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How can reckless teenage driving be prevented?

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UncleColm · 24/08/2026 10:31

We had that terrible crash recently in the UK which resulted in 7 deaths - RIP to the two Police Officers who were on duty.

In Ireland we had a very similar crash the previous week where five boys died - aged 15 to 17. All were wearing balaclavas at the time of the crash and were 'well known' to Guards. The family they crashed into were three sisters and a seven year old son of one of the sisters (on the way to the airport go to a family wedding) - they are all still in hospital and are very seriously injured.

The previous week, in Ireland, a car carrying eight teenage boys aged from as young as 13 crashed into a car being driven in the correct direction by one young man who is now seriously injured.

The boys seem to be from a mix of poor areas and Travellers. In death they are being celebrated by their families but where were these families when they were alive? Who lets their teenage boy out all night? And let's them produce tiktoks of their 'exploits'? Parental supervision is clearly not in place.

How can this reckless driving behaviour be stopped?

In Ireland there is a huge shortage of jail spaces and places to detain a child under 18. These kids couldn't care less if the Guards catch them - sure what's another Juvenile Caution to them? One of the boys who died was supposed to stay in his own County but had ignored it. They have no fear of the Guards or the law.

I work in a school and there is a huge amount of help available to Traveller children in particular but they still tend to not engage with any after school activities, don't do homework, don't go on school trips, leave school early, high absence rate, etc.

I read recently that, in Ireland, 50% of Travellers don't live beyond 39. In 2026 this a shocking statistic. I don't know what the statistics are for the poor, disadvantaged areas but I do know that the taxpayers provide Social Housing, child benefit, medical cards, free education, free school books and hot lunches, back to school allowances and a whole other host of allowances. There are many initiatives available to help people to stay in education and gain independence.

What more can be done? Is there any way of reaching these young males?

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BoredZelda · 24/08/2026 16:32

itsgettingweird · 24/08/2026 15:32

According to one article there’s a post on SM “those you knew use knew use …..” then something about how wonderful they were with hearts of gold (paraphrased)

But then again weren’t the Kay twins described as having hearts of gold and being mummies boys?!

The Krays have has some of the best PR around. The romanticisation is of epic proportions.

LakieLady · 24/08/2026 16:37

CuteOrangeElephant · 24/08/2026 11:25

Lock them up, crush their cars, I don't really care but I am so sick of the first response to a minority of people doing something wrong is to start restricting the rights of everyone else.

Assuming the driver of the car was one of the two 23 year olds, not being allowed to drive peers around means not being allowed to drive with a partner/girlfriend and children? I've seen people suggest nighttime restrictions so that means you can't be 23 years old and have a job with nighttime shifts or early/late starts? Surely that's not right.

I was going to make the same point regarding young people doing jobs that involve working unsocial hours.

It would also make it very difficult for those in rural areas, where public transport varies from pisspoor to non-existent, to get to work or college at all, and prevent them from getting any job where driving is required.

BoredZelda · 24/08/2026 16:40

WestwardHo1 · 24/08/2026 15:32

It's got me thinking about politics really. I think this is where socialist policies end up.

People who are completely unwilling to take the consequences of their own choices and their own actions. Everything is always someone else's responsibility/fault. Generations of it.

I don’t think it has anything to do with policy, it’s about culture. Sweden is as socialist as it gets, but at the heart of their culture is doing the best you can for the benefit of society at large. They didn’t have government restrictions during lock down, but their movement of people tracked at that time was very similar to that of the U.K. It wouldn’t have worked here, but has nothing to do with socialism.

6ate9 · 24/08/2026 16:43

BoredZelda · 24/08/2026 16:32

The Krays have has some of the best PR around. The romanticisation is of epic proportions.

They were seen as ‘loveable rouges!’

EasternStandard · 24/08/2026 16:44

BoredZelda · 24/08/2026 16:40

I don’t think it has anything to do with policy, it’s about culture. Sweden is as socialist as it gets, but at the heart of their culture is doing the best you can for the benefit of society at large. They didn’t have government restrictions during lock down, but their movement of people tracked at that time was very similar to that of the U.K. It wouldn’t have worked here, but has nothing to do with socialism.

It’s not a socialist as it gets. There’s countries with far greater control than that. Plus it’s still capitalist unlike North Korea.

WestwardHo1 · 24/08/2026 16:51

BoredZelda · 24/08/2026 16:40

I don’t think it has anything to do with policy, it’s about culture. Sweden is as socialist as it gets, but at the heart of their culture is doing the best you can for the benefit of society at large. They didn’t have government restrictions during lock down, but their movement of people tracked at that time was very similar to that of the U.K. It wouldn’t have worked here, but has nothing to do with socialism.

Ok but in Sweden the model looks very very different. Though it's not the socialist utopia it was cracked up to be these days.

It seems as though generations of "safety net" in this country has morphed into something else entirely. Perhaps it reveals something not very nice in the British national character.

BoredZelda · 24/08/2026 16:52

WonderfulSmith · 24/08/2026 15:04

Ditto Devon, Cornwall, Dorset and Norfolk

Indeed, if anything, I think drivers should be forced to take lessons on our rural roads. People day tripping from towns have little clue!

Ironically, we also found it really difficult in central Scotland to get our girl dual carriageway experience when learning. The closest non-motorway stretch is about an hour away. Every big road around us is motorway.

Somersetbaker · 24/08/2026 16:53

EasternStandard · 24/08/2026 16:44

It’s not a socialist as it gets. There’s countries with far greater control than that. Plus it’s still capitalist unlike North Korea.

I think you're confused, in a socialist state "all animals are equal", the states like Russia and North Korea that claim to be socialist, despite being dictatorships, add the extra bit "but some animals are more equal than others".

BoredZelda · 24/08/2026 16:54

WestwardHo1 · 24/08/2026 16:51

Ok but in Sweden the model looks very very different. Though it's not the socialist utopia it was cracked up to be these days.

It seems as though generations of "safety net" in this country has morphed into something else entirely. Perhaps it reveals something not very nice in the British national character.

It is still way more of a socialist utopia that we are (or could be without a massive change). The point being, their socialism hasn’t led to a society like ours.

6ate9 · 24/08/2026 16:59

EasternStandard · 24/08/2026 16:44

It’s not a socialist as it gets. There’s countries with far greater control than that. Plus it’s still capitalist unlike North Korea.

Sweden is a social democracy.

dustabsorber · 24/08/2026 17:02

4 out of the 5 lads had previous.

LakieLady · 24/08/2026 17:03

WonderfulSmith · 24/08/2026 15:04

Ditto Devon, Cornwall, Dorset and Norfolk

Also East Sussex. West Sussex only has a few miles of motorway (M23), and it's on the eastern edge of the county.

BoredZelda · 24/08/2026 17:15

EasternStandard · 24/08/2026 16:44

It’s not a socialist as it gets. There’s countries with far greater control than that. Plus it’s still capitalist unlike North Korea.

Ooft! I’m too busy for you today, you took up way too much much of my time yesterday. 😂

I enjoyed it though, thanks for engaging. 😍

EasternStandard · 24/08/2026 17:18

BoredZelda · 24/08/2026 17:15

Ooft! I’m too busy for you today, you took up way too much much of my time yesterday. 😂

I enjoyed it though, thanks for engaging. 😍

Haha you’ve posted on this thread a fair bit, I’m not keeping you busy.

Sweden still isn’t as you describe.

EasternStandard · 24/08/2026 17:19

Somersetbaker · 24/08/2026 16:53

I think you're confused, in a socialist state "all animals are equal", the states like Russia and North Korea that claim to be socialist, despite being dictatorships, add the extra bit "but some animals are more equal than others".

I think you meant the pp? Sweden is still capitalist.

Phonkk · 24/08/2026 17:29

Vulturesoverhead · 24/08/2026 13:29

So a responsible teenage mum. You’re unusual.

Not that unusual. I know quite a few other ladies who became mothers in their teens who are responsible normal people. Even people who don’t become young parents will be getting jobs going to college or uni. At what point do you cut the apron strings.
Are we really going to keep pushing draconian laws to punish the majority just while we skirt around the issue that these boys were probably little shits before this happened and should of been sent to a borstal

Somersetbaker · 24/08/2026 17:30

EasternStandard · 24/08/2026 17:19

I think you meant the pp? Sweden is still capitalist.

Sweden's political system is social democracy, not the I'll trouser as much as I can, sod the rest you, system as espoused by the Tories, Reform and both parties in the USA.

HollyhocksandPeons · 24/08/2026 17:31

Why do you mention Travellers?

EasternStandard · 24/08/2026 17:33

Somersetbaker · 24/08/2026 17:30

Sweden's political system is social democracy, not the I'll trouser as much as I can, sod the rest you, system as espoused by the Tories, Reform and both parties in the USA.

Often called "socialist" by the public, countries like Denmark, Sweden, Norway, and Finland are actually market-based capitalist economies

If you look it up you’ll see North Korea and Cuba fit the line as socialist as you can get.

itsgettingweird · 24/08/2026 17:40

HollyhocksandPeons · 24/08/2026 17:31

Why do you mention Travellers?

Some of the boys in the Irish crashes were from the travelling community - if
not all - and reported to be part of the lucky dip gang.

Im not sure about this crash.

BrezhnevsLuxuriantEyebrows · 24/08/2026 18:10

Somersetbaker · 24/08/2026 15:42

In a similar way to the restrictions on HGV's, compulsory 66 MPH speed limiters on all cars, vans and motor bikes not owned by the emergency services. Yes it will piss a lot of people off, mainly the ones who can't keep to the limit.

So the criminals who steal cars and race the wrong way down motorways and dual carriageways would 'only' be able to crash into innocent motorists at a combined 132mph?

BrezhnevsLuxuriantEyebrows · 24/08/2026 18:32

This might sound hard-line, and would take some organisation; but one way that innocent people could be protected from criminal death-riders - once the authorities are aware that they're racing the wrong way down a road - would be to send three (or more if more lanes) snow ploughs, fire engines or similar the correct way, all totally legally, from the next junction along. Warnings of long delays could be given on the overhead gantries, owing to a vehicle travelling in the wrong direction.

Essentially, if death-riders have made the choice that people in a vehicle(s) must die as a result of their 'fun', at least it will only be themselves who die and are taken out of doing anything like this again. To emphasise, the massive heavy vehicles will be acting perfectly safely and in accordance with the law; the only single reason why the criminals will die is as a result of their express decision to go death-riding... but at least they won't take any innocent lives away with them.

itsgettingweird · 24/08/2026 18:41

My understanding is they crashed within about 30 seconds of entering the motorway.

There was no way to clear it or call for snow ploughs.

Benvenuto · 24/08/2026 18:49

I’m not convinced by the socialism angle - one of the points made on the R5 phone-in was that this type of driving has become more likely due to reductions in police as drivers know that they won’t be caught. Cutting police numbers was a coalition policy.

ItsPickleRick · 24/08/2026 18:58

itsgettingweird · 24/08/2026 18:41

My understanding is they crashed within about 30 seconds of entering the motorway.

There was no way to clear it or call for snow ploughs.

Ten seconds after they entered the carriageway and the pursuit was called off according to the statement from the IOPC.

No time at all, especially not to mobilise other vehicles.

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