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AIBU to tell the kids playing outside to be quiet?

11 replies

PaddyTheSaddy · 29/06/2026 20:26

As the title says, AIBU to ask the kids outside to stop screaming. We live in dead end street and the houses at each end of the street have kids aged I say 5-11 (I also have similar aged kids and so do every other house on the street plus a couple of babies). Our house is half way between the 2 and they end up playing outside of our house every night which is absolutely fine in itself, it’s nice hearing kids play.

But the little kid just SCREAMS constantly. Screams at his brother, screams and his friends, just continuous. Our living room is at the front of the house, we have the telly on and we can hear the screeching above the tv as I type this. It’s every single night And it’s beginning to wind me up. They’ve also hit our window, front door and cars before with their football (the car is on the drive but they just boot it, I’ve always gone out and spoken to them when I have heard this happen). Ironically we live 10 steps from a park which has ample room to play football.

I have tried to speak to his mum before about him playing right on the corner (it’s a blind bend, she lets him out to play alone even though he’s about 5 years old and I’m worried he’s going to get hit by a car) but she doesn’t speak very good English so I’m not sure if to approach her again

but I also don’t want to be a Scrooge when it is just kids playing. And to make it clear again, kids having a good time playing is a lovely sound, kids screeching and screaming at the top of their lungs from 4-8.30 every evening is not a nice sound

OP posts:
AfogatoFirenze · 29/06/2026 20:31

My neighbours shout

'stop whinging you little fucker'

you could try that?! 😂

PaddyTheSaddy · 29/06/2026 20:32

@AfogatoFirenze I’ll give it a go and report back 🤣

OP posts:
Blueseudeshoes · 29/06/2026 20:35

It annoys me when parents allow this! They can hear there children, playing noise is fine but if there child is shrieking outside someone elses home they should be telling them to stop!
next time it happens ask them to do it outside there own living room window see how there parents enjoy the screams haha

happywifeandlife · 29/06/2026 20:49

Blueseudeshoes · 29/06/2026 20:35

It annoys me when parents allow this! They can hear there children, playing noise is fine but if there child is shrieking outside someone elses home they should be telling them to stop!
next time it happens ask them to do it outside there own living room window see how there parents enjoy the screams haha

The parents are just happy they’re not doing it indoors!

If they haven’t done anything about it so far OP, they clearly don’t give a crap so nothing will change if you mention it, except the risk of gaining a permanent enemy and your house possibly targeted by the kids - just for the giggles!

Your option is to put up with it or move!

PancakeCloud · 29/06/2026 20:51

I doubt you telling them to be quiet would help, even if it were reasonable. Maybe get some noise cancelling headphones?

Ilikewinter · 29/06/2026 20:59

I would go out and shout at them, I'd also keep the ball when it hit my car or window!

canuckup · 29/06/2026 21:01

Yes just tell them

'doesn't speak English' 😂 my eye

Livelovelaughfuckoff · 29/06/2026 21:03

DH used to give the neighbour kids short shrift about using our driveway as a goal and told them to use play outside their own houses. He may have also shouted stop kicking the fucking ball against the fucking fence (literally was every thirty seconds).

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 29/06/2026 21:51

PancakeCloud · 29/06/2026 20:51

I doubt you telling them to be quiet would help, even if it were reasonable. Maybe get some noise cancelling headphones?

While she’s trying to watch the telly with her family?

Much easier and cheaper to tell them to stop screaming.
I’ve done it myself a couple of times, when the neighbours kids are being very shrill and getting over excited.

NotSmallButFunSize · 29/06/2026 22:01

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 29/06/2026 21:51

While she’s trying to watch the telly with her family?

Much easier and cheaper to tell them to stop screaming.
I’ve done it myself a couple of times, when the neighbours kids are being very shrill and getting over excited.

Also, why should anyone have to sit in their own home wearing bloody headphones cos of other people's screeching kids??

Fuck that!

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 29/06/2026 22:21

I thought DH was being a bit mean when he told some kids to go play somewhere else- the park or their own house. But he’s right. They play next to our house, 2 foot from our lounge window. The ball has hit the house, window, and behind our fencing- not always the same kids, but always our house.
Their parents wouldn’t stand for it at their house, right by their lounge, so why should we?

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