AIBU to not want ds1 to go to his grandparents'house without me?

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Morning Ostg, how did it go yesterday?

Edam has hit the nail on the head about contacting nspcc.

Don`t leave your child there .. there is doubt about his wellbeing so you cannot take the chance....
As for your FIL not actually being convicted of any crime - these crimes are extremely difficult to prove and convictions are hard to obtain even when the law enforcement people may actually believe there is a case to answer. The nature of this crime mean there are no witnesses only the words of a vulnerable child.
As for case closing as an officer died - sorry that is absolute nonsense - from a family of cops and my own legal background I can state there is no way one person would work on this kind of investigation alone - quite the opposite - numerous parties must involved ........ that part is totally untrue - so what else may you be told that is not true......
Regardless - there is a doubt and as a mother you must act on that and protect your child..............
good luck and take care .. situation with your DH must be difficult .... but YOU are right ....

I would also agree with not letting them be alone with him.
Remember, just because they are family it doesn't give them any right to bully or emotionally blackmail you. You also are under no obligation to see them or let your children see them.
They don't sound like nice people anyway.

Anyway, come back and let us know how you are.