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AIBU to be so sick of tradespeople/ cleaners asking for cash in hand?

503 replies

Endlesspasswords · 03/09/2026 06:21

So my cleaner charges £21/hour cash, but just said she wants more if I pay by bank transfer, because bank transfer means she can’t dodge declaring it. As if paying by transfer (i.e. traceably) is some kind of favour/ privilege I should pay extra for.

Same with some work I got a quote for- it’s the attitude that if I don’t want to pay in cash, I’m the one ‘hurting’ their bank balance or being awkward.

I’m freelance B2B myself. No sick pay, no employer pension contributions, no paid holiday, I know exactly what it’s like to carry your own tax and NI. But I still pay tax on every invoice, because that’s the deal.

I’m so sick with the fact that self-employed people in one sector get to treat tax as optional while others pay for their healthcare, schools etc.

and yes, I’m getting a new cleaner.

OP posts:
Loveofeclairs · 03/09/2026 13:15

EasternStandard · 03/09/2026 12:33

Would you really report a low paid female cleaner on about £22k a year?

£21 per hour is about £40k per year. Even considering travel time and expenses, she’ll be way above £22k on full time hours.

Mirrorxxx · 03/09/2026 13:16

statement · 03/09/2026 11:49

Meh, I don't give a shit. Cleaners and those on low wages trying to maximise on the little they earn is not a big deal to me. I will never report a cleaner, what a shit you'd have to be.

Just stop buying from Amazon.

Small businesses account for most tax avoidance. Why should paye people subsidize them

Loveofeclairs · 03/09/2026 13:19

Badbadbunny · 03/09/2026 13:14

You don't understand the differences between being employed and self employed, i.e. no paid holidays, no paid sick leave, no pay for admin time, paying for own transport/materials/equipment etc. You can't compare an employee rate with a self employed rate.

I do understand it but didn’t want to do a detailed breakdown of her business accounts in a mumsnet post. Even taking all of that into account, she’ll be above minimum wage, which is £24,800 per year. And those people still pay tax, so why shouldn’t the cleaner?

Beachlover1993 · 03/09/2026 13:21

Endlesspasswords · 03/09/2026 06:21

So my cleaner charges £21/hour cash, but just said she wants more if I pay by bank transfer, because bank transfer means she can’t dodge declaring it. As if paying by transfer (i.e. traceably) is some kind of favour/ privilege I should pay extra for.

Same with some work I got a quote for- it’s the attitude that if I don’t want to pay in cash, I’m the one ‘hurting’ their bank balance or being awkward.

I’m freelance B2B myself. No sick pay, no employer pension contributions, no paid holiday, I know exactly what it’s like to carry your own tax and NI. But I still pay tax on every invoice, because that’s the deal.

I’m so sick with the fact that self-employed people in one sector get to treat tax as optional while others pay for their healthcare, schools etc.

and yes, I’m getting a new cleaner.

I pay cash alot but its when i get a discount from paying in cash

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 13:22

Loveofeclairs · 03/09/2026 13:19

I do understand it but didn’t want to do a detailed breakdown of her business accounts in a mumsnet post. Even taking all of that into account, she’ll be above minimum wage, which is £24,800 per year. And those people still pay tax, so why shouldn’t the cleaner?

I think it’s clear you have no idea what you’re talking about given you’re suggesting cleaners make over £40k a year. It’s embarrassing.

WindsorGreatPark · 03/09/2026 13:23

Mirrorxxx · 03/09/2026 13:16

Small businesses account for most tax avoidance. Why should paye people subsidize them

Tax avoidance is completely legal.
Tax evasion isn't.

Large businesses use legal loopholes such as headquarters in low tax countries to avoid paying their share.

Small businesses and individuals cannot do that.

I know where my sympathies lie and it isn't with Amazon or their ilk. Closing the loopholes they use would do far more for tax revenue than hammering cleaners for doing cash in hand work.

Loveofeclairs · 03/09/2026 13:24

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 13:15

How many hours a day do you think the average domestic cleaner works? In reality many will be well below the basic rate tax threshold anyway. Those who prefer cash are typically requesting it for entirely legitimate reasons. Anyone here who thinks house cleaners are living some glamorous tax free lifestyle are deluded. Have a word with yourselves.

Do supermarket workers or bin collectors lead a glamorous lifestyle? What about nurses and care workers? Why should their tax subsidise those self employed who think that paying tax is not for them?

Loveofeclairs · 03/09/2026 13:25

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 13:22

I think it’s clear you have no idea what you’re talking about given you’re suggesting cleaners make over £40k a year. It’s embarrassing.

Reading comprehension is clearly not your strong suit. Are you the cleaner in the OP?

MummyOre · 03/09/2026 13:25

Tiptopflipflop · 03/09/2026 07:09

I totally agree. And I report each and every one of them to HMRC, because if they're operating legitimately they have nothing to worry about.
www.gov.uk/report-tax-fraud

Seriously? 🤐

moonraker0 · 03/09/2026 13:27

Loveofeclairs · 03/09/2026 13:24

Do supermarket workers or bin collectors lead a glamorous lifestyle? What about nurses and care workers? Why should their tax subsidise those self employed who think that paying tax is not for them?

I work in a supermarket and have no problem with the cleaner being paid in cash. I don’t understand why everyone is saying to report them when so many huge corporations and famous people are blatantly dodging tax and not even hiding it but people still use these companies knowing exactly what they are doing.

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 13:30

Loveofeclairs · 03/09/2026 13:24

Do supermarket workers or bin collectors lead a glamorous lifestyle? What about nurses and care workers? Why should their tax subsidise those self employed who think that paying tax is not for them?

Yet again, just assuming that asking for cash is for a tax dodge. If you’d reviewed the thread you’d have seen lots of legitimate reasons why people do this.

Bolon · 03/09/2026 13:30

WindsorGreatPark · 03/09/2026 13:23

Tax avoidance is completely legal.
Tax evasion isn't.

Large businesses use legal loopholes such as headquarters in low tax countries to avoid paying their share.

Small businesses and individuals cannot do that.

I know where my sympathies lie and it isn't with Amazon or their ilk. Closing the loopholes they use would do far more for tax revenue than hammering cleaners for doing cash in hand work.

How simple do you think that would be to do? If it’s easy, why haven’t previous PMs already done it? It’s impossible for a country to act alone and get anywhere on this. The OECD is moving forward with global reform here but there is absolutely nothing the UK government can do that it isn’t already.

Whoops75 · 03/09/2026 13:30

My friends DH is a plumber and they are so cash rich. I do feel envy at times but it seems to be the norm, we recently paid a painter 6,000 in cash for doing our house.

Bolon · 03/09/2026 13:31

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 13:30

Yet again, just assuming that asking for cash is for a tax dodge. If you’d reviewed the thread you’d have seen lots of legitimate reasons why people do this.

90% of the time it is a tax dodge. Small businesses are 62% of the tax evasion in the UK. It’s utterly vast.

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 13:31

Whoops75 · 03/09/2026 13:30

My friends DH is a plumber and they are so cash rich. I do feel envy at times but it seems to be the norm, we recently paid a painter 6,000 in cash for doing our house.

Which is a completely lawful and legitimate way to pay for goods and services.

TheTortiePuffinNeedsHerBreakfast · 03/09/2026 13:33

I barely use cash for anything and would definitely not agree to a weekly cash payment for anybody. What a hassle, especially as so many ATMs have disappeared recently.

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 13:33

Bolon · 03/09/2026 13:31

90% of the time it is a tax dodge. Small businesses are 62% of the tax evasion in the UK. It’s utterly vast.

Is your solution to ban cash payments?

Loveofeclairs · 03/09/2026 13:33

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 13:30

Yet again, just assuming that asking for cash is for a tax dodge. If you’d reviewed the thread you’d have seen lots of legitimate reasons why people do this.

But not to ask for cash exclusively, especially when no invoice or receipt is provided. And also not the situation described in the OP.

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 13:36

Loveofeclairs · 03/09/2026 13:33

But not to ask for cash exclusively, especially when no invoice or receipt is provided. And also not the situation described in the OP.

You’ll end up in a society with no cash.

Bolon · 03/09/2026 13:39

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 13:33

Is your solution to ban cash payments?

Yes. That is my solution. For the extra £26bn it would raise would you not think it worth while?

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 13:48

Bolon · 03/09/2026 13:39

Yes. That is my solution. For the extra £26bn it would raise would you not think it worth while?

Do you really want to live in a society without cash? What becomes of the millions of people who do not have (and cannot open) bank accounts? Or those who do, but are debanked (not as rare as you’d think). How would the homeless manage? What about those who cannot afford smart phones or internet access, or the elderly who cannot work the tech. Do you want a society where you are forced to entrust all of your money to third parties (are banks always safe? - imagine not having a bit of cash for emergencies). What if you were in a financially controlling relationship and cash was the only way to protect your money? What happens when the banking tech goes down - it happens and people don’t fully realise how vulnerable that system is. Many rural areas do not have access to the necessary tech infrastructure to enable bank payments. This is before we even get on to the question of freedoms and the state’s right to track absolutely everything you do. Honestly, there are so many reasons that cash is important and it’s crazy that some people would so willingly give it up.

EasternStandard · 03/09/2026 13:55

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 13:48

Do you really want to live in a society without cash? What becomes of the millions of people who do not have (and cannot open) bank accounts? Or those who do, but are debanked (not as rare as you’d think). How would the homeless manage? What about those who cannot afford smart phones or internet access, or the elderly who cannot work the tech. Do you want a society where you are forced to entrust all of your money to third parties (are banks always safe? - imagine not having a bit of cash for emergencies). What if you were in a financially controlling relationship and cash was the only way to protect your money? What happens when the banking tech goes down - it happens and people don’t fully realise how vulnerable that system is. Many rural areas do not have access to the necessary tech infrastructure to enable bank payments. This is before we even get on to the question of freedoms and the state’s right to track absolutely everything you do. Honestly, there are so many reasons that cash is important and it’s crazy that some people would so willingly give it up.

I know. Hopefully we’ll keep some freedoms and cash.

Bolon · 03/09/2026 13:58

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 13:48

Do you really want to live in a society without cash? What becomes of the millions of people who do not have (and cannot open) bank accounts? Or those who do, but are debanked (not as rare as you’d think). How would the homeless manage? What about those who cannot afford smart phones or internet access, or the elderly who cannot work the tech. Do you want a society where you are forced to entrust all of your money to third parties (are banks always safe? - imagine not having a bit of cash for emergencies). What if you were in a financially controlling relationship and cash was the only way to protect your money? What happens when the banking tech goes down - it happens and people don’t fully realise how vulnerable that system is. Many rural areas do not have access to the necessary tech infrastructure to enable bank payments. This is before we even get on to the question of freedoms and the state’s right to track absolutely everything you do. Honestly, there are so many reasons that cash is important and it’s crazy that some people would so willingly give it up.

None of the above ‘reasons’ are valid though. Those reasons are just a mixture of ludditism and conspiracy theory madness. Are you saying none of these can be overcome? My parents are in their 80s and both taught computing. They know most about computers than I do. It’s really patronising to say old people don’t understand tech or aren’t capable of learning something new if they have to.

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 14:02

Bolon · 03/09/2026 13:58

None of the above ‘reasons’ are valid though. Those reasons are just a mixture of ludditism and conspiracy theory madness. Are you saying none of these can be overcome? My parents are in their 80s and both taught computing. They know most about computers than I do. It’s really patronising to say old people don’t understand tech or aren’t capable of learning something new if they have to.

with respect, you have a very privileged viewpoint. It’s great that your parents can manage, but many can’t. Nothing in my post was related in any way to conspiracy theories.

FirmSnake · 03/09/2026 14:03

EasternStandard · 03/09/2026 12:33

Would you really report a low paid female cleaner on about £22k a year?

Why not? Other low paid women are paying taxes to subsidising that cleaner. Do you think that is fair?