My husband of 12 years thought it was acceptable to take our son to Asda and buy me 75p reduced price flowers and crisps and biscuits… he’s spent over £100 on trainers for himself this week so he’s not poor and he’s generous to his mum and brothers family’s, I’m just not worth more than a tenner apparently/ i actually feel sick just thinking about it. The whole gesture feels very ‘I don’t value you as a person’
im so tired of his shit, this is why I work like a dog full time, take abuse from my employer, stretch myself beyond limits to care for my kids and home because if I was a sahm I’d probably be on food rations so I must work and fend for myself, surely I’d be better off single if he can’t even fulfill basic needs of a wife???