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checonfusione · 03/10/2026 16:09

I’m looking at a two and a half week backpacking trip next summer, and I think I’ve found a route I’m happy with. I’m just looking for opinions on whether I need to do longer in some places or less time in others:

  1. Porto - 3 nights
  2. lisbon - 3 nights
  3. Malaga - 3 nights
  4. madrid - 3 nights
  5. barcelona - 4 nights

I think it’s pretty doable and cost effective with hostels in some places, Airbnbs in others and then a splurge on a hotel in Barcelona. AIBU to do it this way? Is there anywhere I should drop/add?

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Ablondiebutagoody · 06/10/2026 15:38

I'm going to avoid the Inbetweeners 2 style discussion regarding the definition of backpacking 😂

Sounds like a lovely trip but I would try to spend less time in Barcelona in favour of maybe Cadiz/Valencia/Grenada

checonfusione · 06/10/2026 17:23

i’ve deviated slightly from my original plan, and this is what I’ve settled on:

start in Lisbon, and head to Barcelona where I’ll stay outside of the city on the beach. From Barcelona, a short flight on to Geneva where I’ll be staying in a small town on the lake. Then on to Innsbruck and then onto the dolomites

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EBearhug · 06/10/2026 17:46

You can do the rest 9n the next trip. 😉

checonfusione · 06/10/2026 17:49

EBearhug · 06/10/2026 17:46

You can do the rest 9n the next trip. 😉

Definitely

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croisette · 07/10/2026 16:04

anon666 · 05/10/2026 16:07

One of the rudest, most unnecessary posts I've ever seen here. 🙄 But "you do you".

No, actually, on second thoughts, please don't "do you", its patronising, belittling, and completely pointless. If you dont have something useful to say, why bother?

Were you one of those kids whose parents hung off every word you said? 😆😆

If that is one of the rudest most unnecessary posts you’ve ever seen on mumsnet you can’t have been here for long…

anon666 · 07/10/2026 19:37

croisette · 07/10/2026 16:04

If that is one of the rudest most unnecessary posts you’ve ever seen on mumsnet you can’t have been here for long…

Yeah, you'd think so wouldn't you?

20 years. Since the days of "first name terms", the same group of posters. It was witty, clever and cliquey, but not pointlessly aggro.

It's just I didnt think there was anything controversial about backpacking that required "but you do you". Just lazy point scoring.

Noodledog · 07/10/2026 19:41

checonfusione · 03/10/2026 17:41

Well I’ve just spoken to some family who are in Porto and they said it’s not worth it 😅

i’d be staying in hostels till the last stop of the trip, but now I’m wondering if northern Italy and Croatia might be better?

Porto is my favourite city in Europe. So beautiful and a great atmosphere. Personally I was disappointed by Croatia! It's so subjective.

checonfusione · 08/10/2026 17:18

croisette · 07/10/2026 16:04

If that is one of the rudest most unnecessary posts you’ve ever seen on mumsnet you can’t have been here for long…

No I agree with them. I’ve been on here in some iteration for 15+ years and I’ve never seen someone be so needlessly snarky.

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FloridaCheese · 09/10/2026 04:28

JustWalnut · 03/10/2026 16:50

Not in my book. It doesn't matter what kind of luggage you're taking, it's still just a holiday.

Me-aow

Thecows · 10/10/2026 19:08

checonfusione · 08/10/2026 17:18

No I agree with them. I’ve been on here in some iteration for 15+ years and I’ve never seen someone be so needlessly snarky.

I agree too, I've been on here 22 years. Of course it's not the worst thing I've ever read but it's just so pathetic. 'You do you' ffs.

Love your itinerary OP! Can't wait to hear all about it! Be even better if you posted some pictures x

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