NC for this.
I've worked all my life until last year when I was a pedestrian involved in car crash and had to have time off sick.
I was left with brain and nerve damage and broken bones.
Although I have made massive bounds in recovery, a year on I am still cognitively and mobility impaired. I also suffer from chronic fatigue now.
My Occupational Therapist has come up with a plan for a phased return to work, not doing my old job which is now not possible because of the brain damage, but simpler work in the same local authority team. One hour the first week, 2 hours the 2nd week kind of thing.
Now that I have run out of sick pay, I must claim benefits. Universal credit I think it is although I don't know how that works with a phased return.
DS is about to start college so needs new equipment, clothing and a travel pass. There is a bursary for those on UC. There is also a grant towards roof insulation for those on UC (DH and I have a mortgage).
My question really is, would I BU to delay my return to work for a month or so so I can claim the bursary towards DS's college expenses and insulation grant?
If I did that and then came off UC, would I have to repay it?
We were already struggling financially, only living on DH's wage and my sick pay so not sure how we'll manage on his wage and my UC.
YABU: get back to work and don't take advantage
YANBU: get what you can