daytime-clubbing-events-parties-london

https://ageagainstthemachineclub.com/

I went to one at The Lower Third which was really good fun.

PammyPrang · 22/10/2026 12:09

hellofrommyothername · 21/10/2026 13:50

I love the Sir John Soane’s museum which isn’t too far from the British museum. The Foundling Museum and the Wellcome Collection are also nearby and great.

Slightly further afield, in Hackney, I love the Museum of the Home if you’re interested in interiors and objects through time!

I got the rage in the Museum of the Home - formerly the Geffrye Museum. It used to be lovely - but now 😡😡😡 The nice cafe gone. It’s been wokeried to within an inch of its life. Not a little bit of woke, but full-scale rewriting of history to a ridiculous extent. And if that wasn’t enough… I actually got a pen out of my bag and corrected spelling and grammar on the labels.

ToadRage · 22/10/2026 12:24

My husband is taking me to Hampton Court Palace for my birthday. I am obsessed with the Tudors and haven't been there since I was a child. I am really looking forward to it.

Excellentsausages · 22/10/2026 12:32

ToadRage · 22/10/2026 12:24

My husband is taking me to Hampton Court Palace for my birthday. I am obsessed with the Tudors and haven't been there since I was a child. I am really looking forward to it.

I know it's nowhere near London but have you been to Harvington Hall near Kidderminster? My son had a Tudor phase and it was my favourite of everywhere we visited. Much smaller of course than Hampton Court palace which is wonderful, but Harvington Hall have fantastic events and a real commitment to bringing the house to life.

DorsetKnobBiscuit · 22/10/2026 14:14

MoscowRules · 22/10/2026 11:37

Don’t tell me that, I have tickets booked for my birthday. My friend has been actually, he enjoyed it as a nostalgia trip but wished it had 90s music playing so I’m making a playlist.

Reviews are often rubbish and a cracking soundtrack is sure to get you in the mood. Hope you have a great birthday.

Wadsworthy · 22/10/2026 15:01

DontGiveUsNoneOfYourAggravation · 21/10/2026 14:00

These are exactly the places I was going to suggest!

Ditto.

You could go out to the V&A East. Before it turns out to costs so much to run that Tristram Hunt has to resign (god, he's a wally) ...

AlwaysExtraHot · 22/10/2026 16:01

PammyPrang · 22/10/2026 12:09

I got the rage in the Museum of the Home - formerly the Geffrye Museum. It used to be lovely - but now 😡😡😡 The nice cafe gone. It’s been wokeried to within an inch of its life. Not a little bit of woke, but full-scale rewriting of history to a ridiculous extent. And if that wasn’t enough… I actually got a pen out of my bag and corrected spelling and grammar on the labels.

full-scale rewriting of history to a ridiculous extent.
I live near this museum (but ridiculously have never been) and am interested. What do you mean exactly by rewriting of history?
And is there no cafe at all? or just not a good one any more?

HoneyButterPopcorn · 22/10/2026 16:04

Sir John Soames House in Holborn. Need to book. I like walking along the river - interesting buildings to look at and odd history (old wharfs, Roman bits and pieces)

PammyPrang · 22/10/2026 16:33

@AlwaysExtraHot yes there is a cafe, but not the nice old one. New one is slightly off site and sterile.

Rewriting - well, the focus when I went at Christmas is on immigrant communities. That’s fine, but the portrayals were inaccurate to say the least. West Indians arriving in the 50s were in poor, nay, awful accommodations, not at all how the MoftheH depicted them living. Likewise the Irish, receiving food from back home as London was so grim. Nope! They emigrated from where life was a struggle! And the pièce de résistance was the LGBTQ+++++ group celebrating together because they’d gone no contact with their families for misgendering….

And sigh.

AlwaysExtraHot · 22/10/2026 16:46

PammyPrang · 22/10/2026 16:33

@AlwaysExtraHot yes there is a cafe, but not the nice old one. New one is slightly off site and sterile.

Rewriting - well, the focus when I went at Christmas is on immigrant communities. That’s fine, but the portrayals were inaccurate to say the least. West Indians arriving in the 50s were in poor, nay, awful accommodations, not at all how the MoftheH depicted them living. Likewise the Irish, receiving food from back home as London was so grim. Nope! They emigrated from where life was a struggle! And the pièce de résistance was the LGBTQ+++++ group celebrating together because they’d gone no contact with their families for misgendering….

And sigh.

How did they show West Indians living? I know there was awful housing, but I also remember reading about and looking at images on an exhibition years ago about 'The West Indian Front Room' on how that generation took pride in having a 'best' room for visitors. The houses may not have been palatial but there were decent furnishings, radiograms, ornaments etc. I'm not sure it was all slum living in desperate poverty. Did they cherry-pick the most well-off/fortunate people?

The Irish thing Confused I'd love to know what sources they based all that on. I'm guessing they didn't give sources, or had 'interpreted' things very loosely...

Likewise the LGBTQ+++++ group; what were their sources for that? I wonder from where they found the evidence of 'misgendering'...

EDITED to add I think I misunderstood about the LGBTQ+++++ group; you mean people from the present day, yes, not the 50s or whenever?

PammyPrang · 22/10/2026 17:00

It was all “interpretation” I guess. Yes, the LBGTQ + people were from recent times. It seemed a bit off to imply that by necessity they had all dumped their families. That’s not ime true at all.

AlwaysExtraHot · 22/10/2026 17:11

PammyPrang · 22/10/2026 17:00

It was all “interpretation” I guess. Yes, the LBGTQ + people were from recent times. It seemed a bit off to imply that by necessity they had all dumped their families. That’s not ime true at all.

It seemed a bit off to imply that by necessity they had all dumped their families. That’s not ime true at all.
Questionable, and presumably a small sample size.

ponyprincess · 22/10/2026 17:29

Horndean Museum south London is nice, with great garden and views

Lincslady53 · 22/10/2026 17:48

The Temple Church is interesting. If you havent done it, get to Westminster Abbey early, and try a book a guided tour round the oldest tombs going back to Edward the Confessor. Only limited entry to this part.

LindorDoubleChoc · 22/10/2026 18:05

YABU.

@MNHQ you say you are moving threads now to a more appropriate topic. Why not this one?

Leedsfan365 · 22/10/2026 18:07

Definitely the Jack the Ripper walk - it’s fantastic

SparkleMonkey · 22/10/2026 18:17

The Foundling Museum is great. I walked past Dennis Severs’ house at 18 Folgate Street last time I was in London and that looks fascinating.

ghostofxmaspresent · 22/10/2026 18:22

Emily3325 · 21/10/2026 14:19

Okay, next question, sorry! Valentine's recommendations for dinner? We're staying close to the London Eye but happy to travel a reasonable distance

Skylon in the Southbank is lovely and has great views.

Lovely13 · 22/10/2026 18:23

Maybe book a walking history tour. There are lots advertised online. Would recommend my guy, but he is sold out within an hour of publishing dates!

Lovemycat2023 · 22/10/2026 18:27

Some great recommendations here! I went to the V&A childhood museum recently to see the Aardman Animations exhibition, and the rest of the museum was good too