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Is it wrong to give 2 year old a bottle?

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apronandscones · Yesterday 23:46

I still give my two year old a bottle. I’ve been told they are too old. I don’t see the issue.

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SeptemberRains · Today 11:23

@Littledidsheknow
The sucking from a bottle and from a breast are totally different and involve different muscles. Breast feeding involves tongue and jaw movement, bottle feeding is lip movement and suction.

Aliscent · Today 11:24

Despite standardized guidelines, prolonged bottle-feeding (keeping the bottle up to age 2, 3, or even older) remains highly prevalent across both developing and developed nations due to cultural factors, convenience, and community habits.

It's common for toddlers in Asia to drink milk from a bottle until they are 3-4 years old. It's about ensuring good milk intake and preventing rapid weight loss.

My older child stopped at ca. 18 months, he just refused it himself.
My younger one still cried for a bottle at night when he was 4 (and had a rumbling tummy). His teeth are fine.

Littledidsheknow · Today 11:31

SeptemberRains · Today 11:23

@Littledidsheknow
The sucking from a bottle and from a breast are totally different and involve different muscles. Breast feeding involves tongue and jaw movement, bottle feeding is lip movement and suction.

OK. I think they’re probably slightly different actions, but not so completely or vastly so.

I did breastfeed, but when moving on to “follow on milk” at around 10 months many of the teats then were marketed as being “just like the real thing”
DS switched between the 2 without a waver.

He's 34 now anyway… tall strong and with perfect teeth!

Jk987 · Today 11:43

I think 1-2 bottles a day is no big deal. It’s comforting and means they get more nutrition down them. It doesn’t mean they don’t use cups!

FlippingGiraffe · Today 11:45

Still reading but do you mean the actual bottle or milk? We give my son (2 in a few weeks) milk still but in a valve free cup

Hoardasurass · Today 11:59

PinkWaffleMaker · Today 11:17

I know lots of people who still put a bottle in the cot when a child is 2 or even 3! It isn’t recommended but I don’t think it’s that uncommon.

Why are those children still in cots at 2 let alone 3?

TheFairyCaravan · Today 12:00

DGS is 2.8. He hasn’t had a bottle since he was 1. His sippy cups went before his second birthday. Any milk he has is drunk out of an open cup, as is his water at meal times. When he drinks water in the day he has it out of a Yeti water bottle.

newseries · Today 12:00

Most sleep experts recommend the cot to age three in fact.

Hoardasurass · Today 12:02

Littledidsheknow · Today 11:19

DS enjoyed a bottle of milk at bedtime until he was 2.5, used a cup at all other times.

How can it be bad for mouth and jaw if breastfeeding is still recommended and encouraged until 2? That also involves sucking!

The muscles used and the suckling action is completely different from using a bottle and as such doesn't damage the teeth or jaw.

FlippityFlippityFlop · Today 12:04

My 4 year old still has one at night. They drink and eat fine all day - but need that extra comfort at night. They have it while we lie down and read a story, then brush teeth and go to sleep.
Honestly - I'm not going to her worked up about it. Do what works for your child and your family.

LoafofSellotape · Today 12:07

newseries · Today 11:23

It isn’t ideal but DD still has a bottle of milk at night and she’s three. As long as they can drink from a cup I think there are worse things.

Yeah,ds had a night time bottle until 2.5/3 ,can't quite remember but I remember thinking that there were bigger fish to fry.

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