Ex husband behaviour

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To be annoyed at ex husband out with our DD 9 his adult son and his wife with their child 3, for a meal in restaurant, ex husband and his son drinking getting a bit merry and ex husband asks daughter in law who she would rather be with him or his son?, she replied his son, his son didn't hear or notice, totally mortified by his behaviour even though he is an ex, felt for our daughter how embarrassing and the fact I have mentioned many times in the past I felt in the past he was too familiar where she was concerned and his response be I am crazy both when married and separated

Were you there? Not sure I’m following what happened

yes I was there at the table

I’ve had to read it again and think I get it now. He sounds like a massive creep. If I was the DIL I’d not want to be around him alone.

The dil needs to avoid her creepy fil, he's disgusting.

Dil? The sons partner?

I think she was at a meal with her ex and their daughter (9) and his adult son and his wife (so ex' daughter in law). Ex creeped on his daughter in law and its also excruciating for the op's daughter who is 9.

The comment was to the daughter in law who seemed un fazed by his comment making me wonder what else he has said over the years and in front of our own dd 9

He's a grubby creep. Self obsessed and lacking in good manners. I can see why he's an ex, OP.

Can you minimise the time your dd spends with him when he has had a drink?

I did this by refusing to drive my ds to meet my ex. if he wanted to see his ds, he had to collect him, and he knew if I thought he was driving over the limit, I'd have reported him.

Yes