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To block GBNews from my parent’s TV?

982 replies

goslowly · 02/07/2026 09:03

My parents retired 4 years ago. They’re both in their 60s, healthy, happy, comfortable financially.

Since they’ve retired they have been sucked in by every single thing they say on there. They can spend an entire day sat in front of the TV getting angrier and angrier. It’s to the point that if Starmer comes on the TV, they shout about how he should be killed.

it’s genuinely starting to concern me. You can’t have a rational conversation with them about anything. I miss my parents, how they used to be before all the conspiracy and anger took over.

I’m genuinely tempted to block it from their tv using parental controls and just pretending it’s some weird fault in their telly. They’d not be able to fix it.

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Dragonfly97 · 02/07/2026 10:17

My dad watches GB News and he's exactly the same, maybe not quite as vicious. Still comes out with some crackpot theories though, like the Covid vaccine kills more people than Covid did. Bearing in mind he's 94, with a heart condition, he'd be better off having the Covid jab, but it's his choice, and if he chooses to sit in front of GB News getting worked up, it's his choice. We've tried to tell him to take a more balanced view, but I think he enjoys getting angry.

hihelenhi · 02/07/2026 10:18

randomnamegenerated · 02/07/2026 10:10

A lot of the posters here don't understand radicalisation and how it works.

Actually, I suspect a lot more people understand it than you think.

Propaganda isn't a one-way street. Generally speaking, many media and news outlets right now have tipped into propagandist tactics. Journalistic standards appear to have dropped across the board. It's a genuine concern and no, it isn't just about GB news or other right wing outlets.

Whoopiedooo · 02/07/2026 10:18

Did they bring you up to be very controlling and authoritarian or is that a reaction against them not being?
They are not your small children and you don't get to decide what they watch on TV.
Get over yourself.

AWeeCupOfTeaAndAnIndividualFruitTrifle · 02/07/2026 10:18

saraclara · 02/07/2026 09:57

The difference is that the Guardian reports from a left of centre focus, but they don't set out to spread misinformation. Their news is factual at least, whereas GB news is not.

A lot of gender critical people would disagree with you there.

As I say, they do it in a more nuanced way, but whilst they do often include facts and legitimate contrary perspectives in their articles, there's frequently a clear implication that there are things which stupid people believe or consider important, whereas their perspective is assumed to be the right, relevant, intelligent way of viewing the situation.

Look at all of the reporting by and about Freddy McConnell for just one example of that. Not a single word criticising Freddy for fighting for the right to falsify and misrepresent somebody else's personal identity documents and how this may just be a narcissistic and controlling thing for anybody to seek to do.

The BBC is the same; they will often go for gaslighting rather than the blatant propagandising that the lower-brow media outlets do. They too go for the 'problem, reaction, solution' angle - whereas GB News and the Daily Mail & Express et al will simply ignore the middle stage and go straight to 'this is the problem - and this is how we need to resolve it'.

goslowly · 02/07/2026 10:19

Araminta1003 · 02/07/2026 10:16

Out of interest, did they go to uni?
Also if they are well off why not pay for private health care as a one off rather than lingering on NHS waiting lists. Nobody is stopping them from doing that. I never understand why rich elderly people think they have to wait their turn if they can afford not to.

Because then it’s less money for holidays! They wouldn’t dream of it

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godmum56 · 02/07/2026 10:20

YoullWorkitOut · 02/07/2026 10:15

Most people don't seem to understand to what extent the media controls our opinions and how we vote. The right wing press, which is most of it including any social media owned by rich dudes, are deciding how people think.
I would block it if it was me and take back some control for them.
Before I did that I think I'd give them an ultimatum, along the lines of if you don't stop saying such hateful things you won't see us anymore.

but that's not taking control FOR them, its taking control FROM them.

Miranda65 · 02/07/2026 10:20

All TV news is unwatchable and dumbed down, in my view, but I would defend to the hilt anyone's right to watch whatever they like. OP, how dare you think it's acceptable to control what adults watch? Will you be burning their books next?
Leave them alone, and if you don't like their opinions just see less of them.

goslowly · 02/07/2026 10:20

TheEasterBunny3 · 02/07/2026 10:16

My parents are similar so I completly get where you are coming from.

I think Ive worked out that as my parents retired, their 'world' got smaller as they no longer work with a variety of different people from different ages/socioeconomic background/political leanings etc. They no longer see the world as they did when they were working - they were both always busy, talking to someone, understanding other peoples circumstances and just generally being very active in life etc.

Their world is now incredibly small as they dont go out much & they learn about whats going on pretty much exclusively by watching GB news & reading the daily mail. They believe everything that is said/printed and have become very angry at the world and blame anyone who is not white for all the troubles in the country right now as that is what they have been told by these sites.

I would liken it to being in a cult. Their critical reasoning seems to have reduced massively and I think its to do with them getting older (now both in their mid 70s/early80s) and what they watch/consume all day.

My mum now admits that retiring was probably the worst thing she ever did (& she couldn't wait for it to come at the time!) as its made her life smaller and she misses all the connections she had with people each day (she worked in a school). Her health isn't as good now either which will also play a part in how she feels.

I'll be honest that its made me reflect on my plan for early retirement (only mid 40s so Ive got a while to go yet) but I think that sitting around at home all day watching extreme news content has harmed them both but they are adults and have agency over what they watch & read. Ive sort of given up trying to show them another opinion as its not really worth it but I will have my say if its getting too much.

Just want to say that its not just your parents that have become like this but thats what GB news is set up - they want to enrage people about everything and have been extremely successful at achieving their aim!

This is exactly it. I wish I could just get rid of it and have my parents back

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Cathandkin · 02/07/2026 10:20

goslowly · 02/07/2026 10:19

Because then it’s less money for holidays! They wouldn’t dream of it

They will also have paid into the system all their lives, and probably feel they ought not to pay.

YoullWorkitOut · 02/07/2026 10:21

godmum56 · 02/07/2026 10:20

but that's not taking control FOR them, its taking control FROM them.

I don't really care

Boomer55 · 02/07/2026 10:21

Why do feel the need to police whst your parents watch? Would you like them blocking things on your TV?

Jeez. 🙄

JoyousOpalLemur · 02/07/2026 10:22

This has got to be a wind up!

goslowly · 02/07/2026 10:22

Cathandkin · 02/07/2026 10:20

They will also have paid into the system all their lives, and probably feel they ought not to pay.

That’s their choice but they can’t complain that a minor issue is prioritised behind cancer and emergencies

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Ocelotfeet27 · 02/07/2026 10:23

Do it

godmum56 · 02/07/2026 10:23

ThatSourGobstopper · 02/07/2026 10:17

Yep, sit in a rocking chair and get the knitting needles out. No television for you. Just the classical musical station on the radio for you.

you can STAB people with knitting needles......just sayin

CagedBirdInACage · 02/07/2026 10:23

I feel you op. I have relatives afflicted with the same. It's really sad to see them so afraid and twisted with hatred.

goslowly · 02/07/2026 10:23

JoyousOpalLemur · 02/07/2026 10:22

This has got to be a wind up!

I wish it was. I miss my parents so much. I just want to be able to visit them and have a normal time with them.

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randomnamegenerated · 02/07/2026 10:24

hihelenhi · 02/07/2026 10:18

Actually, I suspect a lot more people understand it than you think.

Propaganda isn't a one-way street. Generally speaking, many media and news outlets right now have tipped into propagandist tactics. Journalistic standards appear to have dropped across the board. It's a genuine concern and no, it isn't just about GB news or other right wing outlets.

No, but one way to avoid the problem is to get information from a wide variety of sources.

Cathandkin · 02/07/2026 10:25

goslowly · 02/07/2026 10:22

That’s their choice but they can’t complain that a minor issue is prioritised behind cancer and emergencies

No, they can complain all they like. It's perfectly acceptable to.
What is happening seems to be an increasing hatred and support for the murder of the Prime Minister and migrants on boats. That's different to a moan about the NHS.

EasternStandard · 02/07/2026 10:25

goslowly · 02/07/2026 10:22

That’s their choice but they can’t complain that a minor issue is prioritised behind cancer and emergencies

Is it causing discomfort?

Miranda65 · 02/07/2026 10:25

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This message has been withdrawn at the poster's request

I'm in my 60s, and this remark is just ageist nonsense. People are all different..... at any age.

BillieWiper · 02/07/2026 10:26

Surely they'd just have loads of right/far right guff pinging directly into their phones 24/7 if they're into that side of things. I don't think blocking GB News alone will stop them having the views they do or seeking out content that reinforces it.

I can understand it must be disconcerting if they never seemed to express those opinions previously. But surely it can't just be that one channel?

Cathandkin · 02/07/2026 10:26

Miranda65 · 02/07/2026 10:25

I'm in my 60s, and this remark is just ageist nonsense. People are all different..... at any age.

Exactly. So much ageism on this thread

minimuffs2651 · 02/07/2026 10:26

I used to have massive disagreements over politics with my parents, but since then there's a lot of views I've come around/wisened up to.

I agree with another poster about how media in general left/right play their part to make everything as divisive as possible. It works for their business model, but not for the country. Unfortunately, the Left HAVE been responsible for lots of extremist views such as men magically turning into women, so the Right has (rightly imo) responded to that with derision. Many right wing views now were left wing a couple of decades ago. So, it would seem to both sides that both are in a cult, which is true for the extremists.

randomnamegenerated · 02/07/2026 10:28

latetothefisting · 02/07/2026 10:16

But even if it is radicalisation that still wouldnt make it okay to censor the viewing of two mentally competent adults.

Not to mention they'd probably still find some way of fuelling the fire, whether by watching gb news on YouTube, Facebook articles etc. Or just buy a new TV!

Yes, I said in my first post that I didn't see how the OP could do that. But I don't think that skating over what's happening as 'The Guardian is biased too' is helpful or looking at the reality of the situation.

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