Basically me and my NDN moved in at the same time as me a few years back.
After initially having an argument over parking we quickly bonded and became good friends.
She was a single parent to a newborn and I often gave advice, went to each other's
houses for tea etc.
My friend was housed a few doors down (our kids are in the same class at school and by pure chance we both bid on same house and were allocated houses a few doors down from each other ) has always gotten bad vibes about her.
Always talking about other neighbours and having that mean girl vibe about about her.
Her other NDN dosent engage with her at all as she finds her too nosy and intrusive after she began letting it be known she was monitoring her on the ring door bell.
Anyway she was always nice to me but she has now began a serious relationship and the dynamics of the friendship has changed.
Before she would talk for ages and we would have a good chat, she would always bring by bin in as she finishes work before me.
Now I have to say hello to her first and today all she said was "Hi" when I saw her.
Its like a funny atmosphere which began as soon as her boyfriend moved in.
Its just as funny atmosphere in general.
Maybe I am over thinking it but I have registered for a move (was thinking about it after splitting up with my ex) but it's not a nice feeling when I was nice to her when she has nobody and would listen to her talk for hours about her problems and now she doesn't even want to say hello.
AIBU to feel used?