So 3 years ago, I had a random 4 months where I was sleeping with a male friend of mine, lets call him Tom. Nothing serious, we had been friends for years and years, and then we just randomly hooked up one night and had like a 4 month "fling". It ended as suddenly as it started and we went straight back to being just friends with zero flirtation or anything.
Anyway, I have a very close female friend, let's call her Emma. She is absolutely bloody lovely and was dumped by a total prick she was seeing. It suddenly occured to me that there was a very similar kind of feel that Tom and Emma share, and that they would really get on. So I introduced them.
I dont know what the fuck i was thinking but I somehow never got around to telling Emma about how I had this thing with Tom. She knew we hung out and were frjebds and stuff of course, but back in the day i never mentioned we had slept together as it was so casual, and i didnt mention it before hooking them up either. I guess because I wanted her to feel like if they did hit it off, he would be just hers to know if you see what i mean. I don't know, initially I just wanted her to feel like she was meeting a great man and it felt somehow sordid. Like "heres a guy I used to shag, why dont you have a go".
Rightly or wrongly I failed to twll her, it has been 6 months they have been dating and I feel like its now past the point of no return as she is massively falling for him and I have missed the boat on telling her. He hasn't told her, I'm sure of that - she would have said somrthing to me.
Have I massively fucked up here?