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To ask how possible it is to get a prescription for a fear of flying?

103 replies

doyouhavefaithingodabove · 11/07/2026 21:13

I have always been a nervous flier and nervous traveller in general. It makes me very stressed and I tend to not relax until I’ve landed.

I usually fly BA since they’ve introduced WiFi because I can then connect to it and text my dad, who is the only one who’s able to explain things in a way that calms me down. He doesn’t mind it.

This summer I’m flying with Ryanair and the recent news about the window shattering has genuinely made me so anxious I feel sick. I don’t fly for another eight weeks but I can already feel panic building whenever I think of it.

I know this is commonplace in America but does this type of thing ever happen in the UK? Would I need to see a private GP?

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GreenFootstool · 11/07/2026 21:50

Florally · 11/07/2026 21:23

They won’t prescribe you anything for a fear of flying.

Years ago I used to get diazepam, but they won’t now as they say you need to be fully with it in case of an emergency.

However, I injured my back a day before a long haul flight recently and they prescribed diazepam for the pain to get through that, so, you might be able to find a way through.

I couldn't get diazepam for me or the husband despite horrific back pain in the last couple of years.

doyouhavefaithingodabove · 11/07/2026 21:52

Iloveeverycat · 11/07/2026 21:48

Why do you fly if you hate it so much. I don't and it doesn't bother me. I don't understand why you put yourself through it. You can't enjoy yourself when you are there as you will be worrying about coming back.

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I manage to put it out of my mind because I love travelling and exploring

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Wac90 · 11/07/2026 21:54

doyouhavefaithingodabove · 11/07/2026 21:43

I guess they have to stop anything that might actually help people 🙄

Or they are concerned about people being able to function if something does actually happen 🙄

ChocolateBiscuitsandaCuppa · 11/07/2026 21:54

Apologies if this has already been suggested - have you considered hypnotherapy, or IEMT?

I had hypnotherapy over a decade ago for true arachnophobia. I couldn't look at photos of spiders, I thought about them ALL the time, I managed to terrify myself more than once over clumps of my own hair in case they were spiders etc. etc. After the hypnotherapy, I caught a Huntsman spider (it was in Sydney) in a tupperware container and released it, and held a member of the tarantula family.

Everything you mention sounds like a true phobia (or close enough), and you have done so well in the past to make yourself get on the plane in the first place.

Might be worth a go.

FlamingosRock · 11/07/2026 21:55

Have a look at EasyJet Fearless Flyer course… I did it in Jan 2025, and have flown 6 times since (after avoiding flying for 15years!).

I was so skeptical, but honestly, it has worked wonders for me..
The online course has a whole section on how planes work, and what all the noises are, and that really helped calm my anxious brain.

I also did the experience flight at the end of the course, and chatting to the pilot and hearing how passionate he was about aviation really helped too!

I have an emergency supply of diazepam following a back injury 18months ago, and while I packed them, I didn’t have to take them…. Even managed to stand up and go to the toilet on last flight a few weeks ago!

Octavia64 · 11/07/2026 21:59

Some anti histamines make people very drowsy.

if they have this impact on you (doesn’t happen for everyone) then these are a good diazepam subs.

personally I use strong painkillers (disabled as well)

HappiestSleeping · 11/07/2026 22:10

doyouhavefaithingodabove · 11/07/2026 21:31

I can’t think of anything worse! There’s a few places I’d love to travel to but are off the cards because of the fact they’re in those small planes with propellers, I couldn’t get in anything smaller

I know what you mean, but it is the being in control, and not out of control that may help?

Misty999 · 11/07/2026 22:20

You can get diazepam from online pharmacies for jet lag they give you 28, only need half of one per flight so will last for years.

Gall10 · 11/07/2026 22:23

Foughties · 11/07/2026 21:42

A couple of double brandies will do the same in my experience. It just ditches your brain off and you'll feel a bit groggy. I hate flying. Ive had the medication for years but last year just used alcohol.

That would be my prescription of choice! But I do sympathise with the poster… but if I was that nervous I just wouldn’t fly!

DinoLil · 11/07/2026 22:25

I used to be prescribed with diazepam.

Bobajobob · 11/07/2026 22:27

I have beta blockers for anxiety and also use them for flying. They definitely take the edge of flying and stop things like racing heart and sweaty palms etc. they don’t stop things like irrational thoughts. If it is the physical symptoms of anxiety that bother you they might be a good option.

doyouhavefaithingodabove · 11/07/2026 22:31

HappiestSleeping · 11/07/2026 22:10

I know what you mean, but it is the being in control, and not out of control that may help?

I don’t think it’s the lack of control. I really don’t know what it is, it just really gets me anxious. The entire experience is horrible for me

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notatinydancer · 11/07/2026 22:34

The easyJet fear of flying course (online) is excellent.
It’s a one off fee and you get lifetime access.

doyouhavefaithingodabove · 11/07/2026 22:37

Bobajobob · 11/07/2026 22:27

I have beta blockers for anxiety and also use them for flying. They definitely take the edge of flying and stop things like racing heart and sweaty palms etc. they don’t stop things like irrational thoughts. If it is the physical symptoms of anxiety that bother you they might be a good option.

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It’s more mental for me. I just can’t control my thoughts. I had a really awful landing in February and it’s shaken my confidence massively

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Harrietsaunt · 11/07/2026 22:41

Hypnotherapy could be really useful for you.

AnNonnyMouse3 · 11/07/2026 22:46

You don’t actually have to fly / go on planes if you don’t like flying / going on planes.

doyouhavefaithingodabove · 11/07/2026 23:01

AnNonnyMouse3 · 11/07/2026 22:46

You don’t actually have to fly / go on planes if you don’t like flying / going on planes.

As I’ve said - I can usually deal with it, and the act of exploring a new place outweighs the anxiety. But this latest incident has really shaken me up, but I’m in the position where I’d stand to lose a lot of money if I don’t go.

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Bobajobob · 11/07/2026 23:01

doyouhavefaithingodabove · 11/07/2026 22:37

It’s more mental for me. I just can’t control my thoughts. I had a really awful landing in February and it’s shaken my confidence massively

I can also recommend the Easyjet fear of flying course! It is was actually really helpful and informative.

ItsyourSam · 11/07/2026 23:25

doyouhavefaithingodabove · 11/07/2026 23:01

As I’ve said - I can usually deal with it, and the act of exploring a new place outweighs the anxiety. But this latest incident has really shaken me up, but I’m in the position where I’d stand to lose a lot of money if I don’t go.

I am/was terrified of flying to the point where I stopped in 2006. I also love travelling - I've been all around the world. I just recently took my first flight after 20 years, after I read a book - 'The Easy Way to Enjoy Flying' by Allen Carr. I recommend it!

youalright · 11/07/2026 23:27

It use to be easy to get some diazepam for a flight but I think its a lot harder now depends on the dr. I just stick to alcohol now

Slottiethesluttie · 11/07/2026 23:29

I used to get diazepam and my doctors (London) would prescribe me a small amount until very recently. I’d taken it for years. But then there was new NHS guidance and now they won’t so, yes, you’ll need to go private. It’s fucking annoying tbh.

DarkchocolateAndtea · 11/07/2026 23:30

Florally · 11/07/2026 21:23

They won’t prescribe you anything for a fear of flying.

Years ago I used to get diazepam, but they won’t now as they say you need to be fully with it in case of an emergency.

However, I injured my back a day before a long haul flight recently and they prescribed diazepam for the pain to get through that, so, you might be able to find a way through.

Good hint 😉

GoneWithTHeWindJammers · 11/07/2026 23:33

You have probably more chance of winning the lottery several weeks running than being sucked out of a window.

user8695940 · 11/07/2026 23:33

Wac90 · 11/07/2026 21:54

Or they are concerned about people being able to function if something does actually happen 🙄

I take it when I fly and I'm completely coherent and functional, to the point I often do work while flying with no problem. That would not be the case were I to down a few drinks beforehand. You can take a small dose that just smoothes the anxiety down to manageable levels 🙄

Doctordoolittle · 11/07/2026 23:34

doyouhavefaithingodabove · 11/07/2026 21:43

I guess they have to stop anything that might actually help people 🙄

If you are sedated with diazepam and there is an emergency your response would be slower. Not safe on a plane unfortunately.