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A parking one! Blue badge dilemma

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BluebadgeCF · 11/10/2026 11:01

Short version: my new neighbours are CF and are trying to steal a visitor parking space because they have a blue badge, they are not the only blue badge holders in the block of flats, and are behaving unreasonably.

long story: no diagram as I am sat in the car waiting for DSs sporting activity to end.

I live in a small block of flats, ten in total built 20 ish years ago, all are either privately rented or owned. They are all 2 bedrooms and there is a private carpark accessible via a gated entry you need a fob to get into.

Every flat has 1 allocated parking space and there are 4 visitor spaces at the very furthest end of the car park. One of the spaces used to have a disabled symbol on it, but is the same size as all the other spaces and is the furthest parking spot from the entrance of the car park and not the most accessible. There is no other signage indicating it’s a disabled spot and you would only know it “used” to be the designated spot if you had lived here a long time, it’s not on the deeds etc.

I don’t have a blue badge, a couple of my relatives do and a couple of the existing residents do. Even though people who live in the flats have blue badges nobody uses the parking spot as it literally the worst spot in the whole car park, it also next to the hedges which need cutting back, it’s also at an odd angle and normally really tight to get in, with the hedges making it worse.

We have new neighbours, a family of 5 plus two dogs - yes in a two bedroom flat - they also have two cars and one of the residents, not sure who, also has a blue badge. I have noticed the “disabled” space has been occupied recently - it’s usually empty cos it’s a horrible space as mentioned above.

I had a relative with a blue badge visit this week and I moved my car into the “disabled” parking spot for a couple of days, as it was the only one free and I had a legitimate reason to be there, despite I don’t believe it being a legally enforced disabled parking space. This was so my relative who needs mobility aids could use my spot, which is easier to drive into and doesn’t have a whopping hedge growing into it, making it easier for her to get out of the car.

New neighbours are pissed! Apparently they have rung their landlord and the estate agent has been round knocking on everyone’s doors (me and relative have been out in her car so missed this) because new neighbours have a blue badge and must be able to use the car parking space at all times.

One of my elderly neighbours spoke to me about this and is very worried I am going to get in trouble. IMO though the new neighbours are just trying to get a second parking space for free, by claiming sole use of the “disabled” visitor space, like they are the only people in the world who own a blue badge. When in reality what they want to do is be able to park both of their cars in the secure parking area, rather like the rest of us who either have two cars of visitors park on the ample street parking (it’s a village not a city). My neighbour who is worried is also a blue badge holder, but parks in his allocated space.

AIBU to keep parking there or letting my visitors who have blue badges!?

It’s a visitor space, it’s on private land, no signage to say it’s disabled anyway so I could technically park there even if I wasnt doing so to for a blue badge holder, the new neighbours simply have to use there one allocated spot and not occupy a visitor space permanently.

OP posts:
ThisMachineWillNotCommunicate · 11/10/2026 15:18

Why didn’t you display your visitor’s blue badge? If your visitor has a blue badge and needs to use the space of course that is fine so long as the badge is displayed. If the badge wasn’t on display I can understand the neighbours feeling annoyed as they wouldn’t have known it was being used by a blue badge holder.

BlueMum16 · 11/10/2026 15:22

Your neighbour is a CF.

Your BF can and should park there as a visitor. It's not marked as an accessible space.

Your neighbour has no more right to a second space than anyone else in the block speak to the agent and ask them to send a reminder to all residents.

attichoarder · 11/10/2026 15:22

It doesn’t sound as if it’s a disabled spot so you are quite at liberty to park there. It would be different if it was marked clearly - so no issue.

parkezvous · 11/10/2026 15:33

Put your visitors blue badge in your car and park there.

Sahara123 · 11/10/2026 15:41

parkezvous · 11/10/2026 15:33

Put your visitors blue badge in your car and park there.

But only if the visitor is actually using the space, as she seems to have parked elsewhere in OP’s space that’s where the blue badge should be !

fuckeditupbadly · 11/10/2026 15:42

cartagenagina · 11/10/2026 11:45

Gosh! You’re rude!

What did I miss? Did OP say she displayed her visitors BB in her car parked in the disabled spot? If so, yes I missed that.

You missed that it is not in fact a disabled spot, or marked as one.

DragonsDenVibe · 11/10/2026 15:43

If the hedge is growing over the car park

Either each tenant pays to get it cut
Or
The management company of the flats gets it cut & every tenant pays their share
Or
Cut it yourselves

sashh · 11/10/2026 15:48

cartagenagina · 11/10/2026 11:36

You should have put your visitors blue badge on display in your car.

You can’t just park there if it’s a designated place.

Wtf?

You can't do that.

Tell the landlord it is a space is for visitors. You said there is ample on street parking, anyone with a BB can ask the council to make a BB parking space on the street.

HappyLizard23 · 11/10/2026 15:49

sashh · 11/10/2026 15:48

Wtf?

You can't do that.

Tell the landlord it is a space is for visitors. You said there is ample on street parking, anyone with a BB can ask the council to make a BB parking space on the street.

You definitely can, BB is for the person not the vehicle

Neverstopwondering · 11/10/2026 15:54

VeganConvert · 11/10/2026 11:36

You can’t reserve a bb space. It’s first come first served so if it’s vacant when they arrive all well and good but you can’t reserve it with a non bb parked car

This

My husband has a blue badge and these are the rules unless a sigh has been put up to signal that a particularly badge holder is only allowed to use it.

You say the original signage is no longer visible but I take it that this is a maintenance issue rather than it not being a blue badge place anymore. If so you can't park there without a bb, not even to do a kindness to a guest with a bb. The guest with bb needs to park their own car there.

CoastalCalm · 11/10/2026 15:55

Even if they apply for it to be designated as a disabled bay they won’t have an exclusive right to park there - they’re being dicks

Neverstopwondering · 11/10/2026 15:58

HappyLizard23 · 11/10/2026 15:49

You definitely can, BB is for the person not the vehicle

The badge would need to be registered to a new car though

A badge holder can have two different cars registered to them

You can ri g the council that allocated the badge and they will add second car details to your badge. It doesn't have to be a car the BB holder owns themselves.

Neverstopwondering · 11/10/2026 16:00

CoastalCalm · 11/10/2026 15:55

Even if they apply for it to be designated as a disabled bay they won’t have an exclusive right to park there - they’re being dicks

They would if the council decides they can. If a blue badge parking space has a number for a particular user put on it no other bb holder can use it. Basically the space becomes there own personal spot

Happyher · 11/10/2026 16:02

The disabled person can use their allocated spot and the other driver takes pot luck about where to park

Neverstopwondering · 11/10/2026 16:14

Happyher · 11/10/2026 16:02

The disabled person can use their allocated spot and the other driver takes pot luck about where to park

That is how it should work yes but it soulike they are playing silly buggers a little unless they have a genuine reason we don't know about for this

Boomer55 · 11/10/2026 16:17

Anyone with a BB can use the space. Those without should not.

AnonyMumAuDHD · 11/10/2026 16:23

BluebadgeCF · 11/10/2026 11:47

I only parked there to help a disabled relative park in my much nicer allocated spot, I didn’t know there was a blue badge holder living there until they kicked up a fuss and had the estate agent knocking demanding to know who was parking in the spot and why!

the reason I mention the size of the family is because the flats are very small and I see them go in the private rental market with a maximum occupancy of 3. So before they start parking wars they might want to make sure they are not in breach of their rental agreement or the leaseholder agreement. The original lease also says no dogs…

Ah, then you were also in the wrong - the BB goes in the car that belongs to and is being driven by the holder - so the bb should have been in your relative’s car. That your space was NOT a disabled space means it did not need to be displayed at all. YOU were parking your car and using their BB for a car that was unconnected to them so, even if the parking spot WAS a disabled spot rather than a visitor’s spot - you and your guest were breaking the law. You risk being subject to a fine of up to £1000 for 3rd party misuse and your guest risks having it confiscated.

So… park your car in your own space and park your guest in the visitor’s spot if it is free (and on the road if it is not). Display the B-badge if you cannot clarify whether it has disabled priority or not, though if the space is not clearly marked, it’s an irrelevance.

Alternatively, continue to let the guest park in your spot and you park on the road for the duration of their visit outside, given there is plenty of ample parking. You are not the visitor so you should not be parking in the visitor spot as you are a resident and it is your choice to give your guest your ‘nicer’ parking spot.

FunPreventionOfficer · 11/10/2026 16:30

Presumably you have moved your car now your visitor has gone. I wouldn’t give it another thought. What’s done is done. Move on.

Pingsung · 11/10/2026 16:40

In short even if it is a designated disabled space (which seems unlikely) new neighbours cant just decide its their space alone. All flat owners with a blue badge should take it in turns to use that space just to put them in their place.

Isobel201 · 11/10/2026 16:43

Neverstopwondering · 11/10/2026 15:58

The badge would need to be registered to a new car though

A badge holder can have two different cars registered to them

You can ri g the council that allocated the badge and they will add second car details to your badge. It doesn't have to be a car the BB holder owns themselves.

You don't need to register a blue badge to a vehicle for normal parking.

walrushurricane · 11/10/2026 16:47

Anyone with a blue badge can park in the space so why doesn't your visitor do that? It can't be that inconvenient.

HappyLizard23 · 11/10/2026 16:49

walrushurricane · 11/10/2026 16:47

Anyone with a blue badge can park in the space so why doesn't your visitor do that? It can't be that inconvenient.

Edited

It’s not a BB space

saveforthat · 11/10/2026 16:50

Neverstopwondering · 11/10/2026 15:58

The badge would need to be registered to a new car though

A badge holder can have two different cars registered to them

You can ri g the council that allocated the badge and they will add second car details to your badge. It doesn't have to be a car the BB holder owns themselves.

My blue badge is not registered to any car.

walrushurricane · 11/10/2026 16:50

Neverstopwondering · 11/10/2026 15:58

The badge would need to be registered to a new car though

A badge holder can have two different cars registered to them

You can ri g the council that allocated the badge and they will add second car details to your badge. It doesn't have to be a car the BB holder owns themselves.

You don't register the blue badge to a car. It goes with the disabled person. They can use it if a passenger in someone else's car.

HappyLizard23 · 11/10/2026 16:52

Neverstopwondering · 11/10/2026 15:58

The badge would need to be registered to a new car though

A badge holder can have two different cars registered to them

You can ri g the council that allocated the badge and they will add second car details to your badge. It doesn't have to be a car the BB holder owns themselves.

This is incorrect

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