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Name classism doesn’t exist in 2026

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Kyttiol · 22/08/2026 10:44

Name classism gets mentioned a lot on here but I don’t think there’s such thing in the big 2026 with the internet anyone can google and name their kid whatever they want. My eldest I had at 16 while living in a homeless shelter has a so called posh name and my youngest I had as a grown woman in her twenties married to a man with a middle class job has a name that’s been called chavvy on here.
Hugo is also apparently the epitome of posh but I know a literal crackhead named her son Hugo (he was taken away at birth though)

People always quote freakonomics which was written in 2005 before mass internet use and certainly before the internet was used to discuss baby names! Surely that’s outdated

OP posts:
mathanxiety · 23/08/2026 23:32

Kyttiol · 22/08/2026 10:52

But like the whole idea that certain baby names are “posh” or “chavvy” is outdated?

Nope, judging people (or more accurately, their patents) by their names is still going strong.

mathanxiety · 23/08/2026 23:36

AllaMova · 23/08/2026 14:44

You beat me to this comment!

My parents was torn between two names for me, so DM asked her Aunt to be the decider. Her Aunt vetoed one name (Amy) because she felt it was too “common”.

Little did she know that my given name was ranked within the top 10 that year.

Name classism absolutely still exists, whether we intend to judge, or not.

Edited

Common doesn't necessarily mean popular.

It means lower class, as in 'the common people'.

dandeliondandy · 24/08/2026 00:00

Kyttiol · 22/08/2026 11:55

I mean googles more likely to stop you naming your child nevaeh Rae.

I actually really like Chantelle as a name but google would reveal everyone else thinks it fucking sucks 😂

If it is Chantal then that is the acceptable French name without chav connotations but Chantelle....all I hear in my head is chanterelle like the mushrooms or as I once heard screamed at a train station in a pronounced South London accent 'Chantelle, if you don't stop effin' crying, I'm gonna effin' leave you 'ere'

GaIadriel · 24/08/2026 00:16

I'm not sure I agree. I can't hear the name Neveah without uber cringing.

TaraRhu · 24/08/2026 00:18

lol There is a live post about how awful it is when people spell names is silly ways! It is totally still a thing. I have two primary school age kids and there are a few that attract an eye roll from some of the parents of the Mylo, Margot and Theos.

ThePygmalionEffect · 24/08/2026 06:40

emuloc · 22/08/2026 13:22

Really. I suppose that it could never occur to you that the children may be reacting to the negativity, of positivity that you are displaying to them, in how you treat them. Children are not stupid, and know when they are being treated nicely, or not.

I totally agree! I wonder if many teachers are familiar with the Rosenthal Effect.

Ipollita · 24/08/2026 07:08

Names filter down not up so you’ll have WC kids called Hugo, Charlotte etc but never a MC Kayden or Nevaeh.

The UC can give their kids more out-there names as they’re socially secure enough to not give a fig, but it’ll never be Jaxon or Demi-Lee.

GreenWheat · 24/08/2026 07:31

Kyttiol · 23/08/2026 15:16

My youngests early years are completely different from my eldests. House with a garden, bedroom, married parents etc. You can’t assume anything just because of a name. I’m the same person yes but I do not act like a stereotype of a teen mum

You can't assume anything just because of a name

I disagree. You very much can, and 95% of the time that assumption will be correct. Sure there's the odd case where it won't stack up (that you seem to be fixated on) but that doesn't make the general situation untrue.

Imupforthat · 24/08/2026 08:26

Common is as common does surely? I was born in what my sister and I affectionately call The Gap In The Devils Derrière. However we both have naice classic names that have featured on this thread.

I didn’t name my child who has never had as much as a demerit at school but according to this thread can look forward to a lifetime of having their CV binned in horror and people hiding their teaspoons if they ever come calling (despite the fact they’re from a nice, well heeled family well into the top 0.5%)

As far as I’m concerned common is nothing to do with your name and everything to do with how you behave and your attitude towards others. If people are daft enough to judge by a name says far more about them and their values.

WhatNoRaisins · 24/08/2026 08:38

In my experience people who used the word common in the 80s or 90s would use the word chavvy in from the 00s onwards in the same sentence.

BillieWiper · 24/08/2026 11:27

ProudBlackMomma · 22/08/2026 12:45

Jayden, Brayden, Brodie, LaShanda, Chardonnay, Klay, Nevaeh v Hugo, Annabelle, Amelie, Violet, John

If you were a teacher or an employer, which cohort would be more appealing?

I love Brodie. I don't consider that a 'chav' name. It's after the Prime of Miss Jean Brodie? For a girl? So I'd pick Brodie over John.
But I'd never be an employer so it matters not a lot!

GaIadriel · 26/08/2026 22:16

ProudBlackMomma · 22/08/2026 12:45

Jayden, Brayden, Brodie, LaShanda, Chardonnay, Klay, Nevaeh v Hugo, Annabelle, Amelie, Violet, John

If you were a teacher or an employer, which cohort would be more appealing?

I'm not convinced 'John' is a great name for a girl.

GaIadriel · 26/08/2026 22:19

"Hi, I'm Nevaeh....it's heaven spelt backwards".

"Um, yeah I'm called Esra".

ProudBlackMomma · Yesterday 14:12

GaIadriel · 26/08/2026 22:16

I'm not convinced 'John' is a great name for a girl.

Who said anything about John being a great name for a girl?

Sartre · Yesterday 14:20

DH grew up middle class and went to private school but SIL is very much what would you describe as “chav”. She gave her child a name that should by rights be two names separated by a hyphen or space at least yet it’s just one name. It looks ridiculous on paper. She has shacked up with a guy who has children with someone else and their names are Paw Patrol characters.

Oliwiaa · Yesterday 16:24

Really hoping it's Skye and Chase rather than Rubble and Chickaletta...

Quine0nline · Yesterday 16:53

"let's call her Ashtray"
"Nah Wayne, that's a boys name "

Harry Enfield

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LydiaJayne · 22/08/2026 18:41

She's only a bad teacher if it negatively affects how she deals with them in the classroom. Teachers are only human

I find many teachers are uniquely judgemental and unpleasant about names.

I work in a young adult mental health service so we see kids from about 17 to 24. We are based in London. We have the whole gamut of names. Obviously international ones, but also the ones here deemed posh or working class or ‘chavvy’. I have not heard one negative comment about a young person based on their name. Not from a nurse, doctor, support worker, peer coach, housing worker, psychologist or admin etc.

These young people can have v challenging behaviour. But we simply do not judge patients like this or speak about them this way. Esp about their names; that kind of comment would be wholly unwelcome in our team. Teachers judging kids on their names is unacceptable.

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Marroon · 23/08/2026 06:51

There have been numerous studies that show the bias of teachers actually impacts the way they teach certain children on their class and as a result impacts their attainment.

There should really, really be a higher bar when employing people we allow to shape children.

Yep. It’s appalling.

Dragonflyspeeding · Yesterday 17:36

I think posh/chavvy (using same words as OP) are different things to different people. I wouldn’t think Hugo was posh. It sounds like the parents who named the child are trying to sound posh.

However names like Aiden/Jayden/Kayden/Jake/Jason are more stereotypically chavvy.

I think you are wrong though OP. Names are still ‘classed’.

Kyttiol · Yesterday 19:28

Dragonflyspeeding · Yesterday 17:36

I think posh/chavvy (using same words as OP) are different things to different people. I wouldn’t think Hugo was posh. It sounds like the parents who named the child are trying to sound posh.

However names like Aiden/Jayden/Kayden/Jake/Jason are more stereotypically chavvy.

I think you are wrong though OP. Names are still ‘classed’.

I don’t think she was trying to be posh I just think she liked the name.
I think Hugo is considered the epitomy of a posh name on mumsnet whilst still being a regular name. Surprisingly enough so is Henry which I thought was just a normal name but there’s a whole “hooray Henry” thing

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/baby_names/5164137-hugo-or-oscar-really-struggling

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CamillaMcCauley · Yesterday 19:30

MandingoAteMyBaby · 22/08/2026 11:01

And so is anyone with a “Mason”

lol the only two Masons I know are extremely well behaved Chinese kids.

SemperIdem · Yesterday 19:33

You are absolutely deluded if you think that names do not very much remain class markers in the UK.

missmollygreen · Yesterday 19:39

Kyttiol · 22/08/2026 10:52

But like the whole idea that certain baby names are “posh” or “chavvy” is outdated?

Nope. Of course there are exceptions to the rule..

A teacher friend of mine had two siblings in their class called Merlot and Chardonnay. Guess what.. have a guess if they were posh...

HRTQueen · Yesterday 19:41

Kyttiol · 22/08/2026 10:52

But like the whole idea that certain baby names are “posh” or “chavvy” is outdated?

It really isn’t outdated

only a few days ago there was a thread about names and a number of posters mentioned adding ie and double barrelled names are chavvy