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Airlines forced to seat children with parents

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ibeentothetop · 07/10/2026 22:07

Thanks Burnham, now it’ll be more expensive for child free people like me to pick a seat. I can’t believe that things like this even need to be legislated for.

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IzzyGone · 08/10/2026 07:04

Jessiesjammy · 08/10/2026 06:36

I’m glad you are confident he can, because I’ve seen him talk more about bus fares, airline seats and baps than I have about actual serious policy issues.
I am old enough to remember when the PM would be focused on the ‘big stuff’ and small little policies would be for the ministers to be concerned with.

Where are you “seeing” this? Are you watching parliament daily or are you seeing this in the media, who choose what to report

Mere1 · 08/10/2026 07:05

Besidemyselfwithworry · 07/10/2026 22:38

Years ago they seated people booking together all together

they assumed someone going on holiday needed a suitcase with clothes in AND hand luggage

they knew people would need a drink and might like a newspaper, a blanket and or a cushion

they served a meal incase people were hungry

now it is ALL extra -
it’s a money making scheme

But the low cost airlines flights are cheaper. You choose the ‘extras’ you pay for.

yorkshireteabagman · 08/10/2026 07:09

I believe they have to seat under 12's next to a parent currently? That's what happens with RyanAir. I don't (refuse to) pay and each time the under 12's get placed next to me and teenager elsewhere on the plane

SplishSplash123 · 08/10/2026 07:10

Why would it be more expensive? Your point doesn't make sense.
Surely airlines just allocate the parents and children to seats after those who have paid to choose have made their selections.

Why is it so common for people to look at policy announcements that aren't applicable to them, and start assuming that because they don't benefit they must be suffering a downside?

StarlightLady · 08/10/2026 07:12

yorkshireteabagman · 08/10/2026 07:09

I believe they have to seat under 12's next to a parent currently? That's what happens with RyanAir. I don't (refuse to) pay and each time the under 12's get placed next to me and teenager elsewhere on the plane

It doesn’t have to be next to, it can include immediately in front or immediately behind.

MeowDoku · 08/10/2026 07:12

DaisyDooley · 07/10/2026 23:35

It’s time that it becomes mandatory to book and pseats if your children are under 12.
At the time of booking you should hve to choose, book and pay for your seats.
Then, people like me who fly with an adult daughter and always book my seats when I book the flight won’t be moved.
If you can’t afford to book seats for your party you can’t afford to go away.
This makes it much more simple and fair.
Or if this would help, the price you pay should include your seat reservation which you select on booking.
No ‘separate’ seat charge.

What about people like me who don't care where they sit? When just DH and I fly together we don't book and pay for seats, we are absolutely fine not to sit next to each other on a flight for a few hours so why should I pay to book a seat or have it increase the price of a standard seat by being included when I don't want it? We live close to a small airport and are happy to do weekends with hand luggage only, a short flight doesn't matter where we sit

motherhoodisntfortheweak · 08/10/2026 07:13

AS IT SHOULD BE!!!

DeftGoldHedgehog · 08/10/2026 07:14

ibeentothetop · 07/10/2026 22:07

Thanks Burnham, now it’ll be more expensive for child free people like me to pick a seat. I can’t believe that things like this even need to be legislated for.

Oh what a shame. 😂

MixedBananas · 08/10/2026 07:15

Besidemyselfwithworry · 07/10/2026 22:38

Years ago they seated people booking together all together

they assumed someone going on holiday needed a suitcase with clothes in AND hand luggage

they knew people would need a drink and might like a newspaper, a blanket and or a cushion

they served a meal incase people were hungry

now it is ALL extra -
it’s a money making scheme

Thank you!!!

MeowDoku · 08/10/2026 07:17

nomoremsniceperson · 08/10/2026 06:44

...If you're child free what are you even doing on MN in the first place?

To be fair I have a child but I don't only travel with them, I travel alone, with DH,with friends etc with no children present

DeftGoldHedgehog · 08/10/2026 07:18

IzzyGone · 08/10/2026 07:04

Where are you “seeing” this? Are you watching parliament daily or are you seeing this in the media, who choose what to report

Small stuff like public transport that gets people to work every day?

This is bloody important. Even my local Conservative MP has done a lot with the local train company to make sure the services are better as she recognises it's important to voters.

MyOtherProfile · 08/10/2026 07:27

Besidemyselfwithworry · 07/10/2026 22:38

Years ago they seated people booking together all together

they assumed someone going on holiday needed a suitcase with clothes in AND hand luggage

they knew people would need a drink and might like a newspaper, a blanket and or a cushion

they served a meal incase people were hungry

now it is ALL extra -
it’s a money making scheme

This! Back when flying made sense!

hellomylov3 · 08/10/2026 07:30

Well wouldn't it be worse if you were stuck next to some random child for the flight because they weren't seated with a parent? Ridiculous post.

NetZeroZealot · 08/10/2026 07:31

Besidemyselfwithworry · 07/10/2026 22:38

Years ago they seated people booking together all together

they assumed someone going on holiday needed a suitcase with clothes in AND hand luggage

they knew people would need a drink and might like a newspaper, a blanket and or a cushion

they served a meal incase people were hungry

now it is ALL extra -
it’s a money making scheme

The business models have changed but sll commercial businesses need to make a profit.
Booking a flight isn’t a public service.
If you don’t like the cheap airlines’ business models then pay more for BA or whatever.

TY78910 · 08/10/2026 07:37

Ionlymakejokestodistractmyself · 07/10/2026 22:44

LOL nice try OP.

I think most families who fly will be delighted.

Just sit where you get given if your can't afford it.

Ryanair charge you for sitting next to your kid currently.

I have been seated behind my 2yo and my 5yo because I hadn't booked seats, apparently that counted as sitting "together" (hadn't flown for a while and didn't realize vindictive airlines were seemingly making life difficult for those who didn't pay).

I’ve always had the opposite with Ryanair. When choosing seats it always forced me to pick one next to my DCs. An error would come up saying I have to sit directly next to (as the main booking person) as opposed to DH.

Slightyamusedandsilly · 08/10/2026 07:40

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 07/10/2026 22:19

That's a shame. I'd pay not to sit next to mine. 😆

Too bloody right!

Namechangewegovyjune26 · 08/10/2026 07:41

Limeandfigs · 07/10/2026 22:22

And just to be clear - your issue is with Andy Burnham rather than, say, the airlines who weren't complying with international regulations or who gouge their customers at every turn because the truth is that flying is a bloody expensive business but the hordes still clamour for cheap trips to Spain?

It's a novel take, I'll give you that.

🤣🤣

wherethewaterisdarker · 08/10/2026 07:41

Good - ridiculous to have to pay to sit next to your young children (and discriminatory too).

Johnogroats · 08/10/2026 07:43

Last time I flew Ryanair with DH and DS (17 at the time I think) we were automatically allocated seats in row 1 (me!) row 15 and row 30. I don’t care at all… but clearly they are trying hard to be awkward to put more pressure on people to book seats.

MyOtherProfile · 08/10/2026 07:43

Mere1 · 08/10/2026 07:05

But the low cost airlines flights are cheaper. You choose the ‘extras’ you pay for.

It's not just low cost airlines that add on all the extras at a cost now though.

TunnocksOrDeath · 08/10/2026 07:48

SplishSplash123 · 08/10/2026 07:10

Why would it be more expensive? Your point doesn't make sense.
Surely airlines just allocate the parents and children to seats after those who have paid to choose have made their selections.

Why is it so common for people to look at policy announcements that aren't applicable to them, and start assuming that because they don't benefit they must be suffering a downside?

Everything about flights is data-driven, and modelled to allow airlines to be as competitive as they can be on price while still turning a profit. This includes the base-price of seats, plus the price-point of up-selling seat-selection options. They know that flights between certain destinations at certain times of year will have more families sat on them, If you remove the opportunity to charge extra for families to sit together they’ll make-up the lost revenue by increasing the base-price of all seats.

TheBrunswick · 08/10/2026 07:54

PsoriasisProblem · 08/10/2026 06:53

I love Ryanair, 40+ year record of no fatalities! I’d rather that and some extra charges !

This.
I use Ryanair regularly, I never pay more than the base fare shown.
France to UK, one way, generally out of school holidays costs me about £26.
Even in summer holidays there's usually a flight for £80.
It's relatively much cheaper than airfare 30 years ago.
Just after covid I was flying for £5.

bababamama · 08/10/2026 07:56

Just book an airline that doesn’t deliberately split people up. I flown with TUI, easyJet and BA this year and for all 3 was seated next to my dh without paying extra.

Ablondiebutagoody · 08/10/2026 07:56

I never pay for seats and Easyjet always sit me and DS together. Window and middle seat every single time. I don't think that much will change for other people. Not sure why you think that your price will increase.

Newname26 · 08/10/2026 07:58

Ljbg · 07/10/2026 22:17

As far as I am aware it does seem redundant. I believe they aren't allowed to seat a child away from a parent, so if you book and don't pay to sit with your child and it gets left up to them to select they will always place the child with a parent. They won't necessarily place the whole family together, but they don't need to, the other parents can sit alone.
I've taken 3 flights with my daughter and never once paid to sit next to her and always have been...so yeah not sure if needs to be legislated for..

We never pay for seats.
Normally the lead on the booking is the middle seat, kids on either side.
The other parent across the asile occasionally infront / behind

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