I have zero idea if I’m losing my mind. My DP is a bit moody but I’ve never known this period time of him being moody. We live together and have done for 3 years. He has 2 children from a previous relationship.
I thought it was the heat, so didn’t say much about it. Didn’t initiate any contact, no physical affection, just generally shitty and snappy with him. Examples like, if I made his children dinner I’d given them the wrong plates (the ones we always use), and that you don’t eat potatoes with a fork. The kids then mimicked him and made me look stupid “silly Minnie doesn’t know how to eat potatoes”.
He recently told me he wanted to reduce his drinking and “not take the piss” as he’s out near enough every night and then goes to the pub after with his mates for around an hour. Sometimes this means I’m left with the kids alone, albeit they’re asleep. So I took his word for that, but on Friday he did his hobby and then went the pub… I pointed his out and he said “I don’t need your judgements, it’s the weekend”.
I tried to be nice to him all weekend, went to see him do his hobby all day on Saturday and bought the kids games they’d wanted. But he’s just been so so cold - not talking, one word answers, just moody.
I was paying our bills last night and he was muttering under his breath that I was texting and not watching the tv with him… what?
Also tmi but we usually have sex daily but haven’t for around a week now.
I asked him if anything was wrong but he said im paranoid, im creating a strange narrative in my head and im being very strange.
Today he came in with his kids to my home office and they all started playing there. I politely asked them to go downstairs til id finished. Dp smirked at me. I said “this is what i mean, what’s up?” And he told me to go to a doctor.
I’m so fed up with my life.