I have a 13 year old dd from a previous relationship and a 5 year old with my husband and we're a fostering currently (to adopt hopefully) Our baby has had a couple of appointments recently and 2 days ago we had to stay overnight for a procedure early the next morning. I stayed over and my husband stayed at home with 2 of our children During this time my husband found out dd had started her period and she denied it and told him to leave her alone as he doesn't get it, he told me which has made the situation 10x worse. I obviously don't know how she feels either but she's refusing to talk to me. I got her pads just basic ones because I don't know what she wants and she refused to go anywhere with me I even asked her to look online and just show me but she has refused to do that aswell. Everything we say to her we're told to leave her alone even random things like asking what she wants for dinner for example We're due to go on a short uk break in a couple of days and she's now saying she hates my husband and she's not going away if he is Any advice would be appreciated