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AIBU to think ClassDojo and the rest do more harm than good?

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MostlyKeepingMyHeadDown · 02/10/2026 16:29

My own kids are grown now, but I've spent years teaching and then training teachers, and I've watched these apps spread through primary schools without anyone really questioning them. AIBU to think they deserve a lot more scrutiny than they get?

Main things that keep coming up:

  • The quiet, well-behaved kid sits on the same few points for weeks while a classmate having a rough patch gets showered with extras for "improving" — zero isn't neutral next to someone else's double figures.
  • Some kids work out that being naughty one day and good the next wins more points than just being consistently fine.
  • Points get docked for things like fidgeting or being distracted once — minor stuff that still follows a child round publicly for the rest of the week.
  • It's visible to the whole class, sometimes to parents too, so one bad day becomes a bad day everyone can see.
  • Kids with ADHD or autism can end up with negatives for things that are really about the disability — lost homework, poor organisation — not wilful misbehaviour.
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Lilyhatesjaz · 02/10/2026 23:54

I remember picking DD up from school in reception. Quite a few children were coming out with lots of stickers and she never seemed to have any. I asked her why not and she told me that stickers were just for the naughty children.

Girasoli · 03/10/2026 07:29

We don't have it at my DCs school - with the points are the rewards just individual or for the best class/house etc?

At my DCs school they get physical housepoints put into a jar and then the best house gets a treat - I like that way of doing things as its more collective.

TheBirdintheCave · 03/10/2026 07:40

My son has just started year 1 and his teacher uses this app. She suggested we all add it on the children’s devices (my son is five, he doesn’t have a device 🙄) so that the kids could message each other?? None of the parents were happy about this.

cloudtreecarpet · 03/10/2026 07:58

TheBirdintheCave · 03/10/2026 07:40

My son has just started year 1 and his teacher uses this app. She suggested we all add it on the children’s devices (my son is five, he doesn’t have a device 🙄) so that the kids could message each other?? None of the parents were happy about this.

Omg, that's ridiculous! I would be flagging that up with the Headteacher if I were you.

Encouraging five year olds to basically begin using social media is such a bad message from their teacher.

Very irresponsible I would say.

WishIStudiedScience · 03/10/2026 08:00

DoJoNoNo · 02/10/2026 17:07

I'm a teacher and loathe this app more than I can say. It adds to my workload through the expectation that I am now responsible for curating the online presence of my class in a way that delights and engages all parents yet raises no questions nor prompts negative engagement. It's so stressful and causes me to constantly second guess myself, my practice and the online content I'm compelled to create. It's takes approximately 15 minutes of my day, which doesn't sound like much, but my list of "Oh, it's just 15 minutes, we owe it to the children" list is long and probably amounts to 3-4 hours over the course of a week, and that's on top of marking, lesson planning, resource creation and running extracurricular activities. I already work a good few hours from home after my DC have gone to bed most nights and a day on the weekend, so time is precious. There is a weird humiliation in having to post insanely cheery snaps and messages from the day in class while I am feeling terrible about the amount of time my career steals from my own DC.

And don't get me started on how accessible it makes me through the direct messaging function, and therefore professionally vulnerable -engaging with parents while officially 'off' work, and off site.

It's a scurge, and definitely was not created with teacher wellbeing in mind.

I entirely agree.

Meredusoleil · 03/10/2026 08:07

I don't have an issue with ClassDojo if used well within school. Not with parents allowed or children themselves. Just teacher controlled and for positive points. It's very popular with the children themselves ime. I find it creates a healthy sense of competition whilst also encouraging more cohesion and teamwork due to whole class dojo points.

cloudtreecarpet · 03/10/2026 08:07

My kids are young adults now but I remember them coming home from primary school and asking why children in their class who swore at the teacher or refused to do their work were then playing football or whatever in the playground with an adult. It always looked like a nice reward for bad behaviour.

And they were both used to sit with "naughty" children to act as a role model which they hated.

But I get why teachers did that (& presumably still do). It's hard to manage the motivation and reward of children who struggle to behave against rewarding those who find that easy.
As adults we get it but young children have a heightened sense of fairness and don't necessarily have the maturity to understand the methodology behind the rewards being given for behaviour.

TheBirdintheCave · 03/10/2026 08:24

cloudtreecarpet · 03/10/2026 07:58

Omg, that's ridiculous! I would be flagging that up with the Headteacher if I were you.

Encouraging five year olds to basically begin using social media is such a bad message from their teacher.

Very irresponsible I would say.

We have raised it with him along with the insane amount of tv time they were having. They were getting an episode of Peter Rabbit at 8.50 as soon as they were all in class. Then more screens after phonics. Then more again during ‘dough disco’.

Oh and then the kids have been given logins to a maths app which they expect them to do five minutes a day on. Again, on what device? 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Girasoli · 03/10/2026 08:32

We have a lot of online homework too...we can do it from a desk top site though (I would have complained if it was app only - we don't have an ipad and I don't ŕeally want the DC doing homework on a phone).

cloudtreecarpet · 03/10/2026 08:34

TheBirdintheCave · 03/10/2026 08:24

We have raised it with him along with the insane amount of tv time they were having. They were getting an episode of Peter Rabbit at 8.50 as soon as they were all in class. Then more screens after phonics. Then more again during ‘dough disco’.

Oh and then the kids have been given logins to a maths app which they expect them to do five minutes a day on. Again, on what device? 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Oh dear. That just sound lazy on the part of the teacher tbh.

Makes it hard to make other choices about screens, apps etc when school are doing this.

TheBirdintheCave · 05/10/2026 23:17

cloudtreecarpet · 03/10/2026 08:34

Oh dear. That just sound lazy on the part of the teacher tbh.

Makes it hard to make other choices about screens, apps etc when school are doing this.

Yep. Head has dealt with some of it though and now they have quiet reading time when they come in in the morning.

LateNightOne · 06/10/2026 00:56

SquirrelRed · 02/10/2026 17:51

I completely agree with this. I still remember when I was at school a girl called Jenny got house points (which were written in a planner in those days) for doing her homework once in a blue moon, while the rest of us who did our homework every week got nothing.
It infuriated me then and does now that the same is still happening with my 2 kids.

I don't think it's the app that causes the problem, it's the people who are using them.

My dd2 did a presentation today with another pupil. Did well. Zero points or praise.

Boy never doing any work nor today got points. They were both supposed to be prepared and able to answer questions. He messed around in the lesson spent for preparation and didn't study at home.

She was furious. Bad behaviour rewarded. All the time.

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