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Is this unprofessional?

254 replies

Mindthenicedeadpeople · 02/09/2026 12:11

Job interview for 12pm

10 candidates all booked in for 12pm being seen individually by one person.

So whoever is here last will presumably be interviewed an hour later than booked.

OP posts:
Mindthenicedeadpeople · Yesterday 10:35

Well, no response, but I expected that.

I have another interview today so hopefully that’ll be better!

OP posts:
SchrodingersParrot · Yesterday 10:41

Good luck, OP!

Overwhelmedandtired · Yesterday 10:47

Contain4 · 02/09/2026 20:06

Do people really only give themselves 1 hour for an interview?

I would have thought most people try and leave themselves a good 2 hours before going back to work etc.

Obviously if you’re a single parent then you may need to leave but if I was OP and the interviews were only a few minutes each, then I would have waited 30 minutes more to at least have been interviewed.

I wouldn’t have been pleased sitting there for an hour or more but if there’s only 1 staff member then it makes sense why she didn’t stagger it.

My assumption based on OPs comments regarding why she left

She had already decided she didn't want the position, she felt (as would I), the company was disorganised and disrespectful, so even if she waited for the interview and was offered the role she had no intention of accepting.

Her phone battery was low, so she had limited time left for entertainment while waiting, and also if it was needed for making payments/using maps/contacting others on the way home.

I believe she did have more time available and could have stayed, but knew it would be a waste of her time. I don't blame her for leaving, although I would have been interested in more updates! Not everyone is desperate for every job interview they attend, some are in a more fortunate position and can be pickier. An interview should ideally be two way, with the employer also demonstrating why the interviewee should want to work for them. In this case, they did an extremely poor job, and are more likely to end up with a lower quality candidate, as some who have a choice will self select the opt out button, as OP did.

Overwhelmedandtired · Yesterday 10:48

Mindthenicedeadpeople · Yesterday 10:35

Well, no response, but I expected that.

I have another interview today so hopefully that’ll be better!

Good luck! Hope they are much more professional today for you

AgentKim · Yesterday 10:56

Yes good luck today🍀

FannybygaslightinGovan · Yesterday 11:01

Good luck for today. I hope this company are more professional ❤️

Jaichangecentfoisdenom · Yesterday 11:37

Good luck for today, I hope it's much better all round than yesterday's was!

Newname26 · Yesterday 11:56

Good luck today.

TBH I'd expect most interviews to be an hour.
Unless it was a very basic job (cleaner, waitor type role) that doesn't need much experience. And really just a quick chance to meet someone, make sure the hours suit.

whynotwhatknot · Yesterday 12:12

good luck today op

you dont want to work for a dentist theyre highly strung not good timing managment they overbook to get more money which leaves you stressed and trying to sort it all out

exaltedwombat · Yesterday 18:03

A dentist hadn’t thought through how to run an interview session. Doesn’t necessarily make him a bad employer. Perhaps he needs you to get his office organized.

rb124 · Yesterday 19:03

Very unprofessional IMO - if they can't organise a simple thing like a schedule of appointments, how is the rest of the Company run?

F63C · Yesterday 19:08

Mindthenicedeadpeople · 02/09/2026 12:47

I have been here an hour.

The dentist is looking for a love interest.

I worked for a vet in the 80's who interviewed staff to try and find a wife. It worked after a few goes.

pollymere · Yesterday 19:34

It sounds like they tried to interview everyone who applied!

Maybe the nine year old was the one actually making the decision? Seeing how you all reacted in a room full of people? Or if you offered to help him? I'd have got chatting to him anyway.

bananaobama · Yesterday 19:49

How many jobs are available?

seeing 13 for one job is bad enough but not allocating individual time slots is abysmal

run, don’t walk

bananaobama · Yesterday 19:58

@Morepositivemum

are you for real? This is utterly abysmal to treat job hunters in this way

i work in recruitment and would expect a shit tonne of complaints if I handled my job like this. it’s totally abnormal

OP dodged a bullet. He sounds like he enjoys this hunger games style interview

bananaobama · Yesterday 19:59

exaltedwombat · Yesterday 18:03

A dentist hadn’t thought through how to run an interview session. Doesn’t necessarily make him a bad employer. Perhaps he needs you to get his office organized.

do me a favour. He presumably has attended interviews in his life and understands how basic appointments and scheduling work

Besidemyselfwithworry · Yesterday 19:59

Mindthenicedeadpeople · 02/09/2026 12:20

Also as an aside when did it become normal to wear trackie bottoms and old trainers to an interview?

Maybe the job centre sent them and they don’t even want the job???

Gwenhwyfar · Yesterday 20:35

Contain4 · 02/09/2026 20:06

Do people really only give themselves 1 hour for an interview?

I would have thought most people try and leave themselves a good 2 hours before going back to work etc.

Obviously if you’re a single parent then you may need to leave but if I was OP and the interviews were only a few minutes each, then I would have waited 30 minutes more to at least have been interviewed.

I wouldn’t have been pleased sitting there for an hour or more but if there’s only 1 staff member then it makes sense why she didn’t stagger it.

I usually take a half day off work, but I can imagine that not everybody does.
I wouldn't wait much in this situation because it shows a lack of self-respect. Also, people who treat non-employees badly will treat their employees much worse.

MsGreying · Yesterday 20:57

Mindthenicedeadpeople · 02/09/2026 12:20

Also as an aside when did it become normal to wear trackie bottoms and old trainers to an interview?

It's the way to keep the job centre happy. You go to interviews but don't try too hard.

Beingseenisneedy · Yesterday 21:53

holidayromancenotforme · 02/09/2026 12:28

Personally I can’t imagine slagging off the place I’m about to interview at online!

Agree, and being on the phone the whole time.

PurpleDiva22 · Yesterday 21:55

Mindthenicedeadpeople · 02/09/2026 14:35

Rightly or wrongly, I have sent the below…

Hi B***,

I was unfortunately unable to interview today due to the lack of professionalism shown by the company.

I arrived first out of the 10 plus candidates that were booked for interviews within a hours time frame.

However after a hour of waiting while candidates who arrived over half an hour later than myself were seen I resigned myself to a wasted journey and a silver lining that at least I learned about your disastrous management prior to accepting a job offer.

Kind Regards,

Dead People

Is it not "an hour"?

weirdoboelady · Yesterday 22:00

PurpleDiva22 · Yesterday 21:55

Is it not "an hour"?

It's actually "an hour's". Or better, "within the time-frame of an hour".

ByQuaintAzureWasp · Yesterday 22:02

For teaching jobs it used to be an all day affair ... tour, meet the team, observations then interviews. We did let them go after their interview and asked them to keep their phones on ... nearly had a mutiny once when they were still all waiting for a decision at 6 pm

Newname26 · Yesterday 22:11

ByQuaintAzureWasp · Yesterday 22:02

For teaching jobs it used to be an all day affair ... tour, meet the team, observations then interviews. We did let them go after their interview and asked them to keep their phones on ... nearly had a mutiny once when they were still all waiting for a decision at 6 pm

If people know that's the case then fine.

But for a standard interview the norm would be 2 or 3 for interview and maybe a one for a second interview.

Its certainly not normal to meet 13 people for interview, who in their normal day job has time to spend 2 full days interviewing people.

They obviously never even attempted to whittle it down based on the CVs. How else do you get people in and out in 15mins?

Volpini · Yesterday 22:11

Ive only ever done this once, but about 15 years ago I was waiting for an interview and they left me waiting for 40 minutes. There were two reception desks and I went to both repeatedly to check that I hadn’t got it wrong/ they hadn’t forgotten me or called me and I hadn’t heard. I tried to contact the recruiter too. But after 40 minutes I was so annoyed that I just decided I wanted to leave - and leave I did.
The recruiter was not happy with me and implied I didn’t turn up which was not the case at all. I decided in that 40 minutes that I didn’t want to work for or with these people.25 years customer service experience that I am bloody good at. Totally their loss 15 years ago and today, OP. Good luck with your job quest.

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