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Like him but struggling with this physical feature that apparently all men have of a certain age?

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Numppp · 23/09/2026 20:45

Met someone lovely. I do fancy him. But, he has a small bum. He very much needs a belt. It’s basically flat. He’s late 40s and lost a lot of weight in last few years (previously overweight now a healthy weight) which I think has emphasised this even more.

Girlfriends are saying this is normal with age (he’s around 8 years older than me) and happens with all men. Does it?! I’ve never noticed it before. I don’t want this to be an issue as I really do like him. We’ve not DTD yet

FayeMumsnet · 28/09/2026 15:26

Hi there.

Can we please keep the thread on topic and avoid it turning into an argument? It does tend to derail the discussion and make it less enjoyable for everyone who is trying to take part.

Thanks.

MNHQ.

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