AIBU to want to sell engagement ring

[TheBlueDeer]

I have an engagement ring from a previous relationship, it ended amicably, we are friendly, he has since married and had a child, I’m with someone new.
I’d like to sell my ring as what else am I meant to do with it? It’s a nice one from Tiffany. I could do with the dosh. I mentioned selling and my ex got very upset and suggested I should keep it for the memories.
The memories for me aren’t linked to an item. AIBU to want to sell the ring? Also any suggestions as to where I could sell an engagement ring lol

Eh? I’ve already said he doesn’t want it back. I don’t have financial trouble, I’d rather have some cash than a ring I haven’t worn for years sitting in the back of a drawer. I can respect the memory without keeping hold of the ring, what am I meant to do with it, keep it in a cupboard until I die?

No and not planning to have any

He's probably worried you'll find out it was fake!

It's your decision what you eventually do. You raise a point on the Mumsnet site and get some responses and then you do whatever. But seriously: the fact that you raise the point in the first instance (instead of just selling the thing) and the fact that you are now responding to a complete stranger (me) suggests to me that there is something unfinished going on in your mind which you should perhaps think about. What is unfinished about your relationship with your former partner? Is there something you still need to close down? Why have you still got that ring?

Oh absolutely sell it!

Do you need the cash? Do you like jewellery?
I would be more tempted to sell:part ex for something you really want eg a lovely pair of earrings as you will not get offered much by most jewellers
I have sold jewellery on eBay before but it’s quite risky

My mother had all 5 of her wedding and engagement rings melted down into a bangle- it's yours do what you like with it, resale on jewelry is often not generous though.

Bit weird to speak to him about selling it if it actually belongs to you and he doesn't want it back.

If you were going to sell your phone or laptop, would you speak to him about that too?

Is your mother Elizabeth Taylor or does she just have tiny wrists? 😁

I’ve still got my wedding and engagement rings. I keep wondering about selling. They don’t fit and we’ve been separated and divorced 12 + years. I was thinking of keeping for kids. I’ve also got one of my grandmother’s wedding rings. It also no longer fits. I did wear them all for a while on the other hand but I’ve definitely put on weight on a decade. Mine aren’t worth much. Wedding ring was bought from the joint account with his and he still has it. He did buy engagement ring but from an antique jewellery shop a relative worked and got us all good deals on anything gold at the time. I’ve also got a hold t bar necklace o don’t wear anymore which he bought me. Just sitting in the jewellery box. Kids were more into silver until recently when they’ve been asking about retro gold stuff!! Engagement ring is a 3 stone on a gold band. Very minimal carat of diamond I’m assuming.

after reading all the info I would sell it

Mine cost £6.5K new
had it valued (they only give you scrap value!)
I sold it on eBay for £1k which was significantly more than the (scrap) valuations I’d received