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To think that mumsnet posters should know that anyone can use AI to analyse their posting history

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LostPollypocket · 17/10/2026 11:47

I understand why a previous thread on this was deleted and suspect another one will be. I did think the thread was doing something very useful though in making people aware that even anonymous posts may not be so anonymous in a world where anyone (or business, crime syndicate, political party, or government) can use AI to pattern match and analyse everything you’ve ever written on the internet, including places like mumsnet where you might post about very personal topics. If you use a particular word frequently, or semicolons in a particular way, or even respond emotionally to certain types of posts, then even with a name change anyone might be able to build a profile on you and connect it to say, archived facebook data, and know who you are, how you think, and what you posted at 3am in the depths of postpartum depression.

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CillianMurphyhasbeautifuleyes · 17/10/2026 12:56

canklesmctacotits · 17/10/2026 12:21

Head over to the CITME board. People are sitting ducks posting on there.

What is CITME, please

ToWhitToWhoo · 17/10/2026 13:01

CillianMurphyhasbeautifuleyes · 17/10/2026 12:56

What is CITME, please

I assume 'Conflict in the Middle East'.

ThecultofBevan · 17/10/2026 13:01

Oliveoy · 17/10/2026 12:50

If I gave it 2 pieces of my writing I would expect it to give a fairly hedging response, that there's enough to suggest it's the same person but it can't be certain.

It's less about whether AI can currently compare 2 pieces of writing with accuracy, and more about whether in the future it could analyse a style and independently find matches elsewhere.

If that ever became a reality, people would probably just use AI to cover themselves. For example they'd use their own writing when something is publicly in their name, and use AI if they were posting elsewhere anonymously.

It was more of an example for anyone reading the thread to have a try and see what it can do

YksiKaksiKolme · 17/10/2026 13:02

I change my username once a week know. You never now.

LostPollypocket · 17/10/2026 13:07

noblegiraffe · 17/10/2026 12:52

You're saying this like it isn't already happening?

The credulous and reactive person is already targeted with those videos by the algorithm that has established that they click on that sort of shit.

Why would they then need to connect their account to their MN data?

It’s already happening and it’s already affected elections. So it’s obviously effective even when done fairly clumsily. It will be increasingly possible to do it far more precisely. Imagine an emotive video created based on a person’s childhood background, something traumatic that has happened to them, the values they hold and mirroring their own language and reasoning style. When a mere values and subgroups profile can already polarise and affect voting.

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LostPollypocket · 17/10/2026 13:09

YksiKaksiKolme · 17/10/2026 13:02

I change my username once a week know. You never now.

Edited

That sounds like a highly identifying pattern of behaviour! An ai agent could be asked to make a list of all usernames that fit that pattern and then compare the topics engaged with and writing style to suggest which are most likely yours. Better to overlap them unpredictably.

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Kensingtonbuns · 17/10/2026 13:12

I asked AI to compare 2 of my user names and it said they had a similar style and could maybe be the same person. 😁
I use different user names for different topics, so one might be all about, for example, cats and another all about toddlers. I thought I was safe!
Now everyone can judge me as preferring cats to toddlers.
I need to start scattering in emojis and confrontational language to mix it up a bit! End of!!!!
😅🤓

OooPourUsACupLove · 17/10/2026 13:13

pIumwinegum · 17/10/2026 11:53

I know people always go on about this but I still dont get why me arguing about a jeans style or disagreeing with a MIL post is particularly interesting or of value to anyone at all?

There seems so much paranoia about what you post online and whilst I get some of it (eg posting pics of your kids/when you are going on holiday etc) the rest of it is completely banal, uninteresting, beige claptrap.

The risk is you post 99% banal claptrap for years, then one day under a different name, maybe even on another site, you post something either very sensitive that you need advice on, or an opinion some crazy extremist group takes exception to.

AI can potentially find patterns in the style of the posts that link them, and all the banal but outing stuff you felt safe to post is linked to something you wanted to keep anonymous.

Or just that if an AI works out who you are, they have a lot of material to help them impersonate you for fraud

NovemberMorn · 17/10/2026 13:13

FGS, if people are so worried about the info they give out being used against them (as if the vast majority of MN posters are even that interesting or important) they can either stop posting here...definately stop posting on other chatty social media sites, or be careful of what info they post in the first place.

SirenScream · 17/10/2026 13:14

LostPollypocket · 17/10/2026 12:45

They don’t need to, it’s on the internet!

I have used AI to analyze forum threads, with some forums it says it can't access much of the content, and so I presume the owner of the forum has put things in place to prevent the AI from accessing content.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 17/10/2026 13:17

Sharing personal information online has always been a risk, and it continues to be a risk.

People should therefore be judicious about what they share.

Ipsevenenabibas · 17/10/2026 13:17

Or just that if an AI works out who you are, they have a lot of material to help them impersonate you for fraud

Food for thought. Thanks.

OooPourUsACupLove · 17/10/2026 13:21

SirenScream · 17/10/2026 13:14

I have used AI to analyze forum threads, with some forums it says it can't access much of the content, and so I presume the owner of the forum has put things in place to prevent the AI from accessing content.

That's a consumer model though. It has ethical rules applied. Criminal gangs and individual hackers use jailbroken models that won't respect "oi robot don't read this" tags.

GarlicEverything · 17/10/2026 13:21

But this applies to EVERYTHING that's publicly visible online - and quite a lot that isn't, as companies like Meta can analyse private and restricted posts.

It's not only Mumsnet, or even particularly Mumsnet. We're less interesting than many other sites.

If you have reason to be secretive, don't upload anything anywhere.

If you have an irrational desire for an online presence while also being secretive, take a great deal more care over what you post and how you write.

Oliveoy · 17/10/2026 13:22

Thinking about it, relying on AI being able to find writing matches online would never happen. If it did become advanced enough to do it reliably, then by extension it would also be good enough to generate writing in anybody's style. So you could take a MN user's posts for example, and have it generate text to post elsewhere to impersonate them. Because this was possible, any matching tool would then become null and void, because of deepfake writing or whatever they'd call it.

LostPollypocket · 17/10/2026 13:23

Interesting paper here. Small n but proof pf principle. Shows the difference the right prompt makes for anyone sceptical after their own experiments.

aclanthology.org/2024.findings-emnlp.26/

“This paper explores how to leverage LLMs for authorship analysis. Through comprehensive evaluation, it demonstrates that LLMs, equipped with the novel Linguistically Informed Prompting (LIP)
technique, excel at identifying authorship without the need for domain-specific fine-tuning. By directly applying our end-to-end methods to authorship attribution and verification tasks, we aim to bypass the intermediate steps of feature extraction
and manual annotation.”

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ZetaOrionis · 17/10/2026 13:24

Think of the most credulous and reactive person you know. Do you want them to be seeing a feed full of AI generated videos of whatever is most triggering to them before the next election. Times several millions.

This is where many arguments for censorship start. An appeal to strong-minded, right-thinking people to have control of the information reaching weaker people (historically women, the lower classes, the 'feeble-minded' et al). There hasn't been a new dissemination medium, including printing, which hasn't generated this impulse to control. When those asking for censorship aren't including themselves in the category of those from whom information should be restricted, there's a problem.

LostPollypocket · 17/10/2026 13:25

SirenScream · 17/10/2026 13:14

I have used AI to analyze forum threads, with some forums it says it can't access much of the content, and so I presume the owner of the forum has put things in place to prevent the AI from accessing content.

Look at the recent stories about AI agents, they can navigate the internet and access anything you can, and are also very effective hackers.

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LostPollypocket · 17/10/2026 13:27

Oliveoy · 17/10/2026 13:22

Thinking about it, relying on AI being able to find writing matches online would never happen. If it did become advanced enough to do it reliably, then by extension it would also be good enough to generate writing in anybody's style. So you could take a MN user's posts for example, and have it generate text to post elsewhere to impersonate them. Because this was possible, any matching tool would then become null and void, because of deepfake writing or whatever they'd call it.

This is a reassuring thought! But only from this point forwards. Archived materials up from the start of the internet to the start of generative AI are available. The internet won’t ever be the same again, for many AI related reasons, but past data will be valuable for a while yet.

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OooPourUsACupLove · 17/10/2026 13:27

Oliveoy · 17/10/2026 13:22

Thinking about it, relying on AI being able to find writing matches online would never happen. If it did become advanced enough to do it reliably, then by extension it would also be good enough to generate writing in anybody's style. So you could take a MN user's posts for example, and have it generate text to post elsewhere to impersonate them. Because this was possible, any matching tool would then become null and void, because of deepfake writing or whatever they'd call it.

Ooo game theory, I like it!

LostPollypocket · 17/10/2026 13:30

GarlicEverything · 17/10/2026 13:21

But this applies to EVERYTHING that's publicly visible online - and quite a lot that isn't, as companies like Meta can analyse private and restricted posts.

It's not only Mumsnet, or even particularly Mumsnet. We're less interesting than many other sites.

If you have reason to be secretive, don't upload anything anywhere.

If you have an irrational desire for an online presence while also being secretive, take a great deal more care over what you post and how you write.

Yes and across sites - so if you post about your kids’ school on mumsnet and also once talked about drug taking in your wild youth on reddit and also had a named facebook account for years, then those could all be connected. I expect people will radically change their online behaviour but for our generation there’s a lot that’s already out there.

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MissWillmottsZombie · 17/10/2026 13:30

AllJoyAndNoFun · 17/10/2026 12:36

I once read a zombie thread on which I'd posted back in 2011 without realising it was zombie. I read my own post and thought "god what a load of bollocks" and then realised it was me that had written it 😂

I have done this too.

I also remember the classic thread where a poster replied to her own question about pushchairs recommending one.

gullgal · 17/10/2026 13:30

I change my name regularly. And the genders and age of my children. I think I'm safe. Also I'm not ashamed of my view so it would not be the end of the world if I was identified. I just like a bit of privacy and don't want to be recognized in real life.

OooPourUsACupLove · 17/10/2026 13:30

LostPollypocket · 17/10/2026 13:27

This is a reassuring thought! But only from this point forwards. Archived materials up from the start of the internet to the start of generative AI are available. The internet won’t ever be the same again, for many AI related reasons, but past data will be valuable for a while yet.

There's quite a lot like that - new risks in old data.

Bit coin transaction records that are perfectly secure today will reveal bit coin keys once quantum computing emerges.

Oliveoy · 17/10/2026 13:31

LostPollypocket · 17/10/2026 13:23

Interesting paper here. Small n but proof pf principle. Shows the difference the right prompt makes for anyone sceptical after their own experiments.

aclanthology.org/2024.findings-emnlp.26/

“This paper explores how to leverage LLMs for authorship analysis. Through comprehensive evaluation, it demonstrates that LLMs, equipped with the novel Linguistically Informed Prompting (LIP)
technique, excel at identifying authorship without the need for domain-specific fine-tuning. By directly applying our end-to-end methods to authorship attribution and verification tasks, we aim to bypass the intermediate steps of feature extraction
and manual annotation.”

There's a huge difference though between an LLM being able to choose the correct match between 20 candidates, and being able to scour millions of pieces of writing to find a match. The more candidates there are the closer the variation would become between some, to the point of being indistinguishable. There could never be any reasonable level of confidence, writing isn't a fingerprint

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