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AIBU to feel helpless about a large asylum camp in our village?

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putupwhatever · 29/06/2026 16:15

My village has been chosen for a 1500 open asylum camp for single men. It will be an open camp (as the men haven't done anything wrong so aren't detained.)

The thing is the village only has 700 people and it is pretty isolated. it's about 10 miles to the nearest city and you can walk to another small village. There is a playpark, a pub and a primary school.

It has to go through planning, but the government have changed the planning laws so that they grant themselves planning and you can't see it as it is deemed sensitive. So they will just grant themselves planning and you can't oppose it without a judicial review--by which time it will probably be already open.

They want to reduce the number of people in hotels. But am AIBU to think that this puts the burden of sorting these issues out on one tiny community? Feels like we are collateral damage to be honest. The community will be outnumbered 2 to 1 and it feels too much. There is nothing for them to do or places to go. Also the fact that it is all single men put in one massive place with no money or means or anything to do is going to lead to problems

Apparently the camps cost £10 less a night than the hotels. But they don't count the set up costs which are astronomical (the one in Essex was £47 million to set up). So it seems like it's not not even cheaper than the problem it is trying to solve but much more expensive.

AIBU to feel a bit helpless? It seems so unfair but there is nothing I can do. We wouldn't be able to move from the village anyway as no one would buy a house here.

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Anyahyacinth · 29/06/2026 19:31

EasternStandard · 29/06/2026 19:29

Which one?

It looks unlikely there have been no issues related to it.

Based on official data from the Home Office and local police forces, there is no active UK asylum military site that has had zero recorded incidents of crime, anti-social behaviour, or internal tension.

Because of the high concentration of hundreds of single adult men housed together in isolated environments for long periods, all major operational bases have registered various forms of incident reporting.

Nope former prison college used to house asylum seekers ..I am streets away no problems…the indigenous population tons of criminality

EasternStandard · 29/06/2026 19:31

CaptainMyCaptain · 29/06/2026 19:29

I wasn't troll hunting I was responding in kind to your post about other posters pretending to be something they're not. You seem to have been accused of being a troll more than once before 🤷‍♀️ but not by me.

And? It doesn’t mean she is, but posts saying it again will get deleted.

LuckyHazelFox · 29/06/2026 19:31

CaptainMyCaptain · 29/06/2026 19:29

I wasn't troll hunting I was responding in kind to your post about other posters pretending to be something they're not. You seem to have been accused of being a troll more than once before 🤷‍♀️ but not by me.

If you were making a generalised reply about being anything we want to be, fine. You weren't. You used an example which was obvious as to its purpose.

GracieGinny · 29/06/2026 19:32

angelos02 · 29/06/2026 16:50

I absolutely feel for you OP. I would love to know how many of all of these do-gooders wouldn't object if it was on their doorstep. The stats on crimes in these scenarios speak for themselves.

The hotels and HMOs are on my doorstep and I’m not objecting.

Dollymylove · 29/06/2026 19:32

Oncemorewithsome · 29/06/2026 19:21

I think it’s quite sad for the asylum seekers - who won’t have access to public transport to be stuck in a tiny village. I live in a city right next to a home office hotel (5mins walk) and it’s absolutely fine. I think they should be in cities. Much better for everyone.

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They will be given free bus passes into York yippee!!

OhGraciousMe · 29/06/2026 19:33

putupwhatever · 29/06/2026 16:38

The other thing is that it is really difficult to talk about. You've got a group of people than think you are racist to object to it at all and it will all be lovely and fine, and then there all the other side salivating about coming and causing trouble.

The village is literally just one road with couple going off it and it's so weird to see it in the national news. There is nothing here.

Those men wanting to come up and "cause trouble" are the ones who know exactly what can happen when you have 1,500 fighting aged men descend upon an isolated village.

Suicidal empathy.

RisingSunn · 29/06/2026 19:33

Anyahyacinth · 29/06/2026 19:24

You know people said this about the medieval poll tax and roaming young men. I live by a large asylum resettlement centre and we have no issues. The local indigenous population are our criminals

Would you say that you have a similar ratio of asylum seekers/locals to OP?

Also are there things for asylum seekers to do in your area?

I think these things make a difference.

CaptainMyCaptain · 29/06/2026 19:34

EasternStandard · 29/06/2026 19:31

And? It doesn’t mean she is, but posts saying it again will get deleted.

I didn't say she was.

EasternStandard · 29/06/2026 19:35

Anyahyacinth · 29/06/2026 19:31

Nope former prison college used to house asylum seekers ..I am streets away no problems…the indigenous population tons of criminality

No active UK asylum facility is a former "prison college," and no former prisons currently hold asylum seekers

Anyahyacinth · 29/06/2026 19:35

Onmytod24 · 29/06/2026 19:08

Yeah, maybe they’re a bit about having nothing to do. That’s a good point as you live in such a warm community. Perhaps you could think of some things to do. I don’t know. Maybe have a football team that you could challenge maybe have a gardening club you could invite them to there’s lots of things you could do because you’ve got British values, haven’t you?

That happens with our city dwelling asylum seekers they are part of our local church community, social groups, volunteer, contribute in art projects and loads more …makes our city so much more vibrant

WhatFreshHelll · 29/06/2026 19:35

@Anyahyacinth you must have a tribe from outer space ! It's not statistically possible to have so many men /people and not one be a trouble maker

caringcarer · 29/06/2026 19:36

Lavender14 · 29/06/2026 16:24

"The community will be outnumbered 2 to 1 "

This is a really unhelpful way to look at it and it kind of speaks to an 'us and them' mentality op. That part I would say really isn't a fair thing and is your exposure to stereotypes speaking. I've worked extensively with single asylum seeking males and ALL of them bar none have been nothing but respectful individuals who were really keen to learn English, learn our culture, build a home and a life for themselves so they could get female or elderly relatives to safety. Most of them were strongly opposed to any sort of extremism which is what they were often running from. I have never ever felt unsafe working with them in the way I have with some local men.

Aside from that I think you are right to be concerned about the impact on community infrastructure which is a totally separate issue. I'd be asking council for their plans around access to healthcare and services that promote health, wellbeing and inclusion.

What I would also say is that for a small village this will likely bring a lot of money to your local shops, volunteers for local charity groups and probably new visitors to your local churches. So your community, if they approach this right, will have the benefit of people with free time and skills/ abilities to lend which is
in real decline in the current climate.

You have clearly not met the ones like near to me that cat call the local young girls walking past them. It's no longer safe for females to be out after dark. In a town 28 miles from us one of these men raped a 13 year old girl.

nolongeranutjob · 29/06/2026 19:36

Lavender14 · 29/06/2026 16:24

"The community will be outnumbered 2 to 1 "

This is a really unhelpful way to look at it and it kind of speaks to an 'us and them' mentality op. That part I would say really isn't a fair thing and is your exposure to stereotypes speaking. I've worked extensively with single asylum seeking males and ALL of them bar none have been nothing but respectful individuals who were really keen to learn English, learn our culture, build a home and a life for themselves so they could get female or elderly relatives to safety. Most of them were strongly opposed to any sort of extremism which is what they were often running from. I have never ever felt unsafe working with them in the way I have with some local men.

Aside from that I think you are right to be concerned about the impact on community infrastructure which is a totally separate issue. I'd be asking council for their plans around access to healthcare and services that promote health, wellbeing and inclusion.

What I would also say is that for a small village this will likely bring a lot of money to your local shops, volunteers for local charity groups and probably new visitors to your local churches. So your community, if they approach this right, will have the benefit of people with free time and skills/ abilities to lend which is
in real decline in the current climate.

We were fed this sort of stuff in my area when a large number of single male asylum seekers were housed here. Many many women complained of harrassment, intimidation, demands for money, staring and leering, stalking etc. They were all dismissed as being racists and liars.

Asylum seekers are not allowed to work so they don't bring any money into the community, and as they are not allowed to work any skills they have are not able to be utilised. Obviously this is the law in this country and not their fault.

@putupwhatever use your own judgement as to whether large numbers of single men whose origin and criminal background are unknown are total safe to be around women and girls. Don't be taken in by people who have no knowledge of their past life assuring you they are safe, be very cautious.

This was entirely predictable when school children were being targeted.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4g4x2zyer2o

Ahmad Mulakhil wears a light brown vest. He has curly black hair over his forehead and slight black stubble.

Afghan asylum seeker jailed for raping girl, 12, in Nuneaton

The sex attack carried out by Ahmad Mulakhil in Nuneaton in July last year led to protests.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4g4x2zyer2o

LuckyHazelFox · 29/06/2026 19:36

Anyahyacinth · 29/06/2026 19:35

That happens with our city dwelling asylum seekers they are part of our local church community, social groups, volunteer, contribute in art projects and loads more …makes our city so much more vibrant

Is that in between their return visits?

Anyahyacinth · 29/06/2026 19:37

caringcarer · 29/06/2026 19:36

You have clearly not met the ones like near to me that cat call the local young girls walking past them. It's no longer safe for females to be out after dark. In a town 28 miles from us one of these men raped a 13 year old girl.

The local population don't cat call and harm women?

Anyahyacinth · 29/06/2026 19:38

WhatFreshHelll · 29/06/2026 19:35

@Anyahyacinth you must have a tribe from outer space ! It's not statistically possible to have so many men /people and not one be a trouble maker

So you’d like to curfew all men?

caringcarer · 29/06/2026 19:38

Honestly I'd try to sell my house fast taking a loss on it if need be to move away. It's not fair to house so many single immigrants in such a small area so locals are outnumbered. Houses will be unsellable so no one will be able to move. Your best bet is if Reform get in and send them back to wherever they came from.

Anyahyacinth · 29/06/2026 19:38

EasternStandard · 29/06/2026 19:35

No active UK asylum facility is a former "prison college," and no former prisons currently hold asylum seekers

You are incorrect..maybe look for information somewhere other than TikTok ..

Allseeingallknowing · 29/06/2026 19:39

5128gap · 29/06/2026 19:13

I think there's a mid point. Which, for me, would be to ask questions of the elected officials in the area, MP, councillors about the issues of concern. So I'd want to know:
What additional resources are being made available to cope with this sudden population surge, GP, police etc?
What facilities are being provided for the men for leisure/entertainment to prevent undue stress on local facilities or them hanging around with nothing to do?
What steps have been taken to ensure the men are of good character and to ensure they are aware of local customs and etiquette to reduce likelihood of crime/nuisance?
What reviews are planned to monitor the program and the impact on the local community?
What facilities are in place to address any concerns arising for residents?
These questions can't go unanswered by officials and asking them often helps more than signing petitions or staging protests which are typically ignored.

How on earth can you check that these men are of good character?

LuckyHazelFox · 29/06/2026 19:39

nolongeranutjob · 29/06/2026 19:36

We were fed this sort of stuff in my area when a large number of single male asylum seekers were housed here. Many many women complained of harrassment, intimidation, demands for money, staring and leering, stalking etc. They were all dismissed as being racists and liars.

Asylum seekers are not allowed to work so they don't bring any money into the community, and as they are not allowed to work any skills they have are not able to be utilised. Obviously this is the law in this country and not their fault.

@putupwhatever use your own judgement as to whether large numbers of single men whose origin and criminal background are unknown are total safe to be around women and girls. Don't be taken in by people who have no knowledge of their past life assuring you they are safe, be very cautious.

This was entirely predictable when school children were being targeted.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4g4x2zyer2o

Our girls are being let down and we are helpless.

Anyahyacinth · 29/06/2026 19:40

LuckyHazelFox · 29/06/2026 19:36

Is that in between their return visits?

I said settled..do you understand the asylum process?

Allseeingallknowing · 29/06/2026 19:40

caringcarer · 29/06/2026 19:38

Honestly I'd try to sell my house fast taking a loss on it if need be to move away. It's not fair to house so many single immigrants in such a small area so locals are outnumbered. Houses will be unsellable so no one will be able to move. Your best bet is if Reform get in and send them back to wherever they came from.

They will have the same problem as other parties, ECHR lawyers will prevent them being deported. It would be very hard to leave the ECHR

NameChangeAgain48 · 29/06/2026 19:40

Allseeingallknowing · 29/06/2026 18:43

There are not enough houses for those who have been waiting for years on the council list! Understandably they are resentful when migrants are housed first.
They won’t all work either, which is another benefits burden. There are plenty of able people in the U.K. who don’t work. Then those granted asylum will be bringing their wives and children over. They will want schools and healthcare. There are already too many who come here legally. How do you propose we deal with these issues?

There is a difference between a migrant and an asylum seeker, and it's important not to blend or mix the two. An asylum seeker is someone fleeing war, violence or persecution who is asking for protection. Not someone moving here for economic reasons. I don't think this should be about "us versus them." We have a moral duty to help people who are genuinely fleeing conflict and persecution. I completely understand concerns about housing and public services. Those problems are not because of asylum seekers they are due to years of underinvestment and poor planning. We shouldnt turn our backs on people fleeing persecution. We need to manage the system properly and quickly so people can work and contribute, and return people whose claims are refused.

LuckyHazelFox · 29/06/2026 19:41

Anyahyacinth · 29/06/2026 19:40

I said settled..do you understand the asylum process?

You didn't answer as to why it's suddenly safe to return to their country. Do you understand the question?

caringcarer · 29/06/2026 19:41

Anyahyacinth · 29/06/2026 19:37

The local population don't cat call and harm women?

No groups of 30 or 40 local men don't hang around in a large group, shouting in a language they don't understand, gesturing, staring and making them feel unsafe.

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