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Packed lunch = retired with £1m by 40.

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Allschoolsareartschools · 30/06/2026 07:53

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cvgdn3qqg7po
AIBU to say I've had a packed lunch for nearly 40 years but I dont have £1m & I'm not retired yet!
Am I doing something wrong?
Seriously how out of touch is this article? Good luck to them but its nothing to do with packed lunches.

Katie and Alan Donegan smile at the camera while both wearing glasses during a selfie in front of a lake and trees against a blue sky.

The people living hyper frugally so they can retire early

The Fire (Financially Independent, Retire Early) movement sees followers save as much as possible.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cvgdn3qqg7po

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Ethelspagetti · 30/06/2026 10:21

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Agreed!

Mangelwurzelfortea · 30/06/2026 10:25

backformoreofthesame · 30/06/2026 09:02

It is only possible for people on higher salaries - who basically live like people on the lower salaries and save the rest

lots of people couldn’t have £50 a week to save from the age of 20 - they already don’t buy lunches out and keep the heating off

i I guess the article is more targeted at the “o earn 80k and don’t have any money” brigade. I guess it’s slightly insulting to the people who could never manage this because they don’t earn much to be told that “I wouldn’t want to live like that -its not living “

Yep, exactly this.

Helps if they don't have any kids either.

I took a peanut butter sarnie (on cheapo white bread) to work for YEARS because it was all I could afford and, strangely, am not a millionaire in my 50s.

5foot5 · 30/06/2026 10:26

oviraptor21 · 30/06/2026 08:28

Wouldn't do half what they have but packed lunches yes. Have never understood people spending £5-£10 on lunch alone when you can prep something in 5-10 minutes at home (often less than the time it takes to queue) for less than £1.

Well we took packed lunches more often than not but I am not sure their maths on that stacks up.

The article says they saved £40,000 over 10 years just on the packed lunch approach. That works out as £2,000 per year each. Assuming 4 weeks annual leave plus 8 Bank Holiday days then that is 232 days per year. That works out at £8.62 per day saved. Let's assume that even a frugal packed lunch cost them something to prepare so their calculations must assume an average lunch bought from a shop costs £9. Really?

Maybe I am out of touch. I retired in 2021 and was working from home from March 2020 onwards. But I don't remember a Tesco Meal Deal costing even half that. And they apparently retired 7 years ago and were basing their calculations on the preceding 10 years so I call BS on that. Unless they assume everyone is having lunch in a restaurant every day.

Traveltart · 30/06/2026 10:26

Not read the whole thread but felt compelled to jump in to say the Donegans most certainly ARE NOT MLM. They’ve made their money through passive investing. And they don’t live miserly lives - they live abroad a lot of the time, exploring countries they’ve always been intrigued by. Often these are lower cost locations. They give out free financial literacy lessons which is why they were awarded the British Empire Medal in 2024. This would not have happened had they been scammy MLMs.

I would recommend anyone who thinks this all sounds impossible to look up their free Rebel Finance YouTube videos. They transformed my attitude to avoiding looking at pensions etc.

BlackRowan · 30/06/2026 10:29

BiteSizedLife · 30/06/2026 10:00

I mean, good for them however they did it.

Not sure I would choose to plaster it all over the papers though "look at meeeeee"

It helps them to promote their YouTube channel :)

Ohjoyohbliss · 30/06/2026 10:29

I did a bit similar, not to that extent but I scrimped and saved to pay off my mortgage early. Few (and cheap) holidays- camping in France, youth hostelling in UK and abroad. Spent evenings in the library so I didn't have to put the heating on, cycled everywhere. Ate lots of bean stews and yellow stickered foods.

I retired early with lots of exciting plans, foreign travel etc. Then Covid hit and I couldn't do any of it. That was followed by three glorious years, but last year I got cancer and now can't travel, go to shows, restaurants...

To my younger self I would say, don't get into debt if you can avoid it, but enjoy life while you are still young and healthy enough to make the most of it. Life's too short.

DJPJ · 30/06/2026 10:31

N27 · 30/06/2026 08:17

I’ve just started watching their rebel finance school free course on YouTube. To be fair I think there’s much more to them than comes across in this article.

they did take things to extremes, but they don’t appear to preach that everyone should do that. I like that they’re very keen on running your own race and not comparing your own finances to other people.

the budget tracking tools and spreadsheets they provide for free have been useful for me

So they are not retired at all? They are now just grifting of vulnerables instead?

Hellohelga · 30/06/2026 10:31

It’s not clear what form their 1m takes - house, pension, cash savings? Either way it’s not enough to retire at 35/40 and live in the UK.

42Retired · 30/06/2026 10:34

Hellohelga · 30/06/2026 10:31

It’s not clear what form their 1m takes - house, pension, cash savings? Either way it’s not enough to retire at 35/40 and live in the UK.

I’m retired and I’m doing it without having anywhere near £1m and I wasn’t an high earner. It is doable.
I get it’s not for everyone but it’s definitely doable

Schoolchoicesucks · 30/06/2026 10:38

They're the Rebel Finance School people.
They don't have kids and they sold their flat and move around the world. They don't charge for their Youtube series and they share useful and informative financial education. They don't say "you have to do what I do", they just say "this is what we're doing and this is how it works for us". They both had well paid jobs previously and their frugal lifestyle and investing at the right time means they can live off their investments.
Wouldn't work for me, but there are still things I can take out of their approach.

N27 · 30/06/2026 10:39

DJPJ · 30/06/2026 10:31

So they are not retired at all? They are now just grifting of vulnerables instead?

I don’t think they’re grifting and I don’t think I’m vulnerable so that’s quite a statement 😂

they say they are at a stage where “working is optional”

Schoolchoicesucks · 30/06/2026 10:44

Hellohelga · 30/06/2026 10:31

It’s not clear what form their 1m takes - house, pension, cash savings? Either way it’s not enough to retire at 35/40 and live in the UK.

No property - they don't have kids and travel so they don't need a stable base and see cash tied up in property as not working hard enough for them, they sold up and invested in tracker funds essentially. I guess some in pensions but a big chunk in ISAs and other investments.
They say they lose money running Rebel Finance School - that it costs more than they receive from advertising income.
I guess they might have book sales and don't know if they charge for events and things.
I think they shared their actual net worth and expenditure as part of the course - they have several million invested and the returns exceed their living costs annually.

AImportantMermaid · 30/06/2026 10:44

Isn’t this like Kirsty Allsopp who bangs on about buying a house at age 21 and it turns out she got a chunk of the deposit from her father - the multi-millionaire Baron Allsopp? 😂

BillieWiper · 30/06/2026 10:45

Maybe that's how my dad retired early. He never ate lunch!?

It seems daft though because if you stop earning at 40 odd then you'd have to continue to be frugal for the rest of your life to make it last till you die. Which seems shite.

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 30/06/2026 10:46

Choccyp1g · 30/06/2026 10:17

But most of us don't even earn £60k before tax, so cannot possibly put that much into pensions.

Thanks, but that wasn't my point.

My point is, if you can't look at the entire concept of financial planning for retirement and change just a few small things based on their advice, then you can dismiss it. Because no, I can't put away 60k a year.

But if I'd known more about financial planning and investments, I'd have accused.ulated a lot more by now. We put down a 20% deposit on our house 10 years ago. Interest rates were very low. If we'd only put down a 10% deposit, and had invested the other 10%, we'd have been much better off. Same with overpaying the mortgage.

If you think that you don't need a single piece of financial advice that can improve your standing, crack on.

If you think you could improve your present or future lifestyle - then maybe put your pride aside and read the advice and see what you could implement?

I'm proud of my friend, and jealous too. But as I say, I would think myself an idiot if I ignored her success and ignored every possibility.

TheSeventh · 30/06/2026 10:51

I'd have to save ALL of my wages for 40 years to save up £1million.

Bridesmaidorexfriend · 30/06/2026 10:56

Bellybellas · 30/06/2026 07:59

Obviously if you save most of your earnings, especially on two high incomes, you’re going to save a lot!!

Which is actually quite a boring premise for an article- ‘Couple earning good money have been saving their their money so they can retire early’

Traveltart · 30/06/2026 11:02

TheSeventh · 30/06/2026 10:51

I'd have to save ALL of my wages for 40 years to save up £1million.

Only if you left the money in a bank account where inflation erodes its value @TheSeventh. I want to give you an example: I had what I thought was a crappy pension that I hadn’t checked on for about two years. The last time I checked, it was worth a few tens of thousands. Imagine my surprise when I phoned up full of bluster to discover that in fact, it had grown to about 200k. What was a piffling amount previously suddenly looked good. That wasn’t because I was earning loads - in fact, I had stopped paying into it as I had swapped jobs. It was due to the effects of the market compounding. Google Rebel Finance on YouTube. It’s 101 personal finance for dummies - I include myself here and 99% of the UK population. The best time to have acted was yesterday. Second best time is today etc!

MrsKeats · 30/06/2026 11:03

This ‘jam tomorrow’ approach has a major flaw I think.
How do you know you will be alive in 10/20/30 years to enjoy the money? Or even in good health so you can do what you want?
We have big pension pots but not at the expense of enjoying our lives.

Traveltart · 30/06/2026 11:03

As for the couple being high earners, I know plenty of high earners who are ‘skint’ or having nothing left to show for it once they leave their jobs because they spend everything they earn. Lifestyle inflation on top of actual inflation means they do nothing to build their wealth.

The way to create wealth is to grow the gap between your income and your spending and invest that gap.

Traveltart · 30/06/2026 11:07

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 30/06/2026 10:46

Thanks, but that wasn't my point.

My point is, if you can't look at the entire concept of financial planning for retirement and change just a few small things based on their advice, then you can dismiss it. Because no, I can't put away 60k a year.

But if I'd known more about financial planning and investments, I'd have accused.ulated a lot more by now. We put down a 20% deposit on our house 10 years ago. Interest rates were very low. If we'd only put down a 10% deposit, and had invested the other 10%, we'd have been much better off. Same with overpaying the mortgage.

If you think that you don't need a single piece of financial advice that can improve your standing, crack on.

If you think you could improve your present or future lifestyle - then maybe put your pride aside and read the advice and see what you could implement?

I'm proud of my friend, and jealous too. But as I say, I would think myself an idiot if I ignored her success and ignored every possibility.

I could have written this. We were thrilled with our offset mortgage years ago and proceeded to chuck everything at it. What fools! We now sit in a house that’s probably dropping in value, have some investments but we would have been millionaires had we put even a fraction of that mortgage money into the market.

Dalesway · 30/06/2026 11:11

kateclarke · 30/06/2026 09:15

I am a single mum who works 2 days a week as a band 5 nurse. I did their course online and followed the plan. I now earn more in interest on my investments than I do in my job. It does sound too good to be true but is working for me.

Are you saying your interest tops up your pay to a full time equivalent salary?
Otherwise if you're supporting a family on 2 days pay you need to be publicising your own finance guide!

Blackcatahotcat · 30/06/2026 11:12

Tomorrow is not guaranteed to any of us. I live in the moment. I couldn’t imagine depriving myself for a future I might not have x

Overwhelmedandtired · 30/06/2026 11:17

If it makes them happy, great, but to me it isn't a quality of life I aspire to. You need to live for now and plan/prepare (as much as possible) for the future, but that future isn't guaranteed.

You can also find jobs that are fulfilling. Maybe they hated theirs, but there are ways to find something you enjoy that also pays. Not for everyone, but would prefer to keep that as a goal. Find a fulfilling job, contribute to my local community, enjoy fun things with my friends and family, while putting a bit aside for a more comfortable retirement in the future.

BakedPotatoBeansCheeseColeslaw · 30/06/2026 11:17

Meridas · 30/06/2026 08:00

It doesn't say what they're doing with their retirement. Do they still live equally frugally to make that £1M last another 40 odd years?

I wondered that too - £1m isn’t what it used to be and wouldn’t go very far over 40-50 years. It’s £20,000 a year notwithstanding they would obviously make some interest on that but it’s still not going to be a luxury lifestyle.

Personally I would rather try and be sensible and aim to retire around 55-60 knowing that I haven’t put my life on hold for an unpromised future.

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