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Is ‘next Sunday’ the one coming up or the one after?

76 replies

user9812 · 19/08/2026 22:12

Just that really. If today is Wednesday and someone refers to ‘next Sunday’ do they mean the one in 4 days time or 11 days time? I assumed 4 days time.

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Datgal · 19/08/2026 22:14

11 days. The one in 4 days is this Sunday.
If someone says to you "do you want to do something this Sunday?"... which Sunday do you think their referring to?

Heathertrott2 · 19/08/2026 22:14

There was a thread on this a month or so ago.
It's the one in 11 days.
The one in 4 days is "this Sunday" , or simply, "Sunday"

lindalidl · 19/08/2026 22:14

11 days time. This Sunday would be 4 days

WookieMama · 19/08/2026 22:15

Last Sunday is the one just past.
This Sunday is the one due in 4 days.
Next Sunday is the next one after This Sunday

super simple 😬

connie26 · 19/08/2026 22:15

The one after.

Giftspread · 19/08/2026 22:16

Not this Sunday, next Sunday is commonly said

MandemChickenShop · 19/08/2026 22:16

generally 11 days unless they say 'the' next Sunday coming or similar.

its probably better to say, a week on Sunday, to avoid confusion

Ansells · 19/08/2026 22:18

Someone had an almost identical thread just a few weeks ago.

Last Sunday is the one 3 days ago.

This Sunday is the one in 4 days, as it’s this coming Sunday.

Next Sunday is the one in 11 days as it’s the next after this Sunday.

PurpleYarnivore · 19/08/2026 22:18

11 days time , 4 days time is this Sunday . I have this issue with my MIL all the time . She will say what are you doing next Sunday … on a Friday … meaning in 2 days time which I just don’t understand - when is this Sunday then ? . Now I always put the actual date in a message or ask her do you mean Sunday 23rd or Sunday 30th .

user9812 · 19/08/2026 22:18

Thank you. My mind just jumped to this Sunday being the next one coming up! I stand corrected.

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JMSA · 19/08/2026 22:18

The one after.

Ljzjta · 19/08/2026 22:20

I would say referring to “Sunday” is the one coming and “next Sunday” being the one after

Utini · 19/08/2026 22:20

I've heard it used both ways. Using "next Sunday" to mean a week on Sunday has never made sense to me, unless "this Sunday" has already been referred to.

If I'm sat at a bus stop and say I'm getting on the next bus, do you expect me to sit and wait for one to pass by, and then get on the one after? That would only make sense if, e.g., we see a bus in the distance, someone asks if I'm getting on this bus, and I say no, the next one.

2Rebecca · 19/08/2026 22:21

It is not “ this Sunday” but “ next Sunday” but I know some people don’t get this do usually give a date or say “ not this Subday but next Sunday”

Northsidemammy · 19/08/2026 22:22

Datgal · 19/08/2026 22:14

11 days. The one in 4 days is this Sunday.
If someone says to you "do you want to do something this Sunday?"... which Sunday do you think their referring to?

This is my view too.

user9812 · 19/08/2026 22:32

Utini · 19/08/2026 22:20

I've heard it used both ways. Using "next Sunday" to mean a week on Sunday has never made sense to me, unless "this Sunday" has already been referred to.

If I'm sat at a bus stop and say I'm getting on the next bus, do you expect me to sit and wait for one to pass by, and then get on the one after? That would only make sense if, e.g., we see a bus in the distance, someone asks if I'm getting on this bus, and I say no, the next one.

Edited

This is exactly how my mind worked when I was told next Sunday. The next one. Like buses!

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ErrolTheDragon · 19/08/2026 23:24

It’s ambiguous, it could be used to mean either unless it’s the ‘not this Sunday, next Sunday’ thing.

tightfit · 19/08/2026 23:27

user9812 · 19/08/2026 22:18

Thank you. My mind just jumped to this Sunday being the next one coming up! I stand corrected.

Mine does too. Next Sunday is the next one coming up. The following one is a week on Sunday!

MiceSpiders · 19/08/2026 23:29

Datgal · 19/08/2026 22:14

11 days. The one in 4 days is this Sunday.
If someone says to you "do you want to do something this Sunday?"... which Sunday do you think their referring to?

I completely agree with this, my DH does not, it often causes confusion

Orders76 · 19/08/2026 23:59

Utini · 19/08/2026 22:20

I've heard it used both ways. Using "next Sunday" to mean a week on Sunday has never made sense to me, unless "this Sunday" has already been referred to.

If I'm sat at a bus stop and say I'm getting on the next bus, do you expect me to sit and wait for one to pass by, and then get on the one after? That would only make sense if, e.g., we see a bus in the distance, someone asks if I'm getting on this bus, and I say no, the next one.

Edited

If it's Monday to Saturday, the next Sunday is the next Sunday.
If it's Saturday, then 'tomorrow' is used instead and the next Sunday is week after.

Createausername1970 · 20/08/2026 00:07

Heathertrott2 · 19/08/2026 22:14

There was a thread on this a month or so ago.
It's the one in 11 days.
The one in 4 days is "this Sunday" , or simply, "Sunday"

Very similar wording if I recall correctly.

Pepperama · 20/08/2026 00:11

OMG I had no idea whatsoever it could refer to in 11 days.

InterestedDad37 · 20/08/2026 00:15

I think it ALWAYS needs clarification 😀 It's part of a social verbal dance that we all secretly enjoy.

ToffeePennie · 20/08/2026 03:50

”Next Sunday” is 11 days time
“This Sunday” is 4 days time.
But my DH has autism so I have to be super specific - “Next Sunday, babe, as in not in 4 days time, but next week (whatever I need to ask about)”