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AIBU to ask why customers are still doing this disgusting habit?

78 replies

Blopi · 23/08/2026 06:53

Why do people think it’s acceptable to hold money, lottery tickets etc in their mouths before handing them to the shop workers?

It’s a disgusting habit. Yesterday in a shop, I saw a woman holding a lottery playing slip and £10 in her mouth. The shop worker I saw rightfully refused to take the money. The customer became very angry and wanted a manager.

Manager rightly backed the shop worker. Saying it’s a habit that should have gone away.

How would customers react if staff held their change, tickets etc by their mouths before handing to the customers. Similar to the reaction that the customer did on when the shop worker refused their money.

Stop doing this habit along with boob money

OP posts:
tommyhoundmum · 23/08/2026 19:23

Fledgedup · 23/08/2026 08:13

Gosh, I'm low rent. 🤣

Bit like my foster daughter.

OttersOnAPlane · 23/08/2026 19:28

YABU because notes and coins are absolutely filthy. This is the very least of it, and I wouldn't bat and eyelid.

Anyone who handles cash should be washing their hands before touching food or their faces - or pretty much anything.

Eeyorefan · 23/08/2026 19:34

Spooll · 23/08/2026 08:13

Why is a bra so bad? I've been l known to put a card in my bra on a night out, to avoid taking a bag. Surely my hands, which presumably are allowed to come into contact with the card, are much more germy than my breasts?

Because of the potential for sweating on it is higher than if held in the hand / in a bag/ pocket

FFSItsTooHot · 23/08/2026 19:35

The fact that people actually put money in their mouth in the first place astounds me! Yuk. It is one of the most germ infested things going.

FFSItsTooHot · 23/08/2026 19:36

Pippa12 · 23/08/2026 06:55

There is a sign up in the Poundland near me stating money will not be accepted if it’s held in your mouth. No joke. Made me feel sick at the thought, money is absolutely filthy.

I go in Poundland regularly,but I've not seen any notices like this! I'm assuming that this doesn't include the self-service tills?

ScaramoucheCanYouDoTheFandango · 23/08/2026 20:26

KindlySurfiingPlatypus · 23/08/2026 09:53

It's silly for shops to have rules like this because it only covers the unhygienic activities that you have directly witnessed. Any bank note that you didn't see being held in someone's mouth might have been dropped in the gutter and picked up again 5 minutes ago, or have been handled by someone who didn't wash their hands after using the loo, or might have been being held just as the holder sneezed into that hand. All money should be assumed to be grubby and workers should never go between food prep tasks and handling money and back to food prep without washing hands in between. Most germs cannot pass through skin though, so everyone who handles money should just wash their hands regularly and they will be totally unaffected by the fact that some germs were on their skin for a bit. Holding money in the mouth or in the bra may seem unpleasant to you but don't make the mistake of thinking that money that you haven't witnessed being kept in such places is any cleaner.

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Out of sight, out of mind. There is a big difference handling something you have just seen freshly licked to knowing something is possibly dirty. I wouldn’t accept it from a stranger.

@LlynTegid They are not always supportive. My niece worked at one of the big supermarkets and would politely refuse money that had been licked/held in a customers mouth as she was immunocompromised. Customer would usually kick off, her manager would be called and would publicly support her. Behind scenes she’d be told/threatened not to put manager that position again. Never stopped her from refusing it.

Mykneesareshot · 23/08/2026 21:04

I worked in a convenience store for a short while and will never forget being handed a tenner rolled up and when I opened it up to put in the till lots of cocaine fell out! I'm guessing that had been up the customers nose too.

DelilahBucket · 23/08/2026 21:14

I own a shop and one of the first things I tell staff is that there is nothing as dirty as money, and always wash your hands thoroughly before eating. We have a bottle of sanitiser on hand, baby wipes and antibacterial cleaner. You would be amazed at the disgusting things we have to deal with. Someone's dog once snatched a rabbits foot out of the their owners bag and proceeded to chomp it into little bits all over the carpet 😭. Don't even get me started on huffy parents with sticky children when being told they can't eat that sausage roll/melting ice-cream/other messy food/drink item in the shop. Apparently eating my shop and stock to remain clean makes me unreasonable.

ItsmeMargo · 23/08/2026 21:34

When I was 16, I used to work part-time in a supermarket. This is 40+ years ago, when cash was King. After my three hour shift I would go and wash my hands… The colour of the water was disgusting. It was absolutely filthy. And this is just from accepting money, putting it in the till, and giving change. So I reckon the grim comes from the actual money, not from the person‘s mouth! Although in certain cases it probably doesn’t help …

Laura95167 · 23/08/2026 22:57

Genuinely didnt know this was a thing. Genuine Qn - Why is it in their mouth?

Ladygodalmighty · 24/08/2026 00:15

MingingRunnersFeet · 23/08/2026 07:04

I work in a food shop and it’s shocking the places people will pull cash from. It’s disgusting. Had a regular who used to keep her bank cards and cash in her bra. 🤮 Not seen her in a while.

I'm fairly sure that there are far fewer germs on a breast than on most people's hands 🤔

MrsPhilippaPippaVoss · 24/08/2026 00:36

LoafofSellotape · 23/08/2026 07:29

Have you posted this before? I'm sure I've read this before almost word for word.

why do people ask this is it some place marker for the thread ?

MrsPhilippaPippaVoss · 24/08/2026 00:36

our areas its usually in the bra

Icanna · 24/08/2026 01:12

I’ll worry about shop assistants being handed money from someone’s mouth when they stop licking their fingers to separate bank notes or, worse, bags in which they’re going to wrap my food.

dogsarebetterthanppl · 24/08/2026 01:31

i remember a man licking his finger to separate the cash and the checkout assistant giving him a taste of his own medicine by licking his receiptGrinhe had the cheek to complain to the manager… i nearly wet myself laughing because i know her very well and could see it coming.

76evie · 24/08/2026 01:35

CRbear · 23/08/2026 06:58

It’s a bit silly to get worked up about it as a shop worker- money is disgustingly dirty, spit you’ve seen applied isn’t making it worse than the germs it has picked up from pockets/hands/wallets - wear gloves if you’re unhappy about germs and need to handle it. Wash your hands at the end of your shift. I think the shop was unreasonable here.

Are you for real? Of course the worker or shop were not in the wrong. Just because money is dirty in general doesn’t mean someone should be ok with taking it from someone’s mouth with fresh spit on. I think it’s insulting to the worker to expect them too! I’m glad their manager backed them up.

Deboragh · 24/08/2026 10:54

The same people don't see the problem with blowing their noses on napkins/serviettes in a restaurant/cafe. It's a napkin not a snotrag/tissue. Then leaving it on the plate full of snot expecting the waitress to pick it up.!

eastegg · 24/08/2026 15:11

I can see the shop workers’ point of view, but even worse imo is that we haven’t learned from Covid the value of hand sanitiser. Why did it all suddenly disappear? Cost I suppose. The workers could use sanitiser and crack on. Notes are filthy anyway.

lilkitten · 25/08/2026 15:00

Thingsthatgo · 23/08/2026 07:05

I work in a jewellers, and we have a selection of steel rings to measure a customer’s ring size. At least once a month someone will stick their finger in their mouth to get a tight ring off. (Despite me saying that we have hand cream if the need it). I always ask them to place the ring in a separate tray so I can clean it, and they always seem surprised that I won’t take it from them! Hmm

Us too, I can't believe how common it is to try and suck rings off their fingers! Given the state some of them are behind the setting, I really wouldn't want to be doing that.

Holeymoley28 · 25/08/2026 15:06

A local beach area some of the shops have signs saying they won’t accept cash from bras, socks or swimming bottoms.

igelkott2026 · 25/08/2026 15:16

Eeyorefan · 23/08/2026 19:34

Because of the potential for sweating on it is higher than if held in the hand / in a bag/ pocket

Is sweat particularly full of germs? It isn't very nice but is it really likely to make you ill?

It's a bit like the women who won't use a loo if there's still a turd in it. It isn't nice but your turds look the same, and it isn't going to jump out and bite your bottom!

igelkott2026 · 25/08/2026 15:17

eastegg · 24/08/2026 15:11

I can see the shop workers’ point of view, but even worse imo is that we haven’t learned from Covid the value of hand sanitiser. Why did it all suddenly disappear? Cost I suppose. The workers could use sanitiser and crack on. Notes are filthy anyway.

I didn't realise that hand sanitiser did have value during Covid, given that it was an airborne virus. I thought that was all covid theatre.

igelkott2026 · 25/08/2026 15:19

I also laugh about all these worries about hygiene when the same people probably let their dogs sleep in their beds and lick their faces!

And cafe staff pet dogs and then don't wash their hands before handling food.

I guess everyone has a hygiene hangup and that's mine. I'm not in the habit of putting things in my bra, but I think it's a lot less disgusting.

eastegg · 25/08/2026 15:47

igelkott2026 · 25/08/2026 15:17

I didn't realise that hand sanitiser did have value during Covid, given that it was an airborne virus. I thought that was all covid theatre.

Not sure, but I believe it has a value generally in killing germs on hands which may otherwise be spread around, whether or not that includes Covid 19.

eastegg · 25/08/2026 15:57

And I’m not particularly germphobic by any stretch. I really wouldn’t mind handling a note that had been in someone’s bra for example. Couldn’t care less. If people think there wasn’t already sweat on the note beforehand then they’re deluded. But I’d mind even less if I had the opportunity to wash hands or more realistically sanitise regularly. I wouldn’t even really mind the note having touched someone’s lips. If they’re not ill, it won’t do any harm. If they are ill, their germs are pretty likely to be on the note anyway. Sanitiser would be the answer.