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School children should receive free bus travel before pensioners?

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Itchthescratch · 01/09/2026 17:02

My child is starting a school where it will cost around £2k for bus travel. This school is local and one of the closest schools to us. The other schools close to us are much worse in terms of opportunities and academic outcomes. I can afford the bus fare easily but I worry that some poorer families will really struggle to send their children to the higher achieving school because of the cost.

I understand that there isn't an endless pot of money but surely it would make sense to give school children free travel ahead of other groups like pensioners? School children are statistically much more likely to suffer from poverty (child poverty is almost double pensioner poverty)and it seems crazy that we aren't supporting social mobility whilst we let all pensioners travel for free on buses.

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Differentforgirls · 02/09/2026 06:22

Itchthescratch · 01/09/2026 19:43

They are all funded ultimately out of the same pot. To pretend otherwise is completely disingenuous. Without infinite public money then it comes down to competing priorities and this will need us to evaluate what matters most. When defence needs more money for example then other departments see cuts. This is how it works.

The government could subsidise school children's transport through exactly the same mechanism they currently fund it for old people. They could and I believe should prioritise the group that needs it most. It isn't realistic to suggest that we simply fund school children as well as pensioners. That's a completely unfunded proposal at a time when public finances are already in deficit.

So actually we need some honestly in debates like this. If one group gets something funding it means less funding for everyone else. In this context, who do we prioritise? I believe it should be school kids. You might favour funding the wealthiest group in society. We have a difference of opinion.

Those pensioners paid the transport for their own children to get to school.

Bgofyt · 02/09/2026 06:24

Itchthescratch · 02/09/2026 06:09

Except you are wrong. The state shares responsibility for children in all kinds of ways. It pays for their childcare when they're young, their health care and their education as they get older. Why is this? Because the state and society need children and healthy, educated ones at that.

The same is true with pensioners. Around 4 million adult children provide care and support to their aging parents. The state simply couldn't cope financially or practically if this wasn't the case.

Looking after our vulnerable, old and young, is a shared enterprise between private families and the state. It's in all our interests that this is the case. The question is to what extent does the state help which vulnerable group? This will change over time but it has to be informed by a groups ability to help themselves. Currently children are twice as likely to suffer poverty than pensioners. It makes sense to extend free bus travel to those that can't afford it themselves.

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We are paying more than enough as a state towards children now as it is. The state picking up the tab for longer journey times chosen by parents is not a good use of money. Schools are crumbling and can barely afford glue sticks. Extra money should go towards schools nearer to where a child lives. We need shorter school run and oaps using cars less and the current system benefits that.

Differentforgirls · 02/09/2026 06:28

Itchthescratch · 01/09/2026 19:56

I can afford to get them to school and never suggested otherwise.
How am I a bully? Are pensioners really the most defenceless in society? I would argue children are. They can't vote and can't earn their own money. They have very little influence over their financial position and are at the complete mercy of others.
Shame on you

You choose to have children. You don’t choose to get old.

Itchthescratch · 02/09/2026 06:28

Bgofyt · 02/09/2026 06:24

We are paying more than enough as a state towards children now as it is. The state picking up the tab for longer journey times chosen by parents is not a good use of money. Schools are crumbling and can barely afford glue sticks. Extra money should go towards schools nearer to where a child lives. We need shorter school run and oaps using cars less and the current system benefits that.

If we are paying 'more than enough' towards children then why are schools 'crumbling' and why can they barely afford glue sticks? Choose a narrative and stick to it.

Do you think all old people should be put on their nearest care home irrespective of need or preference? Is it just children, and specifically poor children, that you think should be at the complete mercy of the state allocating them a single school because it happens to be the closest?

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Itchthescratch · 02/09/2026 06:33

Differentforgirls · 02/09/2026 06:28

You choose to have children. You don’t choose to get old.

Children don't choose to be born and they don't choose the circumstance they are born into. They are the direct beneficiaries of all of this, not the parents. The education the children receive will ultimately benefit the child and the rest of society far more than it benefits their parents.

Someone somewhere along the line 'chose' to have the people that are pensioners now. Why don't we ever hold this against adults, only children? Most pensioners have had the opportunity to improve their financial position during their working lives. Children haven't. Ultimately a lot of this boils down to choices too and ones made by pensioners when they were younger but I imagine you won't want to hear about that.

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Greebocat · 02/09/2026 06:35

Itchthescratch · 02/09/2026 05:52

I would have sent my child to the nearest school if it was suitable. I believe all parents have an obligation to their children to do the best they can for them and to enable them to succeed and meet their potential. This includes sending them to the school that best meets their needs. The fact the state hasn't sorted out state education so that schools offer comparable levels of education isn't the fault of individual parents or children. Why should they suffer the consequences of a crap system? Why is this fair that it will be disproportionately the poor kids who can't afford to move to the nice catchments that get stuck in the bad schools?

The vast majority of pensioners can afford to pay for a bus fare. They are better placed to do this than any other group in society. The options aren't to allow free travel for everyone over 65 or force all old people to stay at home and never use public transport. They can pay like everyone else and the vast majority certainly have the funds to do so.

Getting the children from poorer families to the better school is only the starting point. These schools offer more opportunities, trips, music lessons etc that cost money who pays or subsidies them. They would be more stringent on uniform, such as insisting school shoes are worn, not trainers. Lots of the poorer families would struggle with this. Would you have the poorer children miss out on these opportunities or should the school pay? For struggling families the bus fare is only the tip of the iceberg berg. I definitely agree every child deserves a good education, but thinking paying for school travel would achieve this is too simplistic.

Itchthescratch · 02/09/2026 06:40

Differentforgirls · 02/09/2026 06:22

Those pensioners paid the transport for their own children to get to school.

How do you know? Your contributions on this thread as always are wild.

Many on this thread have commented that their school transport used to be funded by the state. Bus fares outside of the cap are now far more expensive in real terms than they used to be when my parents were young in the 1970s. My grandparents paid the equivalent of 50p in today's money for my mum to get the bus to school. My mum paid 50p (around £1 in today's money) for my bus fare. The same journey now without a cap would be £3.

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Itchthescratch · 02/09/2026 06:42

Greebocat · 02/09/2026 06:35

Getting the children from poorer families to the better school is only the starting point. These schools offer more opportunities, trips, music lessons etc that cost money who pays or subsidies them. They would be more stringent on uniform, such as insisting school shoes are worn, not trainers. Lots of the poorer families would struggle with this. Would you have the poorer children miss out on these opportunities or should the school pay? For struggling families the bus fare is only the tip of the iceberg berg. I definitely agree every child deserves a good education, but thinking paying for school travel would achieve this is too simplistic.

There are funds available for poorer children to access many of the things you list. Good schools ironically often don't have more stringent rules on uniform than weaker schools in my experience. The amount of inadequate schools hung up on uniform rules is astonishing.

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Bgofyt · 02/09/2026 06:43

Itchthescratch · 02/09/2026 06:28

If we are paying 'more than enough' towards children then why are schools 'crumbling' and why can they barely afford glue sticks? Choose a narrative and stick to it.

Do you think all old people should be put on their nearest care home irrespective of need or preference? Is it just children, and specifically poor children, that you think should be at the complete mercy of the state allocating them a single school because it happens to be the closest?

It isn’t a single school. It’s schools within a radius.

We are investing massively in children as it is. If we want to spend more on schools themselves that should be the priority not on increasing traffic on the roads for those that want schools outside of the 3 mile radius, 2 miles for PP. Any spare cash( which doesn’t exist) should be spent on the 10% of schools that aren’t good or outstanding.

OAAps need and should be encouraged to use bus passes. Means testing bus passes for children or OAPs costs way too much to implement.

Differentforgirls · 02/09/2026 06:44

Itchthescratch · 01/09/2026 20:24

Equally I know a lot of teachers that won't stay in the kind of school you describe. Anyone decent would move to other schools with less challenges. Hence you end up often with questionable staff at the school and all sorts of other issues. Parents aren't the only problem and it's too much to ask them to sacrifice on the alter of idealism.

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Fiftyandme · 02/09/2026 06:46

All benefits - every single one of them including state pension, winter fuel payment, free bus pass etc etc should be means tested.

Araminta1004 · 02/09/2026 06:48

What I find most depressing is that in many other European countries children cycle to school and it’s safe and healthy to do so. Whereas here the demands are always US style - buses/feed them carbs for breakfast etc. massive car culture via tax incentives and salary sacrifice. We should all be walking more and driving less and all local schools and hospitals should be of a certain standard.
As it’s far healthier. And cycle and safe walking routes to schools should be there too.

Bgofyt · 02/09/2026 06:48

Fiftyandme · 02/09/2026 06:46

All benefits - every single one of them including state pension, winter fuel payment, free bus pass etc etc should be means tested.

It costs way too much.

Differentforgirls · 02/09/2026 06:48

2dogsandabudgie · 01/09/2026 20:37

That isn't true. Routes are not measured 'as the crow flies' but by the shortest available walking route. Nobody is going to be sending children through a farmer's field to walk to school.

Shortest, safest walking route.

Itchthescratch · 02/09/2026 06:49

Bgofyt · 02/09/2026 06:43

It isn’t a single school. It’s schools within a radius.

We are investing massively in children as it is. If we want to spend more on schools themselves that should be the priority not on increasing traffic on the roads for those that want schools outside of the 3 mile radius, 2 miles for PP. Any spare cash( which doesn’t exist) should be spent on the 10% of schools that aren’t good or outstanding.

OAAps need and should be encouraged to use bus passes. Means testing bus passes for children or OAPs costs way too much to implement.

Should we tell old people that they can choose care homes within a 3 mile radius?

Children would use existing bus routes. No new buses would be on the road.

Not all OAPs need free bus passes. None of the OAPs I know need them. They either drive/walk places or can pay their own bus fares if they need to use the bus. My parents would be utterly outraged that you are depicting them and people of their generation in this way. They were working a few years ago and aren't destitute, incapable people that you are desperate to portray.

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Bgofyt · 02/09/2026 06:51

Fiftyandme · 02/09/2026 06:46

All benefits - every single one of them including state pension, winter fuel payment, free bus pass etc etc should be means tested.

Child Benefit should be based on household income not individual. Anybody on £80k household shouldn’t be getting it.

ElizaMulvil · 02/09/2026 06:53

Scattery · 01/09/2026 17:14

Why on earth is this an either/or question?

Tax a billionaire and fund travel for both groups.

You're quibbling over crumbs while certain people are stashing entire PIES in offshore accounts.

Exactly!

Itchthescratch · 02/09/2026 06:56

Araminta1004 · 02/09/2026 06:48

What I find most depressing is that in many other European countries children cycle to school and it’s safe and healthy to do so. Whereas here the demands are always US style - buses/feed them carbs for breakfast etc. massive car culture via tax incentives and salary sacrifice. We should all be walking more and driving less and all local schools and hospitals should be of a certain standard.
As it’s far healthier. And cycle and safe walking routes to schools should be there too.

Safe walking and cycling routes don't exist yet for lots of kids though. Many areas have 'dodgy' parts that lots of adults would avoid when it's dark or quiet. Cycle lanes are often few and far between.

There is also the opportunity cost of walking to school when you could be doing other extra curricular activities that are equally good for you. My son plays football for example at 5pm. He isn't at secondary school yet but he would really struggle to walk 3 miles from school and then get himself ready and to football on time. It would also really restrict how much time he had available to do homework etc as well.

Lots of adults that exercise regularly don't choose to walk miles to work everyday. It's estimated only 1% if adults do this. It's impractical for many and that's ok. It doesn't mean that they aren't doing anything else to stay fit and healthy. It's crazy to place this expectation on kids.

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Itchthescratch · 02/09/2026 06:57

Bgofyt · 02/09/2026 06:51

Child Benefit should be based on household income not individual. Anybody on £80k household shouldn’t be getting it.

The state pension should be means tested.

We can all play this game.

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Boomer55 · 02/09/2026 06:57

bottleofpop · 01/09/2026 18:30

I think you will find that most pensioners who can afford not to hardly use their free bus travel

Thats nonsense in London

I’m a London pensioner - and I’ve used my bus pass once in 3 years, so I’m not draining the nation of much for my travel. I don’t drive - I use cabs. 👍

Differentforgirls · 02/09/2026 06:58

Itchthescratch · 01/09/2026 21:04

Each department has to fight for funding. That's exactly how Spending Reviews work. Who do you think allocates each department's budget? The government has a finite pot of money and it is often literally the case for example that funding one department more for a specific initiative will mean other departments see a drop in budget. So the Department of Health recently got an increase of 3% for initiatives including modernising IT systems and this directly resulted in cuts for the Department of Transport and Foreign Office.

For the millionth time, all decisions have trade offs. Studies have shown huge benefits for children and young people that have free bus travel. The benefits are also beyond the obvious, include elements like mental health improvements and access to opportunities that can have an impact that lasts many decades. We have a crisis with NEETs and going people on general and this is causing all kinds of problems.

The idea that pensioners are the only or even the most vulnerable group in our society is very questionable. My parents are both pensioners and neither are vulnerable in anyway. Nor are any of their friends. They are absolutely more able to get to places than my 11 year old daughter. They have a car for starters. Why on earth are we offering them free travel and denying kids that desperately need it?

Your child is your responsibility.

Witchergeralt · 02/09/2026 06:59

The same is true with pensioners. Around 4 million adult children provide care and support to their aging parents. The state simply couldn't cope financially or practically if this wasn't the case.

And about 8/9 million grandparents provide free childcare for their grandchildren .... Just imagine if that support was withdrawn 😯

Bgofyt · 02/09/2026 06:59

Itchthescratch · 02/09/2026 06:49

Should we tell old people that they can choose care homes within a 3 mile radius?

Children would use existing bus routes. No new buses would be on the road.

Not all OAPs need free bus passes. None of the OAPs I know need them. They either drive/walk places or can pay their own bus fares if they need to use the bus. My parents would be utterly outraged that you are depicting them and people of their generation in this way. They were working a few years ago and aren't destitute, incapable people that you are desperate to portray.

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OAPs people pay for their care homes as any equity or savings are removed to pay for them. My parents would be outraged at parents being offered the choice of schools in a radius and being offered free transport but still expecting free transport outside of that very reasonable radius turned down by choice.

Average pension income is low and bus passes are very much needed.

You would need extra buses if suddenly all children could easily go to any old school and expect free transport . OAPs having bus passes removed would revert back to more car use.

Greebocat · 02/09/2026 07:01

Itchthescratch · 02/09/2026 06:42

There are funds available for poorer children to access many of the things you list. Good schools ironically often don't have more stringent rules on uniform than weaker schools in my experience. The amount of inadequate schools hung up on uniform rules is astonishing.

You seem to think there is a bottomless pit of money. To access these funds you need to fit a certain criteria, normally parents claiming some form of benefit. What about the working poor, earn to much to claim but still struggling, again bus fares will only be the tip of the ice berg. Also good schools are strict on uniform, it is one of the reasons they are good schools. It sets a standard of what is acceptable, it shows rules are important and must be adhered to. That’s why poorer schools get so hung up on uniform rules, it’s the start of improving standards.
You prioritise your child’s education, rightly so, many many parents don’t, what about these children, don’t they deserve a good education, Free school travel will not solve parental involvement.

Itchthescratch · 02/09/2026 07:02

Bgofyt · 02/09/2026 06:59

OAPs people pay for their care homes as any equity or savings are removed to pay for them. My parents would be outraged at parents being offered the choice of schools in a radius and being offered free transport but still expecting free transport outside of that very reasonable radius turned down by choice.

Average pension income is low and bus passes are very much needed.

You would need extra buses if suddenly all children could easily go to any old school and expect free transport . OAPs having bus passes removed would revert back to more car use.

Many OAPs aren't paying anything towards their care. Why should they get a choice? Why not put them in a home within a 3 mile radius?

You are just repeating the same points even though statistics prove that pensioners as a group aren't poor. Children could use existing bus routes and lots of posters on this thread insist only poor pensioners use their bus pass anyway. If this is the case and the pensioners are genuinely that poor then they couldn't afford to run a car anyway. You can't have it all ways.

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