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To not want to go back to the doctor for this?

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willingandableto · 25/07/2026 23:16

A couple of weeks ago I came out in what looked like a patch of eczema. I went to the doctor, got a steroid cream and was told to discontinue use 24 hours after it cleared up, and to go back in two weeks if it hadn’t.

It went, I stopped using the cream, all was well.

It’s now back, with what also looks like a heat rash and the skin on my arm is really sore to touch. All over my arm is painful, even my t-shirt brushing against it is sore. I also came out in a couple of patches on the back of my leg, but they cleared up quickly with the cream.

I just really can’t be bothered with the doctor. They’ll either prescribe a new cream or stick me on a waiting list to see dermatology which will take a year. I’ve tried google and AI and nothing seems to know what’s going on with my skin. AIBU to just want to heal it naturally?! I don’t want to waste more time with the doctor!

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willingandableto · 29/07/2026 08:55

Loulou4022 · 29/07/2026 08:54

What shampoo and shower gel do you use? If it’s got sodium laureth sulphate in it and you’re sensitive to it no matter how much steroid cream you apply it’ll still be sore! Doctors gave me a really strong one and mine was still flaring up. I eventually found something online about SLS and bingo problem solved!

I use the dove cream bar because I thought it was meant to be gentle with my skin 😩

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Mangledrake · 29/07/2026 09:02

Namechangenicknackeronnie · 29/07/2026 08:55

Not sure what you want from this thread @willingandableto . Y asked AIBU not to go to the doctor, we all said yes for a range of reasons and you’re now arguing as to why you don’t want to go. Fine, don’t go, but no one is going to agree with you given the fact pattern you’ve specified.

OP's username certainly doesn't check out!

Loulou4022 · 29/07/2026 09:04

willingandableto · 29/07/2026 08:55

I use the dove cream bar because I thought it was meant to be gentle with my skin 😩

I can’t manage dove either. I use faith in nature fragrance free, their shampoo conditioner body wash and bar soap and have had no eczema flares since. It not too bad a price obviously more expensive than supermarket stuff but I think it’s around £3 on Amazon at the moment. I got it in patches not all over so the crooks of my elbows were bad and my eye lids!

thedogisfine · 29/07/2026 09:04

Yes that looks like it will definitely just go away on its own, don’t worry you’ll be fine

Im a stranger on the internet with no medical expertise, I know these things. Im definitely right.

dmell13 · 29/07/2026 09:33

willingandableto · 29/07/2026 08:38

These are the patches (ignore the spot, I don’t know where that came from!), I don’t know when they popped up on my leg but it was very itchy last night.

on my arm the only way I can describe it is I feel like a pin prick coming out of my skin, and then a patch appears. Trey go away with steroid cream but as soon as I stop using it? They come back

I'd put money on this being shingles from the way you're describing the way it feels - I had the same rash a few months ago, i had been itching it for a few days before this pic. The pharmacist can prescribe anti-virals for shingles so you don't need a GP appointment.

To not want to go back to the doctor for this?
Ohyeahohno · 29/07/2026 09:40

Now you have got that spot which you can see in your picture I wonder if it is shingles?

GreenFootstool · 29/07/2026 09:43

I still say shingles.

pinkdelight · 29/07/2026 09:56

*Waits for OP to say (again, with no basis) that it's definitely not shingles.

Ches71 · 29/07/2026 10:05

willingandableto · 29/07/2026 08:55

I use the dove cream bar because I thought it was meant to be gentle with my skin 😩

@willingandableto I'm not able to use Dove products as they bring me out in a rash.

willingandableto · 29/07/2026 12:44

pinkdelight · 29/07/2026 09:56

*Waits for OP to say (again, with no basis) that it's definitely not shingles.

It’s not. I’ve had it going on nearly five and a half weeks now, it’s obviously eczema or something.

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willingandableto · 29/07/2026 12:44

Ohyeahohno · 29/07/2026 09:40

Now you have got that spot which you can see in your picture I wonder if it is shingles?

I don’t think so. That’s on the inside of my thigh, I think that’s just a spot. I get them sometimes.

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willingandableto · 29/07/2026 12:45

dmell13 · 29/07/2026 09:33

I'd put money on this being shingles from the way you're describing the way it feels - I had the same rash a few months ago, i had been itching it for a few days before this pic. The pharmacist can prescribe anti-virals for shingles so you don't need a GP appointment.

If one more person says shingles I will scream. I’m 27, entirely well within myself and healthy. It’s not shingles!

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Mousespoons · 29/07/2026 12:46

Could be impetigo - you might need antibiotics

Mousespoons · 29/07/2026 12:50

Or you could try some daktarin hydrocortisone cream from the pharmacy (they sell it for sweat rash/jock itch) which is a kind of fungal/yeast overgrowth, if you really don’t want to see the doctor

willingandableto · 29/07/2026 12:51

I’m on the phone to them now but I doubt they’ll be able to help. The only appointment it would let me book online was this afternoon which just isn’t doable.

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willingandableto · 29/07/2026 13:38

Ended up having to submit a form as there’s no appointments available now apparently. They’re a joke of a surgery

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Justchillinhere · 29/07/2026 13:43

It looks like a form of prickly heat, There's 3 types, miliaria crystallins, miliaria rubra and miliaria profunda, I have it occasionally but haven't for a long time, I took an antihistamine every day, after a cool shower, patted skin dry and applied aloe Vera, kept in fridge.my sweat ducts were blocked, Speak to a pharmacist if you can't see a doctor

redboxerclub · 30/07/2026 18:28

Did you get a diagnosis OP?

willingandableto · 30/07/2026 18:40

redboxerclub · 30/07/2026 18:28

Did you get a diagnosis OP?

Appointment is tomorrow. Fucking annoying, I rang them to ask about changing it and they “cant”

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willingandableto · 31/07/2026 10:31

It’s eczema. She said it’s definitely not shingles, because it’s limited to two parts of my body. She thinks that the soreness is apparently a very rare side effect of wegovy, but it is documented as a side effect. I’ve been prescribed a steroid cream to use on any patches that come up.

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HoraceCope · 31/07/2026 17:40

good to know
op @willingandableto

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