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To almost feel a shred of sympathy for Tommy Robinson

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lazyahzydaysofsummer · 02/08/2026 10:55

He did a debate against Oxford university students recently.

His entire argument was destroyed. Every single point. Even Jacob Rees Mogg had to comment on how stupid he was.

It’s exposed what he really is - an ignorant, uneducated man who is so gripped by fear caused by a misunderstanding of the world around him, and it’s almost made me feel sorry for him. People like him have been failed - by society, by the education system, and by the people around them.

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Shedmistress · 03/08/2026 17:32

BIossomtoes · 03/08/2026 17:10

As the person who said it I can assure you that you’re massively over thinking it and turning a molehill into Everest. I have never knowingly said anything remotely racist in my life and it’s a real stretch to turn a reference to “this country” into something abhorrent.

I think maybe if you've never lived in different countries you would not know just how bad it is. Especially for a mere spelling error.

No matter, I once had a nun stand behind me for a meal holding very firmly the knife in one hand and the fork in another forcing the food into my mouth because I didn't hold my cutlery 'properly'. In front of the whole school, what larks!

5128gap · 03/08/2026 17:37

JesseDavisGonnaHangOnInThereNSoul · 03/08/2026 17:19

@5128gap on the boogie front I did suggest ten names mobile disco a bit further back to shed mistress.

"...Just blame it on the migrants, just blame it on the lefties, Don't blame it on the racists. Don't blame it on the boogie..."

BIossomtoes · 03/08/2026 17:44

I have lived in other countries without ever being accused of being racist. Congratulations on being the very first person in more than 70 years to do it. And congratulations too on still failing to concede that the nuns didn’t manage to teach you the difference between race and nationality.

TicklishReader · 03/08/2026 17:57

BIossomtoes · 03/08/2026 17:44

I have lived in other countries without ever being accused of being racist. Congratulations on being the very first person in more than 70 years to do it. And congratulations too on still failing to concede that the nuns didn’t manage to teach you the difference between race and nationality.

You haven't said anything remotely racist.

SnoopyPajamas · 03/08/2026 18:36

GeneralPeter · 02/08/2026 17:15

Yes. Just as importantly, though, concede the points on which he is right and address them (or at least seriously engage with them) so that the pathway is removed.

TR: "Pakistani Muslims are raping white and Sikh girls and it's disgusting."
Everyone else: "Yes, we know about that and stopped it as fast as we realised there was an issue. Anything else to add?
TR: "Deport all Muslims?"
Everyone else: "Don't be silly. That would be an absurd over-reaction".

versus what actually happened.

Yes, we know about that and stopped it as fast as we realised there was an issue. Anything else to add?

If by "we" you mean the authorities, then we very much did not "stop it as soon as we realised there was an issue".

Girls went to the police and were dismissed as working class slags not worth listening to. Teenagers were charged as madams and prostitutes, with no-one seeming to care that they were below the age of consent, and at the very least, statutory rape had been committed. Healthcare and community workers raised the alarm, only to have their reports buried for years. A 13 year old girl with special needs was referred for an abortion, and no-one cared to look too deeply into the married man three times her age who had impregnated her.

When journalists tried to break the story, they were accused of fueling racial tensions. Pretty much every mainstream media outlet which reported on the grooming gangs initially downplayed the extent of the scandal, and anyone who pushed for clarity on the fact that the perpetrators were majority Pakistani Muslim men, and the fact that this was relevant to their offending, was accused of being racist and faced heavy pressure to shut up about it.

Attempts were made to portray the gangs as a Rotherham-only problem, confined to a couple of years in the early 2000s. Victims in other towns and time periods had to fight to be acknowledged. Just look at footage of Sadiq Khan trying to fob off journalists who called for an inquiry into gangs in London. It'll make your blood boil how dismissive he is, even though at this point, the number of gangs uncovered in major towns and cities across the country, would tell you it's just common sense to look into the possibility of gangs operating in the capital. He knows he's going to find out this was happening under his watch, and doesn't want the bad PR, so he's spent years fobbing off calls for an investigation, and belittling the (usually female) journalists who confront him on the issue. He's not stopping anything as fast as he can. He's being deliberately obstructive - and he's doing so as the Muslim Mayor of London, with the eyes of the world upon him. If he's not feeling the pressure to do justice, imagine how the rest of the political class are acting. He won't be the only one trying to sweep it all under the rug.

Women and girls have been trying to get justice for this for decades. Their bereaved parents, and the children of their assaults, have been trying to get justice. For years and years and years.

Sorry, but it's absolutely unbelievable that anyone would frame the grooming gangs as something that was swiftly nipped in the bud, all sorted out now, nothing left to see. It's very much not the case.

GeneralPeter · 03/08/2026 18:39

SnoopyPajamas · 03/08/2026 18:36

Yes, we know about that and stopped it as fast as we realised there was an issue. Anything else to add?

If by "we" you mean the authorities, then we very much did not "stop it as soon as we realised there was an issue".

Girls went to the police and were dismissed as working class slags not worth listening to. Teenagers were charged as madams and prostitutes, with no-one seeming to care that they were below the age of consent, and at the very least, statutory rape had been committed. Healthcare and community workers raised the alarm, only to have their reports buried for years. A 13 year old girl with special needs was referred for an abortion, and no-one cared to look too deeply into the married man three times her age who had impregnated her.

When journalists tried to break the story, they were accused of fueling racial tensions. Pretty much every mainstream media outlet which reported on the grooming gangs initially downplayed the extent of the scandal, and anyone who pushed for clarity on the fact that the perpetrators were majority Pakistani Muslim men, and the fact that this was relevant to their offending, was accused of being racist and faced heavy pressure to shut up about it.

Attempts were made to portray the gangs as a Rotherham-only problem, confined to a couple of years in the early 2000s. Victims in other towns and time periods had to fight to be acknowledged. Just look at footage of Sadiq Khan trying to fob off journalists who called for an inquiry into gangs in London. It'll make your blood boil how dismissive he is, even though at this point, the number of gangs uncovered in major towns and cities across the country, would tell you it's just common sense to look into the possibility of gangs operating in the capital. He knows he's going to find out this was happening under his watch, and doesn't want the bad PR, so he's spent years fobbing off calls for an investigation, and belittling the (usually female) journalists who confront him on the issue. He's not stopping anything as fast as he can. He's being deliberately obstructive - and he's doing so as the Muslim Mayor of London, with the eyes of the world upon him. If he's not feeling the pressure to do justice, imagine how the rest of the political class are acting. He won't be the only one trying to sweep it all under the rug.

Women and girls have been trying to get justice for this for decades. Their bereaved parents, and the children of their assaults, have been trying to get justice. For years and years and years.

Sorry, but it's absolutely unbelievable that anyone would frame the grooming gangs as something that was swiftly nipped in the bud, all sorted out now, nothing left to see. It's very much not the case.

Indeed.

"versus what actually happened"

(i.e. what you describe).

Downthedrainwithme · 03/08/2026 18:44

Talking of the rape gang enquiry recently done by Rupert Lowe I couldn't help feeling very angry and not at what most people were.

I had friends who experienced what went on and all I could think is that at the time folk like Rupert Lowe wouldn't have given a shit and would have joined the chorus of those dismissing the victims as "sluts". It's funny how he's now so concerned for the poor working class girls who suffered when the cause is useful to him.

An enquiry needed to happen but I hate the fact it's so obvious Lowe is doing it for political clout.

SnoopyPajamas · 03/08/2026 18:58

Persephonia1966 · 02/08/2026 22:44

People screamed "you can't do that" several ladies fainted, the Muslims in the room started foaming at the mouths etc.

None of that actually happened but it would have been cool if it did. In reality maybe a slight stir of interest? That always happens when someone interiors a speech to say "and now I'm going to do it, I'm going to do the thing" and he was brandishing his envelope with a flourish. Noone tried to stop him that I could see though.

They didn't tackle him to the ground, but they very much did try to stop him. I think it's fair to say they panicked. There was clear discomfort in the room, and a number of excuses were hastily conjured up to try and stop Fox showing whatever was in the envelope.

First somebody tried to claim "props" weren't allowed in debates. This was ruled not to be true. Then someone else tried to argue that he'd been given enough free speech by being invited to the debate. Clearly not wanting Fox to take his free speech rights any further than that. She undercut her own claims to be pro free speech by doing that, because she was obviously attempting to control his speech, in her interruption. She could have complained after the fact, but chose to try and get him to change course mid-speech. She looked panicked to me.

Then the JRM cartoon, which wasn't very funny and was a bit of a cop-out really, got an outburst of nervous laughter from all sides, showing just how relieved everyone was that Fox hadn't actually shown Mohammed after all. I don't like Laurence Fox, but I don't have to, because he proved his point here. No-one should have to fear for their lives because they were in the room when a cartoon that offends Muslims was shown. That shouldn't even be a debate, in modern day Britain.

SnoopyPajamas · 03/08/2026 19:05

GeneralPeter · 03/08/2026 18:39

Indeed.

"versus what actually happened"

(i.e. what you describe).

Edited

Yes. Just as importantly, though, concede the points on which he is right and address them (or at least seriously engage with them) so that the pathway is removed.

TR: "Pakistani Muslims are raping white and Sikh girls and it's disgusting
Everyone else: "Yes, we know about that and stopped it as fast as we realised there was an issue. Anything else to add
TR: "Deport all Muslims?
Everyone else: "Don't be silly. That would be an absurd over-reaction"

versus what actually happened.

Oh, am I misunderstanding your post? It looked like you were framing "Everyone else" as the voice of reason and saying this was how people should be responding to Tommy Robinson. How should I have read it?

Either way, my point still stands to the people who react that way when TR brings up the issue of the gangs.

Downthedrainwithme · 03/08/2026 19:17

Just to add to my previous post as much as I despise Robinson I have an easier time believing he has some actual sympathy for the victims of the rape gangs due to the fact he grew up in and amongst us normal folk than Rupert Lowe.

ImpossibleGermany · 03/08/2026 19:20

So you don't actually feel a shred of sympathy for him then, do you? In spite of the thread title.

What did JRM say that was a comment on how stupid he was?

ImpossibleGermany · 03/08/2026 19:26

Couldyounot · 02/08/2026 11:18

Cocaine, mainly, or at least as I understand it

I can well imagine he partakes of cocaine, yes.

Then again, I think a good many people partake of cocaine, including most people on the liberal, luvvie, celebrity side of the progressive left. It's so ubiquitous it's barely worth mentioning. It certainly doesn't explain or define anything about Tommy Robinson.

Persephonia1966 · 03/08/2026 19:45

Downthedrainwithme · 03/08/2026 19:17

Just to add to my previous post as much as I despise Robinson I have an easier time believing he has some actual sympathy for the victims of the rape gangs due to the fact he grew up in and amongst us normal folk than Rupert Lowe.

I do too, but my belief fades slightly when I see him palling up with Tate. Actually that doesn't mean he doesn't care. You can care about one group of victims and not about another group of alleged victims. But it shows a certain inconsistency.
The thing which tips it for me though is his antics outside the court during a rape trial. It's hard to understand unless you have been through a trial (of any sort) how draining giving evidence can be. Especially for something as traumatic as what the victims went through. Plus having their lives in hold while they wait for it to come to trial. It's really horrifying that someone could risk a retrial in those circumstances just to push their own social media presence. People are soooonrelaxed about him doing that though, like he was just being a bit of a cheeky scamp or like it didn't matter because it didn't cause a retrial. Or like his rights to free speech overrule everything else. But it's really bad.

AImportantMermaid · 03/08/2026 19:49

The problem with platforming him like this it gives him a legitimacy he can use for gain or ‘influence’. It gives him a veneer of credibility - he must be important to be invited, right? Pitting him against Rees-Mogg, a stone cold awful human being, but a big national hitter with a weighty reputation shows that Oxford takes him seriously and therefore so should we - the very opposite of what’s happening in Clacton at the moment as Farage is rightly ridiculed for spending his summer arguing with a bin with a resultant loss of authority and trust.

Tommeh’s followers like him because he is a thick, racist, grifter, not in spite of it. Somewhere on the internet there will be a thread full of awful spelling where everyone thinks he was stitched up by the ‘establishment’. For every hundred people who watched that Oxford video, 98% will think he’s a prick, but 2% will think he’s got some good ideas, and so all of a sudden he has a couple of hundred new followers. It’s what happened to Boris Johnson on HIGNFY. He became an amiable, fluffy, duffer to the public instead of the lazy, bullying, lying, sex yeti he actually was.

Downthedrainwithme · 03/08/2026 19:52

Persephonia1966 · 03/08/2026 19:45

I do too, but my belief fades slightly when I see him palling up with Tate. Actually that doesn't mean he doesn't care. You can care about one group of victims and not about another group of alleged victims. But it shows a certain inconsistency.
The thing which tips it for me though is his antics outside the court during a rape trial. It's hard to understand unless you have been through a trial (of any sort) how draining giving evidence can be. Especially for something as traumatic as what the victims went through. Plus having their lives in hold while they wait for it to come to trial. It's really horrifying that someone could risk a retrial in those circumstances just to push their own social media presence. People are soooonrelaxed about him doing that though, like he was just being a bit of a cheeky scamp or like it didn't matter because it didn't cause a retrial. Or like his rights to free speech overrule everything else. But it's really bad.

My comment was more surface level than an endorsement or validation of Robinson and now he certainly does use the rape gang issues and others for his own political and career purposes and he's waded into things he's shouldn't have causing more trouble for victims.

That said when compared to lowe, Robinson at least wears his vile beliefs on his sleeve for all to see while Lowe has put out videos talking about the "poor Christian girls" who were raped feigning concern when it's painfully obvious it's all in service or his Restore party.

I don't like either of them but I have a philosophy that the more I watch and learn from the people I dislike or disagree with the more balanced my opinion is and it's easier to see through the bullshit coming from people I do support the regrettably use similar tactics.

LoisGriffinskitchen · 03/08/2026 19:54

Back to the OP but Tommy boy had a bit of a sniff going on . Hmm! Wonder what caused that

Persephonia1966 · 03/08/2026 19:57

Downthedrainwithme · 03/08/2026 19:52

My comment was more surface level than an endorsement or validation of Robinson and now he certainly does use the rape gang issues and others for his own political and career purposes and he's waded into things he's shouldn't have causing more trouble for victims.

That said when compared to lowe, Robinson at least wears his vile beliefs on his sleeve for all to see while Lowe has put out videos talking about the "poor Christian girls" who were raped feigning concern when it's painfully obvious it's all in service or his Restore party.

I don't like either of them but I have a philosophy that the more I watch and learn from the people I dislike or disagree with the more balanced my opinion is and it's easier to see through the bullshit coming from people I do support the regrettably use similar tactics.

Edited

Oh Lowe is definitely the bigger hypocrite I agree! My point with SYL really is I know people (not famous and not as rich) who might come across kind of like he does, and probably have some "unPC" views. But they do actually care about stuff like the grooming gangs and aren't bad people. I sort of gave SYL the benefit of the doubt for a while for that reason - even if I don't like all someone's views I can still think they are genuine. But the really blatant grifting combined with the willingness to risk a trial in order to grift further from said trial was the point at which I stopped being able to think maybe he is well intentioned or at least partly motivated by genuine anger.

Downthedrainwithme · 03/08/2026 20:06

Persephonia1966 · 03/08/2026 19:57

Oh Lowe is definitely the bigger hypocrite I agree! My point with SYL really is I know people (not famous and not as rich) who might come across kind of like he does, and probably have some "unPC" views. But they do actually care about stuff like the grooming gangs and aren't bad people. I sort of gave SYL the benefit of the doubt for a while for that reason - even if I don't like all someone's views I can still think they are genuine. But the really blatant grifting combined with the willingness to risk a trial in order to grift further from said trial was the point at which I stopped being able to think maybe he is well intentioned or at least partly motivated by genuine anger.

Yeah there's no excusing him for what he did with regards to the trial. I don't so much give him the benefit of the doubt it's more I accept he exists and that simply throwing insults at him as you can see on here or dismissing him out right as "low IQ" etc out of a sense of superiority I feel is irresponsible if not dangerous and actually does more to help him than hinder him.

I don't like it but knowing your enemy (for want of a better term) and knowing them well is better than assuming that they are dumb and therefore easily dismissed, if that were the case he would have disappeared years ago.

Persephonia1966 · 03/08/2026 20:37

Downthedrainwithme · 03/08/2026 20:06

Yeah there's no excusing him for what he did with regards to the trial. I don't so much give him the benefit of the doubt it's more I accept he exists and that simply throwing insults at him as you can see on here or dismissing him out right as "low IQ" etc out of a sense of superiority I feel is irresponsible if not dangerous and actually does more to help him than hinder him.

I don't like it but knowing your enemy (for want of a better term) and knowing them well is better than assuming that they are dumb and therefore easily dismissed, if that were the case he would have disappeared years ago.

I think we agree.
I also don't think he's low IQ. If I did id be more inclined to think the court thing was genuine ignorance on his part but he knows what he's doing and he's made a lot of money doing it I guess.

Downthedrainwithme · 03/08/2026 20:53

Persephonia1966 · 03/08/2026 20:37

I think we agree.
I also don't think he's low IQ. If I did id be more inclined to think the court thing was genuine ignorance on his part but he knows what he's doing and he's made a lot of money doing it I guess.

Tbh I assumed we agreed from the start but were just hashing out the details. 😀

GeneralPeter · 03/08/2026 21:08

SnoopyPajamas · 03/08/2026 19:05

Yes. Just as importantly, though, concede the points on which he is right and address them (or at least seriously engage with them) so that the pathway is removed.

TR: "Pakistani Muslims are raping white and Sikh girls and it's disgusting
Everyone else: "Yes, we know about that and stopped it as fast as we realised there was an issue. Anything else to add
TR: "Deport all Muslims?
Everyone else: "Don't be silly. That would be an absurd over-reaction"

versus what actually happened.

Oh, am I misunderstanding your post? It looked like you were framing "Everyone else" as the voice of reason and saying this was how people should be responding to Tommy Robinson. How should I have read it?

Either way, my point still stands to the people who react that way when TR brings up the issue of the gangs.

Yes sorry if my post wasn’t clear. My point was that that was how we should have responded but didn’t.

As someone who’s not naturally aligned with TR, Farage etc (not saying they are the same), I still find it immensely annoying when people say things like: “The real shame is that the far right will exploit [such and such problem]”. I always think no, the real issue to focus on is the problem itself, not worrying about how people of different politics to yourself would fix it.

TooBigForMyBoots · 03/08/2026 22:24

ImpossibleGermany · 03/08/2026 19:26

I can well imagine he partakes of cocaine, yes.

Then again, I think a good many people partake of cocaine, including most people on the liberal, luvvie, celebrity side of the progressive left. It's so ubiquitous it's barely worth mentioning. It certainly doesn't explain or define anything about Tommy Robinson.

Just because you think something, doesn't make it true. Are you aware of the impact of cocaine on the psyche?

Are you aware of the impact the cocaine trade has on the people of our country and the countries that produce it? Do you take it yourself?

It is not barely worth mentioning. It's a scourge and drain on our society.Hmm Just like TR.

TooBigForMyBoots · 03/08/2026 22:30

JesseDavisGonnaHangOnInThereNSoul · 03/08/2026 12:24

@Shedmistress boogie man..Ten names mobile disco..
Available for hen /stag doos
Barmitzivahs
And weddings.not (Muslim ones)
Cash or coke upfront payment.

You forgot he's also available to disrupt the legal trials of rapists.🤔

Cash or coke upfront payment.

TankFlyBossW4lk · 03/08/2026 22:41

lazyahzydaysofsummer · 02/08/2026 10:55

He did a debate against Oxford university students recently.

His entire argument was destroyed. Every single point. Even Jacob Rees Mogg had to comment on how stupid he was.

It’s exposed what he really is - an ignorant, uneducated man who is so gripped by fear caused by a misunderstanding of the world around him, and it’s almost made me feel sorry for him. People like him have been failed - by society, by the education system, and by the people around them.

There are many people with similar views to Tommy who probably have been failed. By their parents, and society, perhaps by not accessing the education offered to them.

But Tommy, he's a violent thug. He has received many opportunities and though undoubtedly poorly educated, it's not because of lack of exposure or even ability. He is just a thug who idolises violence. Really, I wish he didn't get so much air time.

He's funded by the cesspit of humanity. These evil men know who to pay to rip society apart. They are succeeding with the likes of Tommy and Nigel who are so filled with hate and easily bought.

NotAnotherScarf · 03/08/2026 22:44

I've said earlier up thread that I live in a right of centre echo chamber. You'd be interested to hear that YouTube produced some interesting clips of the debate which show Robinson winning some points, making some telling comments and the speakers against looked very aggressive.

So we have him getting his arse kicked on one side of the house and winning some telling arguments on the other.

And here my friends is where society is falling to pieces. This thread is an example of this. Some people are making really intelligent posts on both sides of the argument and others are proving that the idea of civilised discussion is dead.

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